Pickup at techno clubs?

[something_else]

Oh, one advantage with techno places (again in the UK) is that they are usually welcoming to people going solo I've noticed. So there's that. You can buy a ticket online beforehand and show up on your own and they'll still welcome you happily if you aren't creepy. Bouncers seem like dickheads far less at techno venues in general.

Whereas if you go to a normal club here you will almost certainly not get in solo no matter how friendly you seem, and the bouncers are often total dickheads.

[Leo Gura]

49 minutes ago, Greatnestwithin said:

@Leo GuraYes and a game we've said yes to, to begin with. So I hold this with sacredness and not just/ only monkey games. 

You never said yes to anything. You just found yourself alive alongside a bunch of monkeys who did the same.

Edited January 9, 2023 by Leo Gura

[Greatnestwithin]

2 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

You never said yes to anything. You just found yourself alive alongside a bunch of monkeys who did the same.

From my experience with bufo and lsd. Some of my insights are that I have indeed said yes to experiencing this Life. I don't know about the monkeys part ??

Edited January 9, 2023 by Greatnestwithin

[Arthogaan]

18 minutes ago, Greatnestwithin said:

From my experience with bufo and lsd. Some of my insights are that I have indeed said yes to experiencing this Life. I don't know about the monkeys part ??

Well maybe Leo said yes to a life in which he is free to choose solitude even though the norm is to constantly fill your time with people :3

[Chives99]

1 hour ago, something_else said:

Oh, one advantage with techno places (again in the UK) is that they are usually welcoming to people going solo I've noticed. So there's that. You can buy a ticket online beforehand and show up on your own and they'll still welcome you happily if you aren't creepy. Bouncers seem like dickheads far less at techno venues in general.

Whereas if you go to a normal club here you will almost certainly not get in solo no matter how friendly you seem, and the bouncers are often total dickheads.

depends on where u are, my housemates barely went out in uni, i went out all the time solo in middlesbrough , only times i got lucky was when i was solo. Either that or setup a meetup group for club / music events and piggybag your way into them that way. Done that before

Edited January 9, 2023 by Chives99

[StarStruck]

@Leo Gura good point. I’m wasting a lot of time. 

[something_else]

1 hour ago, Chives99 said:

depends on where u are, my housemates barely went out in uni, i went out all the time solo in middlesbrough , only times i got lucky was when i was solo. Either that or setup a meetup group for club / music events and piggybag your way into them that way. Done that before

I’ve done both of these. Or just talk to people in the queue and go in with them. That works pretty well too

[Chives99]

4 hours ago, KH2 said:

Will you release ChatLEO before that happens?

Leo uploads his brain data to a super computer, like in the black mirror episode where you can create a digital cookie version of yourself

[Lyubov]

9 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Techno music won't draw in the hottest girls. You gotta follow whichever music your type of girl is into. In Vegas that's EDM and big name DJs.

Techno and hip-hop draw lower quality girls in my experience such that I don't even bother going to those places. Hardly worth it for me. But your tastes may vary and as a newbie you just need lots of practice approaches so anything will do.

I disagree. They do in Miami have tons of beautiful women at techno / house music parties. Underground gets less influencer types  because Techno nights are usually free to get into and they don’t have strict face control and tables to rent, but also it’s not always about that cause when you got skills and connections you just wind up taking a hot one there as a date beforehand you met somewhere connected through the music scene. big dj like Solomun or those After Life events get tons of bombshells but those are well know things. That’s the USA, in Europe women are hot everywhere the more east you go and clubs are packed with bombshells playing good techno.

Edited January 9, 2023 by Lyubov

[John Paul]

19 hours ago, Lyubov said:

Maybe for whatever you’re listening to. What he’s talking about is not that and the djs I listen to don’t really ever do that. It’s obnoxious 

I was joking bro lol 

[John Paul]

18 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

 

Techno music won't draw in the hottest girls.

 

What about dubstep chicks?

[Leo Gura]

26 minutes ago, John Paul said:

What about dubstep chicks?

What about mountain chicks who like yodeling?

Edited January 10, 2023 by Leo Gura

[John Paul]

@Leo Gura touché.. touche…. But what about ice climber chicks?? Ahhh.. gotcha there didn’t I?

mountain chicks have too much bush for me personally. Both literally but also figuratively

[BlessedLion]

On 1/9/2023 at 2:29 AM, StarStruck said:

I don't aim for same night pulls, I don't know, perhaps I'm missing out on a lot of action.

I’m actually finding it much more effective and relaxed to make a good impression the first night, end it with a kiss, then go on a proper date the next. Then usually that leads to sex and it’s more relaxed. The whole one night stand is unnecessarily going fast. 

[BlessedLion]

On 1/9/2023 at 3:34 AM, Lyubov said:

You gotta start going east in Europe

Best spots/countries? 

[BlessedLion]

On 1/9/2023 at 3:50 AM, Leo Gura said:

I would probably be happiest in monk-mode in the end.

I’m super happy in monk mode and people think it’s unhealthy. They can’t seem to understand how I can be so happy in solitude and think I’m lonely 

[BlessedLion]

On 1/9/2023 at 3:57 AM, Greatnestwithin said:

I've found the work never ends when we be with someone. They point and reflect to many of our blind spots, unconscious stuff.

This is so lame though. “The work never ends” “they point out blind spots” 

When do you just get to relax? I never understand this about couples, especially in spirituality, it’s like this never ending project where they are aiming to be perfect. Working on their triggers, childhood traumas, shadow, etc. It’s a massive trap imo