How should one look at flaking from females

[StarStruck]

What struck me in Leo’s latest video is that he said that how you view females will be reflected by females. 

I asked myself how I view females and this was the answer: I find them highly unreliable because of their flakey nature. I don’t hate them for it but I do see it as a handicap and something to calculate into things. 

Females are just more emotional than males so it makes sense they flake. It is not only with dating I noticed but across the board (for example in business) females are more unreliable than males … in my experience. 

That is why they say “give a man’s word” and not “give a females word”. 

And this is not only my experience. Any honest man will admit the same thing. Perhaps there are exceptions but not a lot. Even on this “high consciousness forum” we can search on the word “flake” in the engine and you will see which gender pops up. 

Just viewing females in a positive light doesn’t make them more reliable. It is just the nature of the beast because they are emotional creatures. They compensate in other ways but that doesn’t change this trait.

 

[max duewel]

The reason why woman flake on you is not that females are unreliable but that you want them to have sex with you and they don't want that in some cases

[NoSelfSelf]

Why she will rely on you while you cant even rely on yourself?

[something_else]

You get numbed to it after a while and stop caring about flaking. It's just something you gotta deal with. The less you give a fuck the less flaking happens anyway

[StarStruck]

21 minutes ago, max duewel said:

The reason why woman flake on you is not that females are unreliable but that you want them to have sex with you and they don't want that in some cases

I want to have sex with a female business client that is 40 year older than me? I didn’t know that. Thanks. 

[max duewel]

seems like I was projecting there sorry

[StarStruck]

35 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

Why she will rely on you while you cant even rely on yourself?

My female therapist is continually flaking on me and last week she forgot her appointment with me. How is trust in myself a factor in this ordeal? With my male therapists  I never experienced any problems like this. 

[Leo Gura]

Women are flakey. But this has nothing to do with what I said.

Edited January 19, 2023 by Leo Gura

[NoSelfSelf]

@StarStruck Because you put trust in someone that is like that, shows me you are the one who is relying on her vs you not caring or changing the therapist; meaning you are not trusting yourself being self sufficient on your own so you complain about them being flakey if you can rely on yourself then you dont care move on(change them) and accepting how they are...talking about it like its a problem is you not relying on yourself your decision,judgments and you being in a drivers seat...

[Tyler Robinson]

There's one thing that women don't flake on - 

Raising a child. 

 

[StarStruck]

38 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

@StarStruck Because you put trust in someone that is like that, shows me you are the one who is relying on her vs you not caring or changing the therapist; meaning you are not trusting yourself being self sufficient on your own so you complain about them being flakey if you can rely on yourself then you dont care move on(change them) and accepting how they are...talking about it like its a problem is you not relying on yourself your decision,judgments and you being in a drivers seat...

Yesterday I fired her.. She didn’t understand me which proved my point. She treated me like shit for weeks and when I fired her she softened up on me listening to my demands. Too late bitch  

I trust myself in every aspect of my life but that doesn’t change the flakey nature of women. That is on them, not on me.

if any factor, that might contribute to flakey behavior by women, is that I’m a nice guy.

Im treated as shit if I’m nice …. and every time I act like a dick I’m treated as a king.  I’m slowly losing my patience. 

Edited January 19, 2023 by StarStruck

[StarStruck]

1 hour ago, Tyler Robinson said:

There's one thing that women don't flake on - 

Raising a child. 

 

I hate to break it to ya

[Leo Gura]

As long as you train yourself never to expect anything from her, she will never flake on you

God help you otherwise.

Edited January 19, 2023 by Leo Gura

[StarStruck]

5 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

As long as you train yourself never to expect anything from her, she will never flake on you

God help you otherwise.

Omg, that is so true: women don't like pressure. I did expect a lot from my therapist according to her. I just wanted to meet her once a week though which is a reasonable demand in my eyes.

[NoSelfSelf]

31 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

As long as you train yourself never to expect anything from her, she will never flake on you

God help you otherwise.

Thats what i was traying to say its you expecting things like dont be flakey,dont be this and that you should rely only on yourself simply put...in practical level its more to it so you dont turn it into another manipulation like acting nicely...

[mr_engineer]

@StarStruck Go for smarter women, raise your standards. 

Someone who flakes on you doesn't respect you. And you should pick up on that before asking them out. They're generally not going to have good communication-skills either, which is why they break their word. Cuz that's what we're really talking about when we talk about flaking. 

Never put up with this behavior. She flakes once, you delete her number and forget about her. No time for morons. And have a similar attitude towards other bullshit manipulation-games and 'shit-tests'. It's all stupidity. Cut it out. 

Edited January 19, 2023 by mr_engineer

[StarStruck]

6 minutes ago, mr_engineer said:

@StarStruck Go for smarter women, raise your standards. 

Someone who flakes on you doesn't respect you. And you should pick up on that before asking them out. They're generally not going to have good communication-skills either, which is why they break their word. Cuz that's what we're really talking about when we talk about flaking. 

Never put up with this behavior. She flakes once, you delete her number and forget about her. No time for morons. And have a similar attitude towards other manipulation-games and 'shit-tests'. It's all stupidity. Cut it out. 

Educated women flake more than uneducated women. I noticed this both in private and business. This is even the case with female therapists who suppose to be reliable and semi sane.

Edited January 19, 2023 by StarStruck

[mr_engineer]

3 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Educated women flake more than uneducated women. I noticed this both in private and business. This is even the case with female therapists who suppose to be reliable and semi sane.

Then they're educated morons. A degree does not prove your smartness! Especially in today's times. In fact, some argue that not going to college means that you're smarter, cuz you didn't take on the debt. 

See it as incompetence on their part to show up on time and stick to their word. They can't stick to their word on a date, how are they going to do so in relationships?! Really, their bad. 

Edited January 19, 2023 by mr_engineer

[StarStruck]

9 minutes ago, mr_engineer said:

Then they're educated morons. A degree does not prove your smartness! Especially in today's times. In fact, some argue that not going to college means that you're smarter, cuz you didn't take on the debt. 

Educated women need men less (in their own eyes)

Only way a woman won't flake on you for sure is if you have overcompensating power. For example if you havehigh social profile, physical strength, or make good money, or some other kind of symbol of power. In that case she will move the world to not flake on you.

Women are actually very simple if you stop listening to them and just look at what they are attracted to.

These therapist bitch has a tons of clients, so I'm just a number for her (i.e I don't have power over her) so she treated me like shit. Only when I used my power and stopped my therapy contract with her she waked up and started respecting me.

I learned more from this bitch from this ordeal than being 2 months with her.

Edited January 19, 2023 by StarStruck

[mr_engineer]

4 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Educated women don't need men (in their own eyes)

That's even dumber. 

I keep bringing this up cuz when push comes to shove, a stupid person is going to hold you back. 

5 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Only way a woman won't flake on you is if you have overcompensating power. For example if you are high social profile, physical strength, or make good money, or some other kind of symbol of power. In that case she will move the world to not flake on you.

That's shallow. Change the crowd you hang out with. Go to New-Age communities. The women there are truly embodying their femininity. 

6 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

Women are actually very simple if you stop listening to them and just look at what they are attracted to.

That's low in self-awareness. Go for women who kinda know themselves, to have some compatibility. If you don't do that, they'll sabotage the relationship unconsciously cuz they're codependent and resentful. 

7 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

These therapist bitch has a tons of clients, so I'm just a number for her (i.e I don't have power over her) so she treated me like shit. Only when I used my power and stopped my therapy contract with her she waked up and started respecting me.

I learned more from this bitch from this ordeal than being 2 months with her.

I'm telling you, don't deal with people who don't respect you or else you'll resent them and then you'll curse them, which isn't good long-term. 

See the harsh realities about people but don't demonize them for it. They're unconscious and they have their own struggles.