Having fun flirting

[Javfly33]

I'm beginning to actually have fun flirting, I didn't think this was actually possible. I grew up with basic stage orange pick-up teaching that flirting its a technique with steps you have to do like a cold technique, but imo this is such a lame way to flirt.

I get that it can get results but people don't know what flirting is until you get enough comfortable within yourself that you actually enjoy flirting with the girl.

At that point it really doesn't matter the outcome, since you are having fun, that's the whole point. Ironically at this point (the point of not caring at all, or flirting just happening spontaneously within you) gets a tremendous positive feedback from women. 

It's a complex topic, but in a weird way it's like the other person reads up your relaxation and playfulness and that becomes in itself what attracts the other person. 

The negative point is that you can't really control it, there will be some days that really fun and bright interactions happen, and others that absolutely nothing happens.