How to overcome coomer ,incel etc mentality and actually get laid

[Someone here]

For years I was caught up in coomer mentality . I fapped to porn probably hundreds of times since I was 14 until this day when I'm 26. My reasoning was very simple..."I'm not ever gonna fuck girls that are so hot like these pornstars ,so why approach women and get rejected ? When I can just open some porn and goon to it ".

And  this seems like a reasonable line of reasoning when you are a coomer .however..this was proven to me to be absolutely false . You ARE worthy of real women .you CAN have sex with real hot women like those pornstars.  YOU (yes you)  can have sex with hot women like this girl in the bottom of the post ?

I don't care who you are or how atractive or rather unattractive you are ..or skinny..or fat or without enough  facial hair or with a micro penis etc. All these are bullshit excuses that keeps you in your comfort zone .

I will tell you what it takes to bang hot girls ..but you must follow through ..

First and hardest step is actually meet at least one girl somewhere where you can talk about some common interests, and the rest is not that hard.

since we all spend our free time at home it is pretty hard to meet anyone.

1-So ,first step is get the fuck out of your house. Go to a mall or a nightclub or any place in your country that you know there's a bunch of girls hanging out here. Move your ass to there.

But before that, i would highly recommend that you work on yourself! What do I mean by this? Well, girls and women alike are attracted to young and older men when they are working on themselves to become a better person, and provider.

They love it when you learn something new that you can share with them .they  love it when you are busy and developing your mind and body/ they  love it the most when you are confident

2-Confidence makes the females come to you.

If you are not confident, just fake it until you are! Find out what it is about yourself that you want to improve so that you are more confident .

3-The best way yet to approach a girl is just to be natural and approach normally. Go over to her and say: "Hi, I'm _______ and i want to meet you because you look like an interesting person."

It doesn't matter where you are at the moment because this kind of approach works everywhere.

Approaching like this will make her instantly attracted to you because you had the courage to walk over to her with nothing but a simple conversation, which also makes you look confident about yourself. It shows her that you don't need some cheap pick up lines or something 'catchy' in order to talk to her.

It also shows her that you are decisive and that you know what you want and also that you try to get what you want. In this case, getting to know her.

Anyway I know that approaching like this is kinda hard if you haven't done that before. But trust me it works every time.

If you approach like this the girl will have no reason to reject you because all you ask from her is to meet her. You didn't asked her out yet, or you didn't asked her to have sex with you. It's just a simple name exchanging and socializing.

 

4-After that simple sentence you can continue the conversation. The important thing is the opening. The ice-breaker. Later on just go with the flow. Ask her stuff that you really want to know about her but don't ask too many questions so that she doesn't feel like she is being interrogated. Once in awhile make a statement or express your opinion on the subject.

You can hang out in the local coffee shop or in the city park. Doesn't matter much where you will hang out but it should be somewhere where you will feel comfortable.

 

5-Be funny. I can't  stress this enough. You MUST come off as a chilled guy. It dosent matter if there are good or not so good jokes. Make her laugh and that's the first signal that she is enjoying her time with you .

all I did to get laid was growing some balls and asking a beautiful girl if she wants to talk .thats it . And then everything went on naturally . The first date. The second date .and then in the third date we decided to have sex .and we did .

Trust me ..I was falling into depression and incel mentality for the whole past year..but I kept pushing myself and believed in myself that I can do it .you can too .it's your right. Don't let any losers convince you otherwise. 

And finally I want to talk about the law of attraction.  It works .it 100% works .what you need to do is to have a vision and a constant fantasy in your head of your future girlfriend .you have to do visualisation techniques. The more you focus on something ,the more it manifests in your life .it's as simple and magical as that .

If you have any questions..ask away ?

 

[Someone here]

49 minutes ago, KH2 said:

and it's quite fucking cold during winter.

That's a nice little excuse to  stay home and wank .

instead of going out and bang 

[NoSelfSelf]

This blew my mind completely ill never be the same...

[Someone here]

@KH2 it did land.  I knew it was a somewhat trollish comment.  But I decided to take it lightly 

[Emotionalmosquito]

So basically the only two commenters so far are being condescending with op for stating the obvious. My angle is different  in that although what op says sounds good and is generally accepted as solid advice when it comes to women, albeit a bit generic, it’s blatantly oversimplified and has failed me far more often than it has led to any progress. I can barely get a few sentences out to a girl before she gets all tense and starts looking for a way to escape me. 

On 12/24/2022 at 8:17 AM, Someone here said:

Go to a mall or a nightclub

⚠️Danger! Danger! DANGER! ⚠️ 

There is only so much you can hit on girls in any given establishment before they start complaining about the creepy guy bothering random girls. Yes, even if do it in the most non threatening way possible. Unless you’re at an underground rave where people are actually cool. This is why that saying “be yourself and if people don’t like it it’s their problem, not yours” goes right down the shitter. 

On 12/24/2022 at 8:17 AM, Someone here said:

Be funny. I can't  stress this enough. You MUST come off as a chilled guy. It dosent matter if there are good or not so good jokes. Make her laugh and that's the first signal that she is enjoying her time with you .

This is some thin ice to tread. The best humor comes from spontaneity, right? If you’re being spontaneous then naturally you aren’t thinking about what you’re saying ahead of time. Women’s hyper emotional nature makes them prone to getting offended easily if something you say comes off wrong. This is unlikely to be recovered from.

On 12/24/2022 at 8:17 AM, Someone here said:

But trust me it works every time.

Long shot of the century.

On 12/24/2022 at 8:17 AM, Someone here said:

The best way yet to approach a girl is just to be natural and approach normally. Go over to her and say: "Hi, I'm _______ and i want to meet you because you look like an interesting person."

Another obstacle is the possibility of approaching an underaged. The artificial hormones and high stress lifestyle we’re dealing with these days makes women look older at younger ages. Should be pretty obvious how badly screwed you are socially if this happens.

I would love for everything in your post to be true. But what I’ve found is that the process of getting laid is more comparable to avoiding those multitudinous laser beams guarding a treasure at the end of a narrow hallway than a straightforward human interaction.

On 12/24/2022 at 8:17 AM, Someone here said:

If you have any questions..ask away ?

Where do I find and what do I say to attract a 5 foot ten in shape and open minded goth girl? A real one, not a poser.

Edited December 27, 2022 by Emotionalmosquito

[Vlad_]

I have a better question.

What happens when you actually get laid ?

I'm virgin and I have never had sex (I'm 25).

Will banging bunch of girls change my life dramatically? Will I feel more satisfied and happier? Also how many girls should I fuck? 10?50?1000?

[Emotionalmosquito]

13 minutes ago, Vlad_ said:

I'm virgin and I have never had sex (I'm 25).

 

In your sex doll thread didn’t you just say you have sex three times a day when in a relationship?

[Vlad_]

4 minutes ago, Emotionalmosquito said:

In your sex doll thread didn’t you just say you have sex three times a day when in a relationship?

I know. Let's imagine I'm a virgin and never had sex. I want to look at this issue from a virgin perspective. 

[Emotionalmosquito]

@Vlad_ oh I see