What is the best male dating strategy

[onacloudynight]

I am almost thinking about having multiple relationships going on at the same time. 

It seems like women have this and I am tired of focusing on one girl at a time.

It sounds shity, but maybe my strategy should be to date and simultaneously be looking for something better and never settle until I find the 100/10 girl.

[Leo Gura]

45 minutes ago, onacloudynight said:

It seems like women have this

How convenient for you to believe so.

[Aiwass]

1 hour ago, onacloudynight said:

 

It should be to date and simultaneously be looking for something better and never settle until I find the 100/10 girl.

Sounds like you've confused and applied your laptop's (Adult Film)Tab habits to the real-world.. 

Edited January 17, 2023 by Aiwass

[onacloudynight]

4 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

How convenient for you to believe so.

Lol I'm sneaky

[onacloudynight]

3 hours ago, Aiwass said:

Sounds like you've confused and applied your laptop's (Adult Film)Tab habits to the real-world.. 

I think our generation is screwed personally 

[Something Funny]

@onacloudynight I think you are just hurt. It's okay, it will pass. Just move on and don't get poisoned by other's shitty behaviours.

 

6 hours ago, onacloudynight said:

It seems like women have this

I don't think most girls have a relationship with multiple men at the same time.

[something_else]

6 hours ago, onacloudynight said:

I am almost thinking about having multiple relationships going on at the same time. 

This takes a lot of energy. You're better just having casual sex or a few FWB rather than multiple actual relationships. It's much less likely to hurt anyone and it's less manipulative too.

 

[onacloudynight]

1 hour ago, Something Funny said:

@onacloudynight I think you are just hurt. It's okay, it will pass. Just move on and don't get poisoned by other's shitty behaviours.

 

I don't think most girls have a relationship with multiple men at the same time.

I must be attracting these types of girls too me I swear. Because it is all I am seeing.

[onacloudynight]

1 hour ago, something_else said:

This takes a lot of energy. You're better just having casual sex or a few FWB rather than multiple actual relationships. It's much less likely to hurt anyone and it's less manipulative too.

 

At this point I don't care about hurting anyone anymore. Girls do it all the time and don't bat an eye so it's time to adapt.

Edited January 17, 2023 by onacloudynight

[something_else]

Just now, onacloudynight said:

At this point I don't care about hurting anyone anymore. Girls do it all the time and don't bat an eye so I'm done walking on tiptoes

You’ve had uniquely bad experiences. You should realise that this is trauma and not an accurate representation of the world.

[onacloudynight]

Just now, something_else said:

You’ve had uniquely bad experiences. You should realise that this is trauma and not an accurate representation of the world.

Maybe so...

[Leo Gura]

@onacloudynight You are going through a breakup and not thinking straight. Give yourself a few weeks to get over the girl you lost. Do not make important decisions when you are in a negative, wounded state of mind.

Edited January 17, 2023 by Leo Gura

[onacloudynight]

4 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

@onacloudynight You are going through a breakup and not thinking straight. Give yourself a few weeks to get over the girl you lost. Do not make important decisions when you are in a negative, wounded state of mind.

Got it

[LordFall]

9 hours ago, onacloudynight said:

I am almost thinking about having multiple relationships going on at the same time. 

It seems like women have this and I am tired of focusing on one girl at a time.

It sounds shity, but maybe my strategy should be to date and simultaneously be looking for something better and never settle until I find the 100/10 girl.

You should at the very least have the option of doing so. You should get to a level of game where multiple women that you're attracted to and that you think are cool would be interested in having a relationship with you. This principle used to be the foundation of the game community but I never see it talked about nowadays nor have I met many guys that have achieved it. 

You're not supposed to date the first girl that you find that you like. That IS SUPPOSED TO come with flaws, red flags, and incompatibilities that you're not equipped to see coming. Often that's literally the first girl that meets your standards that is open to dating you and you end up in a codependent multi-year relationship just as you and your game were about to exponentially increase. 

Get rid of the jadedness and negativity that you feel right now, that's normal when a relationship ends and is extremely beta for lack of a better word but the idea of dating or at least being able to date multiple women at once is a good idea. Never lie to them and be transparent with your intentions but I have severe fear for any man who decides to settle for a relationship without getting to that point. 

[Optimized Life]

On 16/01/2023 at 11:34 PM, onacloudynight said:

I am almost thinking about having multiple relationships going on at the same time. 

Then fucking do it and don't post it on here for permission. 

Just experiment

[Eyowey]

First go deep then go broad. Go as deep as you can with one girl until she starts hurting your feelings. That's when it's time to move on. Your feelings should never be hurt in a relationship. If you allow a girl to hurt your feelings once then you will allow it forever so you must draw a sharp line.

[vindicated erudite]

On 17/01/2023 at 4:34 AM, onacloudynight said:

I am almost thinking about having multiple relationships going on at the same time. 

It seems like women have this and I am tired of focusing on one girl at a time.

It sounds shity, but maybe my strategy should be to date and simultaneously be looking for something better and never settle until I find the 100/10 girl.

This is against female to pull of such a thing. Even if girls do this they'll eventually want to settle down with someone.