Judgemental psychologist

[Tyler Robinson]

I told her that I have anxiety disorder and I feel stressed out. 

And I began explaining how stuff makes me anxious. 

And her response was ~ you feel anxious about every little thing. How is someone supposed to deal with you? 

I was thinking to myself - well, that's why it's called anxiety disorder, you feel anxious to the point of debilitation. 

Edited January 3, 2023 by Tyler Robinson

[RickyFitts]

Ah man, I'm sorry you had such a bad experience, you deserve much better than that, especially when you're paying for her so-called services. I don't know how these things work, but you really deserve a refund if it's at all possible (and she should be stopped from treating people, she'll do more harm than good by the sounds of things).

[SOUL]

@Tyler Robinson  It surely does seem like she was projecting onto you her own issues, whatever those dynamics happen to be. Again, just throw all that away, even if there was the smallest bit of it useful it may not be worth the effort to figure out what exactly it is. Just erase it all from consideration, you're better off not entertaining any of it.

Know that you are cared about, people care about you and love you.

Edited January 4, 2023 by SOUL

[Tyler Robinson]

9 hours ago, SOUL said:

@Tyler Robinson  It surely does seem like she was projecting onto you her own issues, whatever those dynamics happen to be. Again, just throw all that away, even if there was the smallest bit of it useful it may not be worth the effort to figure out what exactly it is. Just erase it all from consideration, you're better off not entertaining any of it.

Know that you are cared about, people care about you and love you.

Thank you. 

[hyruga]

The psychologist is the domineering type and she will always try to outtalk her students. She probably dislikes patients who challenge her and even suggested that she cannot handle you.

Imo, just get over it, find another psychologist since this is not a good fit.

[Zeroguy]

Your psychologist made some good points.

[Tyler Robinson]

14 minutes ago, Zeroguy said:

Your psychologist made some good points.

Get lost. 

 

[Zeroguy]

4 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

Get lost. 

 

She is professional,she is payed to read people.

Your reply shows exactly type of the person you're.

[Tyler Robinson]

4 minutes ago, Zeroguy said:

She is professional,she is payed to read people.

Your reply shows exactly type of the person you're.

Cringe again! 

(reminding myself to not be impacted by narcissists) 

Edited January 4, 2023 by Tyler Robinson

[meta_male]

1 hour ago, Zeroguy said:

She is professional,she is payed to read people.

Haha dude, wtf is this logic!?

[Zeroguy]

4 minutes ago, meta_male said:

Haha dude, wtf is this logic!?

Psychologist has competence,P..... does not.

[meta_male]

@Zeroguy There's many narcissists in psychology. I'd give Tyler the benefit of the doubt. 

[roopepa]

Are you sure this was a legitimate, legally approved practicioner? Sounds totally unprofessional.

I'm pretty sure what she said / did is against psychologists guidelines. I think you could write a notice to whatever organization controls psychologists guidelines and approves their right to practice.

[Federico del pueblo]

@Tyler Robinson  Honestly this sounds like the most terrible psychologist I've ever heard of.

Realize that her issues are probably more severe than yours and that's why she's such an unempathetic bitch. This might be also be why she chose to become a psychologist to begin with. So she could treat her own issues.

Don't take her seriously. Seek another psychologist. There are much better ones. You can get good help. 

[Kshantivadin]

https://youtube.com/watch?v=5rey8B-yu5Y

[Tyler Robinson]

16 minutes ago, Kshantivadin said:

https://youtube.com/watch?v=5rey8B-yu5Y

Why people like you even bother to respond to my threads. Venting is not being victim. Venting with people is a healing process. Nobody has asked for your pity or sympathy. Nobody is a victim here. Just people with issues, okay?? Don't rub salt into wounds. 

 

Edited January 4, 2023 by Tyler Robinson

[Tyler Robinson]

51 minutes ago, Federico del pueblo said:

@Tyler Robinson  Honestly this sounds like the most terrible psychologist I've ever heard of.

Realize that her issues are probably more severe than yours and that's why she's such an unempathetic bitch. This might be also be why she chose to become a psychologist to begin with. So she could treat her own issues.

Don't take her seriously. Seek another psychologist. There are much better ones. You can get good help. 

Yup. 

 

[Thought Art]

Maybe spending time with someone who doesn’t see you as a victim is useful. 
 

Maybe, spending time with someone who won’t play your game, sees you as rather normal and capable is valuable. 

Edited January 4, 2023 by Thought Art

[Jowblob]

9 hours ago, meta_male said:

@Zeroguy There's many narcissists in psychology. I'd give Tyler the benefit of the doubt. 

This, remember my awakening story when i became a spermdonor and had to go through a psychologist. The first vibes that i got from her was that she was narcissistic , and knew it all. Psychologists love to play mind games and act like they know everything about psychology etc, they also fake alot of things for example by obviously looking at your hands etc. acting as a "psychologist" not being truth to themselves. Basically they're playing a character and most of the time they're not being them selves which is a red flag always. The further you go away from your real "self" the lower your consciousness.

 

But anyway, i did things to her that she was flabbergasted just by my behaviour without saying anything that she even moaned. (also created some miracles just by the mere knowledge i had about female unconsciousness etc. I can tell you she was just above average in consciousness nothing more and nothing less. The problem is, that you aren't conscious enough and thats why you went /needed a psychologist, she actually made you realize that the people you're looking up to (psychologist/therapists) can even have a lower consciousness than yourself. So she did a great job in helping you not being dependent on other people for help. Remember God (self) is the only lonely being in existence , you don't need help from anyone because you're alone.

[Loba]

You don't know what you talk about
It's all lies that come out your mouth
'Cause I wake up
This is my body, this is my war
We can't wait 'til you come around

Say what you're gonna say
I don't care anyway

You don't know about me
You don't know how hard I try
You don't know about me
Why the hell should you decide?
You don't know about everything going on inside
You don't know about me
You don't know about me

You know I don't care what you think
I get high, don't say anything
'Cause I wake up
This is my body, this is my war
Can't we try to change everything?

Say what you're gonna say
I don't care anyway

In such moments when people seek to tear you down, remember your Good qualities; the things about you that you love and that give you Life.  There are many facets to every person.  Not just one thing.  A good way to view this is like with this picture above.  Each time a situation or person or negative feeling tries to cover over your Light and other facets, bring your awareness back to self Love, acceptance and See into the things that are valuable.  From personal experience, as well as having gone through such things, when a person seeks to put into you negative traits it is always going to fall short of what the actual situation is.  Judgement is never the whole Truth.  It's like putting the final touch on an unfinished story.  If this woman can't do her job properly, then that isn't your fault.  It is her job to be empathetic towards her patients (of which she is also being paid) and to listen to the full story without suppositions, and from there offer some suggestions or support.  This sounds like more than just incompetency, a psychologist should never Be allowed to work this way with anyone.  No matter what she says about you, the problem still rests with the fact that this is a supposedly educated woman who is being given the opportunity to heal people and is failing.

 

• Countertransference

This is a phenomenon within the therapeutic setting called counter-transference.  It is their job to remain neutral, or at least to work towards that.

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Countertransference is a psychological phenomenon which occurs when a clinician lets their own feelings shape the way they interact with or react to their client in therapy.

Oftentimes, countertransference is unconscious and both the clinician and client do not realize it is happening. 

Countertransference serves as an important reminder that therapists are human beings too, and that they have their own biases, history, and emotions which can influence their thoughts and reactions to clients. 

In a therapy session, a client might remind the therapist of someone or something from their present or their past. As a result, the clinician might unconsciously treat the client in an emotionally-charged or biased way.

Because of this, clinicians must be aware of countertransference at all times and actively work to acknowledge and overcome it in their practice.

However, whereas transference is a normal and accepted part of the therapeutic process, clinicians are responsible for monitoring their countertransference so they remain objective in their therapy and do not harm the client.