Antor8188

Highly conscious beta male?

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15 minutes ago, IAmReallyImportant said:

 

I believe that women are more inclined to negative emotions for evolutionary reasons, because negative emotions are warning signals and women are physically much more vulnerable and at risk than men.

 

Exactly this. I hate it when a woman's negative emotions are demonized when too often being positive and naive always gets her in trouble. 

 


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On 22/12/2022 at 7:54 AM, Tyler Robinson said:

Beta males are actually insecure and low consciousness. Alpha men are abundant and more congruent with woman's needs. Alpha men understand what a woman wants. They don't neglect her. Beta men dominate women out of insecurity. 

 

I think people take this "alpha" and "beta" thing far too seriously.

The only thing objective about being an alpha male is that you are the dominant male in a social hierarchy. That's it. 

Everything else is just people making up shit as they go along, creating characters like "alphas" to try and become that thing so they can think better of themselves and compare themselves more positively to others.

I've seen so many people descriptions of alpha males and they often differ quite significantly. 

And considering humans live in big societies where you can be dominant in one situation and not dominant in another, the whole alpha male/beta male thing really doesn't make much sense when applied to humans. We don't live in tribes/packs anymore, we don't assert dominance through violence as a primary tactic to establish order. Sometimes we might, but you don't see people doing this often. 

You try to assert dominance through violence and you'll often end up in jail. 

You've just created an idea of what you consider to be an ideal man and applied the term "alpha male" to it. Those traits are simply your preferred traits.

The reality is a dominant male may be a complete psychopath womanzier who doesn't give a shit about women and sees them as nothing but pieces of meat, and can end up being far more sexually successful than 99% of men.

Or a dominant male could end up being a fantastic lover who loves women and treats them with respect. 

The only thing that determines being an alpha male is dominance over others, nothing else matters to determine who is the alpha or not. 

But I really think humans who really give a shit about being "alpha" are just insecure people who care way too much about how they compare to others, and think worth is purely determined through social class.

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