Thoughts on porn while in a relationship?

[Bob Seeker]

My thinking is it shouldn't be a big deal if u watch some porn while in a relationship, and just be open about it with your partner.

Idk, anyone else have thoughts?

It would seem weird for a girl to not want you to watch porn, like she must not understand male psychology/sex drive or something.

do you agree?

[NoSelfSelf]

Yeah and tell her you are doing it so its not a secret...they dont want it because they feel like its a competition between pornstar and her...

[Tyler Robinson]

I'd like it if my future or potential bf (currently I'm single) made me do some of the stuff in the porn like role playing or if he shot his own little cute porn movie with me where I'm his muse and introduced me to new exciting sexual moves.

 

 

Edited January 11, 2023 by Tyler Robinson

[universe]

2 hours ago, Bob Seeker said:

It would seem weird for a girl to not want you to watch porn, like she must not understand male psychology/sex drive or something.

You are in for a rude awakening

[Bob Seeker]

40 minutes ago, universe said:

You are in for a rude awakening

Okay then, lay it on me. Can't leave me hanging like that.

[Lyubov]

Make some porn with her instead 

[universe]

1 hour ago, Bob Seeker said:

Okay then, lay it on me. Can't leave me hanging like that.

Most women don't understand men psychology and vice versa.

And even if they understand, that doesn't mean they act on that understanding.

[meta_male]

@Bob Seeker I used to do this but they will most likely never really be okay with it, even if they say otherwise.

 

[meta_male]

3 minutes ago, universe said:

Most women don't understand men psychology and vice versa.

Which is why we need to get out of our heads with women 

[vladorion]

A man who respects himself doesn't watch porn.

[Raptorsin7]

3 minutes ago, vladorion said:

A man who respects himself doesn't watch porn.

Amen

[Eternal Unity]

On 11.1.2023 at 4:49 PM, Bob Seeker said:

Idk, anyone else have thoughts?

Copy the action into your sex life

[Illusory Self]

On 11/01/2023 at 2:49 PM, Bob Seeker said:

My thinking is it shouldn't be a big deal if u watch some porn while in a relationship, and just be open about it with your partner.

Idk, anyone else have thoughts?

It would seem weird for a girl to not want you to watch porn, like she must not understand male psychology/sex drive or something.

do you agree?

Only problem is when there is judgement about watching porn or not. Do what you want to do. No one is judging  

[Mz Hyde]

Just curious.. How would you feel about your girl watching porn? (question not only for the topic starter, but for all guys)

[T_i_m]

you could always watch it together. 

[Michael Jackson]

29 minutes ago, Lila9 said:

I'll add to the question for all guys, porn with the spot light mainly on very submissive, tall, hot, muscular and well equipped men, she also has favorite porn actors and she's watching it in the first opportunity when you are not around even if you regularly have sex. Maybe she has a collection and she obsessively storage their videos and photos in her phone and computer, maybe exchange them with her girlfriends and discuss them, maybe she's even paying for videos or has a membership in some porn sites. In her mind she's comparing you to them and expect you to act like them in order to feel the same dopamine rush that she gets with porn. Inevitably due to constant exposure to porn it affects the way she sees you and your value in her eyes. When you complain about it she says that that's how women are and that she can't do anything about it. How that would make you feel regarding her? About yourself? About your relationship? 

Wouldn't care about that lmao

[Gesundheit2]

1 hour ago, Lila9 said:

I'll add to the question for all guys, porn with the spot light mainly on very submissive, tall, hot, muscular and well equipped men, she also has favorite porn actors and she's watching it in the first opportunity when you are not around even if you regularly have sex. Maybe she has a collection and she obsessively storage their videos and photos in her phone and computer, maybe exchange them with her girlfriends and discuss them, maybe she's even paying for videos or has a membership in some porn sites. In her mind she's comparing you to them and expect you to act like them in order to feel the same dopamine rush that she gets with porn. Inevitably due to constant exposure to porn it affects the way she sees you and your value in her eyes. When you complain about it she says that that's how women are and that she can't do anything about it. How that would make you feel regarding her? About yourself? About your relationship? 

Reminds me of a discussion I had with my brother a little while ago. I was basically arrogantly telling him that real women are nowhere near female pornstars. Then he told me that I'm nowhere near male performers either. Totally shattered my ego with that reality check lol.

[gettoefl]

it is outsourcing your sex life ... just be clear they know what they signed up for

[BlessedLion]

IMO porn lowers your consciousness and will definitely effect your relationship in subtle and gross ways. If you don’t have that outlet more of your sexual energy will flow to her in ways of touch, presence, appreciation etc and she will feel that

[Michael Jackson]

On 13.1.2023 at 0:43 PM, Lila9 said:

Do you think it would positively contribute to your relationship? Assuming you want a healthy, deep, spiritual and intimate relationship. 

No. I think most porn is just like junkfood.