Indecisiveness Insight/Reminder

[Optimized Life]

randomly flipping through leo's "what is wisdom" 

"fools are judgemental ..." 

(googling) : Why is being judgemental bad? ... pushes people away, better to have humility and open to other opinions ect...

Psychology Today : "finding the hidden motives behind are behaviour" 

(My judgemental side) ... here we go again impractical pop psych ahh 

("wait a minute, just find some gold") .. "Finding the hidden reasons behind behaviour", there could be something here 

"why am I so indecisive?"

I'm indecisive because I hesitate, spinning my wheels in thought loops, because of FEAR 

That's it, just literally fear

Fear = indecisiveness. Also perfectionsim = Indecisiveness, caring about others opinions = hesitation = indecisiveness = inaction ect..

• Useful psychology is just so simple, hence my weariness of self improvement books and all this over trash 
• Nevertheless it can always be the path to finding, or rediscovering the simple truths you remind oneself. 

I am being indecisive because I'm afraid :

• of losing some money 
• of "Spillage", of waste, ect..
• I'm afraid of wasting $10 or $50 ... but I end up with no product in trying to find the perfect one 
• I'm afraid of wasting $2K, which I may well do, but then I never start, I never move, I never take the risk and get the experience which is priceless
• I must let go to holding on to everything, to needing to be perfectly ready
• I have to let go of my computer files, the books I can't bring with me, the certainty of home
• I have been frugal and conservative for almost a year now, and to be honest, not much has come
• I am best suited to "gambling" on life, going to die anyway fuck it bro.

But in this process of hesitation I am losing the most valuable thing of all : My time, and my spirit (decaying from inertia) and the experiences I could be having and in turn the character and identity I should be building , which are priceless, 

 

Edited December 22, 2022 by Optimized Life

[Optimized Life]

Time for action now. 

No more logging in to this forum this month. 

No more reddit qouara ect..

Even for products "which one should I buy?" "Which country for pua?"

NOPE. 

5 Minutes to decide

only questions allowed = for research purposes "how to best use this product?" = YES

"How to be adapat to X place?" = YES 

but must decide what ot buy live to inmediately, no hesitation, if it's the wrong decision doesnt matter, inertia is the devils work.