Should I as a 21 year old female remain single until..

[Leo Gura]

25 minutes ago, Lila9 said:

"sorry it can't work, I'm more advanced than you"

I'm stealing this line for every social interaction.

Edited January 23, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Leo Gura]

18 minutes ago, LastThursday said:

? The truth burns make it stop! ?

I suppose I could throw in a monkey wrench into that dynamic and see where it lands.

Don't do anything you don't wanna do.

Not a monkey wrench, a truth wrench

[Ulax]

10 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

I'm stealing this line

@Leo Gura ?

[Leo Gura]

5 minutes ago, Ulax said:

@Leo Gura ?

Flight attendant says my bag cannot fit in overhead bin...

29 minutes ago, Lila9 said:

"sorry it can't work, I'm more advanced than you"

 

[Rafael Thundercat]

Breath

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CnwYRYNsNx-/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

 

[The Mystical Man]

When you're young, relationships don't mean anything. They're a waste of time. Focus on things that will actually matter in the long-run. 

[Hibahere]

@Leo Gura I would agree with you on this. Maybe ill have to live with some regret for a while like others are saying, or maybe ill make the stupid decision of asking him to come back...my monkey mind is all over the place lol. Cognitive dissonance but I'm definitely more pulled towards being single for a while.

[Hibahere]

@soos_mite_ah thank you that was so inspirational 

[Girzo]

Lower your physical attraction standards. More guys to choose from. 

I would say the same if I was giving advice to men.

People want to be in partnership with someone developed who also ticks all the other boxes. There's a very low probability of finding such person. If someone is super hot, wealthy, and DEVELOPED, then chances are they are already taken, because they are rare, because development needs challenge. Without challenge most people get spoiled. People also get broken from too much challange, so your best bet to find someone psychologically and spiritualy developed is to look for mediocre guys. Most of them will be just that, mediocre, and some will have to offer what you are looking for.

You have to trade something for something. Decide what you really value in men, and weight options accordingly.

What character traits are a must for you, which are not, etc.

Oh, and in the end it's not really about the guy. Your relationships will be as easy as you make it. You have to know your psyche, you have to be stable, plan for difficulties. By difficulties, I mean something like this "I know I will be stressed during the exams, maybe communicate that to each other and not do anything rush during the month I have exams, cool it down." Or stuff like these. I hope you get a gist. My girlfriend and I communicate like that and offer each other support all the time, no drama.

If you can't do that for now, don't know how, then it's not a bad idea to stay single for a year or two, or five even, heh, but only if you are seriously developing yourself. Because otherwise the guys you have rejected because they weren't developed enough might end up more developed and more grown up than you.

[Michael Jackson]

Marry me.

[Hibahere]

@Girzo I really like your reply. Its something practical and wise. 

[Manusia]

I think It's important to remember that not every relationship is meant to be long-term and that it's okay to end things if they're not working out.

It's also important to take time for yourself to focus on your own growth and self-actualization. It's possible that you may meet someone in the future who aligns with your values and goals, believe me actually I met the girl that match most value of myself. I think intuition can lead you to find the most compatible person with.

Can't agree no more with @soos_mite_ah

On 1/23/2023 at 10:03 PM, soos_mite_ah said:

Especially in between relationships. You aren't going to regret being picky in this aspect of your life. 

But it's also important to be content and happy being single.

It may be helpful to set some specific goals for yourself in terms of your personal and professional development, you can surround yourself with supportive and positive friends and mentors.

Remember, it's never too late to make positive changes in your life and to manifest the things you really want. 

[Hibahere]

@Manusia thank you so much you really motivated me with the intuition part. And yes I definitely have some goal I wanna achieve.Im at my best when my belief is strongest