just got kicked out of the mall

[Majed]

so i was doing pick up as usual and a few minutes ago, i got kicked out of the mall and the guy said that i can never come back. what do you think i should do ? 

[Consept]

Probably not go back to the mall 

[Javfly33]

The mall is such a place you have to do moderate pick-up, because obviously is not just out on the street it's a private place. So don't go as hard next time in the next mall.

Edited January 28, 2023 by Javfly33

[Majed]

@Javfly33 i wasn't even going that hard but anyway do you think i should take the threats of the guy seriously ? after all it's ridiculous to ban someone from a mall just for approaching girls 

[assx95]

You're a winner bruv! I don't know where you live. But you are a winner. Keep at it. 

[Applegarden8]

Gigachad, take it as a compliment and don't take it too personally I guess.

Edited January 28, 2023 by Applegarden8

[Michael Jackson]

5 minutes ago, Applegarden8 said:

Gigachad

@Applegarden8 I heard my name?

[something_else]

47 minutes ago, Majed said:

after all it's ridiculous to ban someone from a mall just for approaching girls 

No, no it is not ridiculous. Malls aren’t meant to be particularly sociable places and there’s a good chance you end up annoying or creeping girls out if you’re doing forward approaches.

If you’re gonna talk to girls in a mall you gotta be more subtle, but honestly I wouldn’t say it’s a great place to begin with unless you have an actual reason to be there that isn’t picking up girls

[Javfly33]

50 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Javfly33 i wasn't even going that hard but anyway do you think i should take the threats of the guy seriously ? after all it's ridiculous to ban someone from a mall just for approaching girls 

It might be but since its private place they decide who they allow to enter the mall

[hoodrow trillson]

The security guard is just shit testing you.  Go back to the mall and game some more, you might land a hottie.

[Majed]

@Leo Gurahave you been kicked out from a place before forever while doing pick up ?

[Leo Gura]

Stay out of there for a few months at least. Then you could try to come back and gently test the waters.

Find other places to game in the meantime.

[Leo Gura]

15 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Leo Gurahave you been kicked out from a place before forever while doing pick up ?

I've gotten kicked out a few times from places, but never perma-banned.

I know a lot of guys in Vegas who have been perma-banned from certain casinos & clubs. It usually happens because they are way too aggressive and spammy with their approaches. You need to learn to do smoother, low-key approaches. Don't make yourself too noticeable. Also, dress well and don't look like a stalker/creep.

Edited January 28, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Majed]

@Leo Gura alright thanks for your wisdom 

[Majed]

@Leo Gura btw how do you know when someone is perma banned ?

 

[Leo Gura]

1 minute ago, Majed said:

@Leo Gura btw how do you know when someone is perma banned ?

They tell me, Lol.

[Majed]

@Leo Gura i meant if the security guard tells you to never come back is it the same as a perma ban ? and if so is it okay to come back a few months later testing the waters ? 

Edited January 28, 2023 by Majed

[Leo Gura]

8 minutes ago, Majed said:

@Leo Gura i meant if the security guard tells you to never come back is it the same as a perma ban ?

I would consider that a perma-ban, however, a security guard rarely has the authority to perma-ban you. That usually has to go up to higher-ups to decide and make a record.

So in your case it sounds like soft perma-ban. A hard perma-ban is when they take your ID, write your name down, and tell you that if you ever come that they will arrest you for trespassing.

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and if so is it okay to come back a few months later testing the waters ? 

Usually yes. Unless it was a hard perma-ban.

Hard perma-ban usually means they threaten to arrest you for trespassing if you return. Although this might vary in your region.

The chances of them arresting you for coming back to a mall are very low if you're not doing anything wacky. All they'll do is just tell you to leave again.

Edited January 28, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Majed]

@Leo Gura actually they asked for my name and i gave it to them, and they told me that if i ever come back they're gonna do something bad to me, but yeah as you said i will come back a few months later to test the waters. 

actually a noticeable reason is that today the mall wasn't very crowded so i was noticeable 

[Majed]

@Leo Gura actually i was gaming in this mall for a year and nothing very crazy happened with the security until today