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Enlightenment FAQ - Part 1 - All Your Questions Answered
https://youtu.be/H0GbcGMar_E

• Introduction to the series of videos discussing spiritual alignment and enlightenment
• The importance of understanding the journey and implications of pursuing spiritual alignment
• The concept that understanding the truth of no self intellectually does not equate to actually experiencing it
• The difference between understanding the concept of spiritual enlightenment and actually living it
• The process of achieving spiritual enlightenment involves personal exploration and inner work
• The concept of ego death and how it relates to spiritual enlightenment
• The idea that spiritual enlightenment is a journey, not a destination
• The potential challenges and difficulties that may arise during the process of spiritual enlightenment
• The importance of finding a teacher or mentor to guide the process of spiritual enlightenment
• The idea that spiritual enlightenment is not a one-size-fits-all experience and may look different for different people
• The role of spiritual practices, such as meditation and self-inquiry, in the process of spiritual enlightenment
• The concept of awakening and how it relates to spiritual enlightenment
• The potential benefits of achieving spiritual enlightenment, including increased awareness and understanding of the true nature of reality.
• The speaker has to be careful about what they say in their enlightenment videos to avoid being thought of as a philosophy, theory, or religion
• The ego tends to theorize about reality rather than simply observing it objectively
• The process of enlightenment involves removing filters, beliefs, and preconceived notions about reality so that one can "melt into reality" and become reality itself
• Nihilism is not enlightenment because nihilism is a philosophical system that suggests life is pointless and everything is neutral and meaningless, while enlightenment is a realization that life has no meaning, but this is a positive and beautiful realization
• The speaker's story is just one way of communicating the idea of enlightenment, and the goal is not for the listener to accept their story but to understand the concept they are trying to hint at through the story
• Enlightenment involves breaking free from the mental prison of thought and observing reality directly, beyond the limitations of language and thought
• The speaker is not trying to convince the listener of anything, but rather pointing them in the direction of enlightenment so that they can discover it for themselves.
• The concept of the ego and its need for a sense of purpose
• The idea that life has no inherent meaning or purpose
• The potential negative reaction to this concept, including the desire to end one's own life
• The concept of the self being an illusion and the idea that there is no self to kill
• The pointlessness of various human endeavors and actions in the grand scheme of things
• The idea that accepting the meaninglessness of life can be a positive and freeing experience
• The ego's resistance to accepting this truth and its desire to maintain the illusion of the self
• The ultimate futility of all existence in the long run, according to various models of reality.
• Santa Claus not responsible for Christmas gifts
• Good things in life not created by individual
• Enlightenment may affect motivation levels
• Enlightenment clears away neurotic sense of obligation to certain things in life
• False motivations may disappear with enlightenment
• Motivation levels may shift regardless of enlightenment
• Enlightenment does not necessarily contradict self-actualization or self-help
• Enlightenment does not mean the end of personal growth or self-improvement
• Individual's true self will continue to evolve and grow even after enlightenment

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Enlightenment FAQ - Part 2
https://youtu.be/wmGWDBUNuts

• Leo introduces the second part of the enlightenment FAQ series
• The purpose of the series is to answer common questions about spiritual enlightenment and dispel myths and misconceptions
• One important question is: What are the benefits of enlightenment?
• Some benefits of enlightenment include: breaking free of mental prison, achieving a deep and meaningful tranquility, and gaining a deeper understanding of reality and truth
• While enlightenment does not guarantee constant happiness, it allows for a different relationship to emotions so that they do not cause suffering
• Other benefits include relief from self-image problems, an increase in creativity and intelligence, and improved relationships with others
• It is important to note that enlightenment is not a one-time event, but a continuous process of growth and self-discovery
• Another question is: How do I know if I'm enlightened?
• There is no one-size-fits-all answer to this question as enlightenment experiences can vary greatly
• Some common signs of enlightenment include a shift in perspective, an increase in self-awareness and self-realization, and a feeling of unity with all things
• It is important to be cautious of seeking enlightenment for egoistic or superficial reasons, as true enlightenment involves letting go of the ego
• It is also important to not get attached to the idea of enlightenment or to the labels and identities associated with it
• The journey towards enlightenment involves a lot of hard work and dedication, but the rewards are well worth it.
• It is important to evaluate which goals in life are authentic and which are not
• Going to the gym may be an example of a goal that is not authentic, as it may be motivated by the desire to uphold a certain self-image
• Enlightenment is not dangerous, but the egoic paradigm is the source of all evil in the world
• The process of enlightenment involves letting go of the belief in the self and the need to be defended, which can be threatening to traditional worldviews and cultural assumptions
• However, this process leads to the silencing of monkey chatter and a state of calm and present happiness, making the individual the least dangerous to themselves and others
• The journey towards enlightenment involves a lot of hard work and dedication, but the rewards are well worth it.
• Enlightenment experiences can be induced through the use of drugs or meditation, but these experiences are temporary and do not lead to permanent enlightenment
• Permanent enlightenment involves the complete removal of clouds and the constant presence of light, and can be achieved through dedicated work and practice
• It is important to continue working towards enlightenment even after having temporary enlightenment experiences through drugs or meditation
• Enlightenment does not necessarily lead to a detachment from friends and family, as the individual's relationships may change and evolve in new and positive ways
• It is important to let go of the ego and attachments in order to achieve enlightenment, but this does not mean abandoning one's values or relationships
• The journey towards enlightenment involves a lot of hard work and dedication, but the rewards are well worth it.
• It is important to evaluate one's own level of development and whether or not the pursuit of enlightenment is necessary for them at this point in their life
• The speaker is not yet fully enlightened, but has been on the journey for a couple of years and can share valuable insights and experiences from the early stages of the process
• It is important to recognize that enlightenment is a long journey and there is always more to learn and discover about consciousness
• The speaker is a normal person who can be easily identified with, and is not a guru or spiritual leader
• The journey towards enlightenment involves a lot of hard work and dedication, but the rewards are well worth it.

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All Of Religion Explained In One Video
https://youtu.be/X_xZcD4veGc

• Introduction to the topic of religion and the speaker's personal perspective on the subject
• The speaker's background in philosophy, personal development, and consciousness
• The speaker's recent attendance at an enlightenment workshop
• The speaker's curiosity about religion, including how it can have such a strong hold on culture and society despite being seemingly unsupported by science
• The speaker's warning that the video may not be well-received by rationally-minded individuals
• The speaker's intention to not defend religion, but to ultimately encourage dropping religious beliefs
• The idea that religions are not necessarily wrong, but that they may not be complete or fully understood
• The importance of exploring personal experiences and consciousness in understanding religion
• The speaker's belief that enlightenment is the ultimate goal of religion, and that religions are essentially paths towards enlightenment
• The concept of God and how it has been understood and described in various religions
• The idea that religions may be attempting to describe the same ultimate reality or truth, but using different language and symbolism
• The possibility that religions may have evolved or changed over time
• The speaker's suggestion that it is important to question and critically examine one's own beliefs, including religious beliefs
• The importance of finding and living one's own truth, rather than blindly adhering to religious doctrine
• Conclusion and invitation to continue the discussion on the topic.
• The sense of self is an illusion
• It is possible to "jailbreak" the mind from the brain and discover the true self, which is nothingness
• This realization is called enlightenment
• Existence arises from nothingness, and this nothingness is also referred to as God
• Other people are also nothingness, and therefore identical to the self at an existential level
• The absolute truth is that existence arises from nothingness
• There are multiple levels of enlightenment that can be experienced
• After enlightenment, the ego and the sense of self may still exist, but they are seen through and no longer identified with
• Enlightenment allows for a deeper understanding and connection with the world and others
• The process of enlightenment involves letting go of attachments and desires
• The ultimate goal of enlightenment is liberation from suffering.
• The concept of the psyche and the subconscious mind is relatively new
• In the past, people used mythology and storytelling to explain the concept of "no self"
• Some people (mystics, yogis, sages, etc.) were able to achieve enlightenment and see the truth of "no self"
• There was no reliable process for helping others achieve enlightenment
• To share the truth of "no self," it had to be tailored to the culture and era in which it was discovered
• Religion tries to explain the truth of "no self" in a way that is palatable to the limited minds of dogmatic and close-minded people
• There are many different religions and each one explains the truth of "no self" in a different way
• The ultimate goal of religion is to help people achieve enlightenment and see the truth of "no self"
• The truth of "no self" is universal, but the way it is explained and understood may differ from culture to culture
• Hell refers to one's current existence and identification with their body, which leads to suffering
• Heaven is the disidentification with the body and becoming absolute nothingness, in which nothing can harm you and nothingness exists forever
• Faith is the ability to open one's mind to the third possibility and the willingness to take a leap of faith to experience it directly
• Good and evil are relative and metaphorical terms, with good being selfless actions and evil being selfish actions and identification with the ego
• The afterlife is understanding the absolute truth of nothingness and being untouchable
• Salvation is being saved from one's wicked state and understanding the truth of one's being
• Enlightenment is the realization of the truth of one's being and understanding that everything is interconnected and one is everything
• Karma is the concept that actions have consequences, both positive and negative, and that one reaps what they sow
• The ego is the identification with the body and mind and the belief in separation from everything else
• The self is the realization of one's true being as interconnected and everything, beyond the ego and identification with the body and mind

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How To Have Amazing Sex - Part 2 - Increasing Intimacy & Dominance
https://youtu.be/325ka9OLMlo

• Tips for increasing intimacy in the bedroom
• Focus on emotional connection rather than mechanics of sex
• Emphasize tenderness and vulnerability
• Make eye contact and use affectionate touch
• Talk about fantasies and desires openly
• Practice deep intimacy techniques such as tantric sex or the "Intimacy Game"
• Use positive reinforcement to create a safe and supportive environment
• Tips for increasing dominance in the bedroom
• Set boundaries and communicate openly about desires and limits
• Take control of the sexual experience and lead your partner
• Use physical touch to assert dominance, such as pinning down or restraining your partner
• Use dirty talk and verbal commands to assert dominance
• Experiment with role play and power dynamics
• Practice assertiveness and confidence in daily life to carry over into the bedroom
• Intimacy can be increased through subtle actions and behaviors
• Missionary position is intimate because of eye contact, physical contact, and the ability to whisper in each other's ears
• Saying "I love you" during sex can increase intimacy
• Having sex without condoms and coming inside a partner can increase intimacy
• Holding and cuddling with a partner after sex can increase intimacy
• Learning how to make a partner squirt can increase intimacy
• Dominance in a relationship can be a turn-on for some people
• Being dominant in bed can involve taking control, being assertive, and knowing what a partner wants
• Asking for consent and respecting boundaries is important in maintaining a healthy dynamic of dominance in a relationship
• Making a partner orgasm multiple times can be a form of dominance
• Using dirty talk and telling a partner what to do can be a form of dominance
• Role-playing can involve acts of dominance
• Giving and receiving rough sex can be a form of dominance
• Using restraints and tie-ups can be a form of dominance in the bedroom
• Restraining hands above the head or behind the back while engaging in sexual activities
• Ripping off panties in a non-harmful way
• Tying up using neckties or tying to a bed or door
• Slamming body against a wall or door with caution
• Spanking or slapping the buttocks during sexual activity
• Choking or holding the throat during sexual activity
• Using blindfolds or masks to restrict vision
• Role-playing or acting out power dynamics or fantasies
• Verbal commands or dirty talk during sexual activity
• Using props or toys such as handcuffs or paddles during sexual activity.
• Tips for being dominant in the bedroom
• Importance of creating a "sweet and sour combo" of intimate and dominant behaviors
• Variety, surprise, and adventure are key to keeping sex exciting
• Basic formula for sex can be customized and varied
• Responsibility of the man to lead and set the pace in the bedroom
• Importance of communication with partner
• Experimentation and trying new things is encouraged
• Advice to not try everything at once and to spread out trying new things
• Reminder to always prioritize and respect partner's boundaries and consent

 

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Understanding Emotions - Part 1
https://youtu.be/0j7dwG1cXc4

• In this video, the speaker is discussing the importance of mastering and understanding emotions
• Many people have poor emotional vocabulary and are unaware of how emotions function in their lives
• The speaker is focusing on the concept of emotional intelligence (EQ) and how it relates to success and fulfillment
• Emotions play a major role in shaping a person's behaviors and can lead to problematic behavior loops
• Many people are not able to properly identify and label emotions, or understand the messages behind them
• Part two of this series will focus on understanding the messages behind common emotions
• People may struggle to get coaching or therapy because they cannot express their emotions effectively
• The speaker will be covering various techniques for improving emotional intelligence and understanding emotions in this series.
• Introduction to exploring and identifying different emotions
• First emotion category: apathy
• Emotions within this category include: depression, defeat, boredom, and laziness
• Second emotion category: grief
• Emotions within this category include: sadness, hurt, betrayal, disappointment, and guilt
• Third emotion category: fear
• Emotions within this category include: anxious, nervous, scared, terrified, and panic
• Fourth emotion category: anger
• Emotions within this category include: mad, irritated, frustrated, and rage
• Fifth emotion category: acceptance
• Emotions within this category include: content, satisfied, and grateful
• Encouragement to take time to fully experience and identify each emotion, practice mindfulness
• Emotions are important and valuable because they give us information about ourselves and the world around us
• Emotions can change and evolve over time
• It is important to practice being present with and understanding our emotions in order to better manage and regulate them
• Emotions serve as a baseline operating system that keep us alive and reproducing
• Negative emotions are strong and well-tuned to survival
• If the goal is simply to survive and reproduce, relying on emotions is sufficient
• However, if the goal is to thrive and achieve fulfillment and happiness, it may be necessary to "unwire" severe negative emotional reactions and build healthier, conscious reactions
• Transitioning from lower-level emotions like depression, anger, and fear to higher-level emotions like peace, acceptance, creativity, confidence, and security can lead to greater happiness and fulfillment
• Ultimately, what people really want is peace, acceptance, and wholeness, rather than material possessions or external accomplishments
• Recognizing this and charting a more direct course in life towards these emotions can lead to a more fulfilling and satisfying life.

 

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Feminine vs Masculine Compassion
https://youtu.be/IUO8J-igiuE

• Introduction to the concept of feminine vs masculine compassion
• Story of the mother horse and baby horse as an illustration of the two sides of compassion
• Feminine compassion as soft and hopeful, masculine compassion as harsh and realistic
• Personal examples of understanding when to use each approach in helping others
• Importance of judgment and wisdom in determining the appropriate approach
• The importance of balance between the two approaches in compassion
• Conclusion reiterating the value of both feminine and masculine compassion and the need to find balance between the two
• Compassion comes from expanding one's field of awareness
• Enlightenment experience involves total expansion of awareness
• Compassion for everything, not just due to moral standards
• Identification with all of nature, humanity, animals, etc. leads to different treatment of physical objects
• True compassion comes from feeling what others are going through as if it happened to oneself
• Higher states of consciousness can be pursued and experienced
• Low consciousness assumes that it is all there is
• Exploration and experimentation with higher consciousness can lead to realization of a vast ocean of consciousness to expand into

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How To Stop Backsliding - How To Stop Procrastinating
https://youtu.be/rBq-EPieRwU

• The concept of homeostasis is the reason why people keep backsliding in their lives
• Backsliding is when you try to make a change in your life and it initially works, but eventually you return to your old ways
• This process can be frustrating and make people pessimistic about their ability to create change in their lives
• George Leonard's book "Mastery" discusses homeostasis and offers solutions for dealing with backsliding
• Homeostasis is the place that a system likes to gravitate towards and stay at because it is the safest place for it to be
• Homeostasis occurs in the body in the form of various processes that keep the body's systems in balance, such as regulating body temperature, pH, and blood sugar levels
• Homeostasis also occurs in our thoughts and behaviors, as we tend to gravitate towards habits and patterns that are familiar and comfortable, even if they are not healthy or productive
• To stop backsliding and create lasting change, it is necessary to push beyond homeostasis and create new habits and patterns that become the new normal
• This can be achieved through consistent and persistent effort, as well as by finding support and accountability in others
• There is a concept called homeostasis that applies to various systems, including government and nonprofit organizations
• Homeostasis can be both positive and negative
• It is important to be aware of homeostasis when trying to make changes in order to increase the chances of success
• Set realistic and pragmatic expectations for oneself and be prepared for resistance from the mind, body, and others when trying to make a change
• Use visualization and affirmations to help overcome resistance and stay motivated
• Find a support system to help keep you accountable and motivated
• Take small, incremental steps towards the desired change rather than trying to make a drastic shift all at once
• Celebrate small victories and accomplishments along the way to maintain motivation and momentum
• Be willing to adapt and make adjustments as needed to stay on track and achieve the desired change.
• The speaker recommends 100% commitment to a habit, even if it is difficult or inconvenient
• Failing at a task or habit can make it easier to try again in the future
• People often overestimate how many times they have tried to make a change or accomplish a goal
• One powerful change can make a significant impact on a person's life
• Choosing the right habit to focus on is important
• The benefits of a consistent meditation practice can be life-changing
• Telling someone about the benefits of a habit does not necessarily motivate them to start the habit
• It is important to find personal motivation for building a habit
• The speaker has had success sticking to their daily meditation practice and recommends it to others.

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How To Become Enlightened - The Exact Step By Step Process Revealed!
https://youtu.be/GfqLdOgoB98

• Introduction to the topic of enlightenment
• Definition of enlightenment: not an entity inside the body, but the field of awareness itself
• Warning against taking enlightenment as a philosophy or belief system
• Objective: to attain enlightenment as fast as possible
• Overview of the process of enlightenment: disidentification, purification, realization
• Step 1: disidentification: breaking the illusion of being a separate self
• Step 2: purification: removing psychological blockages and negative patterns
• Step 3: realization: achieving the direct experience of enlightenment
• Importance of a guru or mentor in the enlightenment process
• Importance of consistency and discipline in following the process
• Recap of the steps to enlightenment: disidentification, purification, realization
• The speaker believes that there is a point "behind the eyes between the ears back there somewhere" that is the convergence of all sensations
• The listener must go inside themselves and find this point for themselves to see the truth of what the speaker is saying
• To find this point, the listener should ask themselves three key questions:
• Who is aware?
• Who is perceiving?
• Who am I?
• The answer to these questions is not a logical answer, but an experience of the listener's true existential being
• The "voice," or internal dialogue in the listener's mind, will try to supply a ready-made logical answer to these questions, but the voice is not the listener's true self
• The listener should become aware of the fact that they are not their thoughts, and instead observe their thoughts as they occur
• The ultimate goal is to become aware of the thing that the listener actually is, not to think or philosophize about it
• This process takes time and effort, but if the listener persists, they will eventually have a direct experience of their true nature
• The speaker introduces the concept of "looking," which is a more focused form of meditation
• There is a distinction between thinking and looking, with thinking being more familiar and looking being the application of pure awareness to a situation through observation
• Thoughts are tricky and can be compared to a movie, with both a reality and a story or content that can absorb a person
• The speaker asks the listener to close their eyes and think about having $1 million in their bank account, then asks if that thought is reality or a story
• The idea is to become aware of the difference between thoughts and reality and to observe thoughts without getting lost in them
• The speaker suggests that the listener try this exercise with various thoughts and to notice when they get lost in a thought story
• The point is to become more aware and present in the moment, rather than getting lost in thought stories
• This can lead to a deeper understanding of the nature of thoughts and the self
• The speaker tells the listener that everything they are saying is not the truth with a capital T
• The value of the speaker's words is to help the listener discover the truth for themselves
• Scientific and religious explanations will not help and will actually hurt the listener's progress
• The speaker advises the listener to forget about concepts such as the Big Bang Theory, string theory, quarks, atoms, molecules, chemistry, evolutionary theory, God, the soul, spirits, heaven and hell, energy, and love
• The speaker cautions the listener against trying to conceptualize enlightenment or themselves, as it is not possible
• The speaker compares the listener's attempts to understand enlightenment to a dog trying to learn calculus
• To advance past this limited understanding, the listener must raise awareness by looking and observing, not by thinking
• The speaker advises the listener to observe their thoughts and emotions without getting caught up in them
• The goal is to see that thoughts and emotions are just transient experiences, not the truth with a capital T
• The speaker advises the listener to practice non-attachment and surrender
• The speaker advises the listener to be in the present moment and to let go of their ego
• The speaker advises the listener to let go of their idea of a self
• The speaker advises the listener to not get caught up in spiritual practices or enlightenment techniques
• The speaker advises the listener to not get caught up in ideas about past lives or future lives
• The speaker advises the listener to not get caught up in trying to control their thoughts or emotions
• The speaker advises the listener to just be and to let go of all their ideas and beliefs

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How To Be A Leader - Leadership Secrets Revealed!
https://youtu.be/I0GDMX6rixk

• Leadership is a necessary aspect of living a full life
• Leadership is not just for CEOs or corporate bigwigs, it is relevant for everyone, including individuals leading themselves, small business owners, people in social circles and marriages/intimate relationships, and those wanting to impact their community
• Modern leadership is about consensus building, not fighting for power or control
• Leadership starts with dissatisfaction with the status quo
• To be a successful leader, one must have a clear vision and be able to communicate it effectively to others
• A leader must also be able to inspire and motivate those around them
• Emotional intelligence and self-awareness are important qualities for a leader to possess
• A leader must be able to adapt to change and be willing to learn and grow
• A leader must also be able to take risks and make tough decisions
• Ethics and integrity are crucial for a leader to uphold
• It is important for a leader to be able to delegate and empower their team
• A leader should also strive for balance and prioritize self-care.
• Being a leader requires practice and development
• A leader's job is to create and champion a vision, and act as a pillar in times of chaos
• Being a leader involves balancing competing responsibilities and staying outside of one's comfort zone
• All leadership begins with self-leadership, which involves managing fears, self-talk, and influences, and studying systems and niche-specific knowledge
• Eben Pagan's 8 key roles of a leader include: visionary, aligner, conflict resolver, creator, motivator, conscious role model, decision-maker, and servant leader
• A leader needs to know their own strengths and weaknesses and be able to delegate tasks appropriately
• A leader needs to be able to communicate effectively and foster a positive team culture
• The speaker wants to help the audience find a cause worth fighting for
• The speaker references the hero's journey concept from Joseph Campbell
• Most people are living shallow, petty lives and are wasting their one opportunity in life
• The speaker encourages the audience to find something outside themselves to live for and to work on developing themselves
• The ultimate goal is to become a fully realized leader who can make change in the world
• The speaker compares this journey to climbing a mountain and achieving a God's eye view of the world
• The journey involves conquering oneself and achieving a high level of consciousness
• The speaker encourages the audience to take on the hero's journey and make their lives meaningful.

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How To Stop Being A Workaholic
https://youtu.be/TyDoJThWvAw

• Introduction to the topic of workaholism and confession of being a workaholic
• Definition of workaholism: working over 8 hours a day and 40 hours a week, taking work personally, working weekends and holidays, not taking vacations
• Problems with workaholism: creates needless suffering, creativity suffers, risk of burnout, health problems, prevents self-actualization and personal development, neglects relationships and outside interests
• Causes of workaholism: fear of failure, fear of not being good enough, fear of rejection, lack of meaning in life, perfectionism, lack of boundaries, cultural expectations
• Steps to overcome workaholism: identifying and acknowledging the problem, setting boundaries, finding meaning and purpose in life, learning to relax and enjoy leisure time, seeking support from others, seeking therapy if necessary
• Nobel Prize can be a symbol of recognition for work or achievement
• Recognition and accomplishment may not ultimately matter because everything will eventually be destroyed
• Motivation for work may be driven by a desire to express oneself or to fill an internal void or sense of worthlessness
• Ego tries to create a sense of self by pretending to be something, but it is actually a void
• Suggestion to confront the fact that life is meaningless and get comfortable with the idea
• Doing this can lead to a sense of freedom and a more authentic life
• The point is not to stop working or being ambitious, but to understand the motivations behind one's actions
• The goal is to live in the present moment rather than seeking external validation or trying to avoid facing internal issues.

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How To Meditate Deeper
https://youtu.be/FRUeG9wOaCs

• Leo from actualized.org discusses how to meditate deeper
• Provides three phases/stages for meditation, starting with beginner techniques and moving to more advanced techniques
• Stage 1: Simple observation - sit in a meditative posture and allow everything to happen, just observe it without trying to control it
• Stage 2: Focused attention - choose a specific object or concept to focus on and bring your mind back to it when it wanders
• Stage 3: Open monitoring - observe everything that arises in your mind without attachment or judgment
• Discusses common problems that people have when meditating, including wanting to control their mind and getting frustrated
• Gives a schedule for how to meditate
• Stage 3 of meditation involves focusing on the fact that content is arising and trying to maintain awareness without getting sucked into the content
• It is normal for the mind to wander off course, and when this happens, bring the focus back to awareness
• Over time and with practice, this discipline will improve
• While meditating, one can also consider the question of what awareness is, but not try to logically think through it
• Common mistakes in meditation include: feeling panicked or frustrated when unable to control thoughts, expecting meditation to be calm and peaceful, not using a timer, and getting caught up in trying to control the breath
• To avoid these mistakes, leave the possibility open that thoughts cannot be controlled, expect meditation to be frustrating at first, use a timer and keep it out of sight, and let the breath control itself

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Science vs Religion - The Absurdity Revealed!
https://youtu.be/wh5hAUP68d8

• Introduction to the topic of science versus religion
• Mention of a book called "A Universe from Nothing" by Lawrence Krauss, which discusses the potential origins of the universe and attempts to reconcile scientific and religious viewpoints
• Introduction to the concept of the "pre rational post rational fallacy," as identified by Ken Wilber, which occurs when pre-rational and post-rational thinking are conflated or confused
• Example of Martin Seligman, a PhD and founding father of positive psychology, also struggling with the reconciliation of science and religion
• Discussion of the three stages of human development: pre-rational, rational, and post-rational
• Explanation of pre-rational thinking as being based on myth and tradition, with a focus on the collective rather than the individual
• Explanation of rational thinking as being based on reason and analysis, with a focus on the individual rather than the collective
• Explanation of post-rational thinking as being based on integration and transcendence, with a balance between the individual and the collective
• Discussion of the dangers of conflating post-rational thinking with pre-rational or rational thinking, and the importance of understanding the differences between the three stages
• Conclusion and call to action to gain a deeper understanding of spirituality and the true nature of the universe
• Reductionism is the belief that all phenomena can be reduced to physical matters, such as atoms and molecules
• Reductionism is often used to explain the mind and consciousness, but this creates a problem as science has not yet reconciled how matter and mind function together
• Rationality is a perspective with limitations, and other perspectives, such as religious or pre-rational thinking, also exist
• Research has been done on the stages of development of the human psyche, which can help to explain why people behave the way they do and how societies evolve
• The Graves model of psychic evolution suggests that what a person values depends on their level of development, and that human development is not just physical but also includes psychological and spiritual development
• The Graves model includes eight levels of development, each with its own values and worldview
• Understanding the Graves model can help people to understand their place in the world and how they fit into society.
• There is a spectrum of development for the psyche and society
• Each stage on the spectrum has a different perspective and understanding of the world
• People at lower stages may not even recognize that there are higher stages
• Moving from one stage to the next involves fully integrating and transcending the current stage
• This process of evolution through stages can be seen throughout human history in various conflicts and struggles
• When people reach the yellow stage, they gain a new level of self-consciousness and can understand the model and conflicts between stages
• This model can be used to understand where individuals and societies are on the spectrum and can guide personal and social evolution to higher stages
• This model can also be used to understand and resolve conflicts between people and societies at different stages
• Reality is all of existence and is subjective to the individual experiencing it
• Developing consciousness and understanding reality is difficult and requires passing through various stages
• The "pre rational post rational fallacy" occurs when a person ignores or denies the post rational stages of understanding reality
• This fallacy is committed by those who value rationality and cling to it, and can be observed in debates between religious and atheist individuals
• Both sides may be dogmatic in their beliefs and try to spread their beliefs to others, confusing their beliefs or "maps" of reality for the actual reality or "territory"
• Ego and self image may be threatened when confronted with ideas that challenge one's beliefs, leading to a defensive reaction and projection of negative traits onto others
• Dogmatism and the need to win arguments through "lawyering" (manipulating words and information) can create tension and fear in the body
• To avoid committing the pre rational post rational fallacy, it is important to be aware of and transcend one's ego and attachment to beliefs and models of reality.
• The rational mind often misconstrues higher spiritual truths because they are beyond current awareness
• Awareness is the biggest bottleneck in life because everything that is called life has to come through it
• The Pythagorean Theorem is an analogy for understanding higher spiritual truths: it requires learning and understanding math to grasp the concept, just like it requires personal growth and evolution to understand spiritual truths
• Many people have had insights into higher spiritual truths, but it requires effort and openness to reach that level of understanding
• It may take serious introspection, contemplation, and meditation to reach the highest stages of enlightenment, where the distinction between the self and reality is removed
• This work is difficult and scary, and life is designed to prevent people from doing it
• The ego is afraid of this work because it means letting go of the "lie" that is the self as it is currently understood

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How To Create Your Dream Career - The Ultimate Life Purpose Course
https://youtu.be/QtUxnmneK50

• The speaker tells a story about a woman who was naturally talented in art and music but didn't pursue her passions because she got married, had kids, and had to get a regular job
• After her marriage broke apart, she struggled to find a fulfilling job and ended up working in low-paying, meaningless retail jobs
• She becomes bitter and frustrated at her lack of recognition and feeling stuck in her career
• The speaker suggests that the woman's lack of psychological tools and understanding of victim psychology is holding her back from pursuing her dreams
• The speaker promotes a course on finding and pursuing one's life purpose to help people overcome this issue
• The course covers topics such as discovering one's passions, setting goals, and building a career around those passions
• The speaker emphasizes the importance of taking action and not waiting for a "magic cure" to solve career issues
• Speaker has been searching for their passion and life purpose from a young age
• Initially thought they found it in a video game design career, but quickly discovered it was not aligned with their values
• Tried starting a business, but it was the wrong business for them
• Tried other business ideas, but they were also dead ends
• Started learning from books, seminars, smart people, coaching, and training to see patterns and common mistakes in finding one's passion and purpose
• Discovered that living congruently aligned with one's values and strengths leads to a sense of gratitude and a beautiful, joyous life
• Few people live this way and are often miserable and frustrated
• Speaker is offering a course to help others discover their passion and purpose, which includes more information than they could share in one-on-one coaching sessions
• The course includes video lectures, exercises, and a community forum
• Speaker has a limited time offer for the course
• The course includes exercises, worksheets, and guided visualizations to work with the subconscious mind
• The course is practical, not just theoretical
• It is available online and can be streamed through a web browser
• The course is a paid course because of the effort that went into developing it
• The course is affordable and will be worth the investment
• It is not a magic pill and requires time and effort to work
• The course aims to help individuals live their passion
• The course includes 90 videos
• The course will be updated and improvements will be made for free for those who sign up
• The course will be worth hundreds of times more than the cost in terms of shaping the trajectory of an individual's life
• The course is better than investing in stocks
• The course will be worth it for those who are serious about living a powerful life

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How To Unleash Your Ambition - Must-Watch For Ambitious People
https://youtu.be/QkS1XKAoNqY

• The theme of the video is how to unleash and realize your ambition
• The speaker's personal struggle with taking their ambition and turning it into something tangible in the real world
• The importance of being ambitious and playing big in society
• The challenges of turning ambition into a reality, including practical considerations such as knowledge, skills, and resources
• The speaker's experience in their first job and noticing a difference in ambition among their coworkers
• The idea that society often discourages ambition and promotes mediocrity
• The importance of finding like-minded people to support and encourage your ambition
• The need to be proactive in turning your ambition into reality, rather than waiting for opportunities to come to you
• The importance of having a clear and specific vision for what you want to accomplish
• Tips for taking action on your ambition, including setting goals, taking small steps, and learning from failure.
• The speaker is discussing the importance of taking risks and being ambitious
• The speaker encourages the listener to stop waiting for permission and to stop being modest about their ideas
• The speaker advises the listener to go their own way and not be limited by the "corporate system"
• The speaker emphasizes that pursuing their goals will not be easy and will require a fight
• The speaker advises the listener to share their gifts with the world and to position themselves to do so
• The speaker acknowledges that the specific actions required to achieve this will vary for each person, but encourages the listener to focus on this abstract idea.
• The speaker is discussing how to take abstract ideas and turn them into action
• The speaker emphasizes the importance of self-sufficiency and a strong mindset in pursuing goals
• The speaker talks about the principles that can help develop these qualities, which may not be taught in traditional systems
• The speaker encourages the listener to make the choice to pursue their goals and to work towards achieving their full potential
• The speaker mentions a course that can help with this process and provides links for more information
• The speaker concludes by encouraging the listener to share the video and to leave comments.

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How To Get Shit Done - The Inner Game Of Being A Results-Maker
https://youtu.be/RiOZHpPd2v8

• Introduction to the concept of being a results-maker
• The importance of being a results-maker in achieving self-actualization and achieving success in various areas of life
• The idea that modern society can distract people from focusing on results and the need to train oneself to translate dreams and ideas into reality
• The mindset and attitudes of a results-maker, including having a clear vision and taking consistent action towards achieving goals
• A list of ways to adopt the mindset and attitudes of a results-maker, including setting clear goals, staying focused, and taking responsibility for one's actions
• The importance of maintaining discipline and accountability in achieving results
• The role of self-awareness and personal development in becoming a results-maker
• Conclusion and encouragement to take action towards becoming a results-maker.
• Stage Green is a stereotype of people who have a high level of psychological development
• Green stage individuals care about the world and others, and are empathetic
• They are interested in charitable causes and creating harmony and peace
• However, they tend to not be good at achieving tangible results and their actions may not match their intentions
• It takes effort and skill to create and sustain a high-quality intimate relationship and to be truly spiritually developed
• Using spiritual talk as a way to distract from a lack of actual spirituality is a problem
• To be a results maker and self-actualized, one must hold themselves accountable and be willing to examine their own ego and illusions
• This requires honesty, self-reflection, and being open to criticism and feedback from others
• The key to making progress and achieving success is to be aware of one's own limitations and to continuously work on self-improvement.
• Many people are not serious when they say they will do something and talk is often empty or a distraction
• To be a results maker, one must hold themselves accountable and take personal responsibility for making things happen
• It is important to value excellence and to have a big picture understanding of what one is working towards and why
• A strong work ethic is essential and often lacking in modern society
• To be successful, one must be willing to take risks and to make sacrifices
• It is important to continuously work on self-improvement and to be open to learning and growing
• Being organized and efficient can help with time management and productivity
• Having a clear vision and a plan for achieving it is important for success
• It is also important to be consistent and to follow through on one's commitments and actions.
• To be a successful results maker, one must be willing to take risks and change oneself
• Thinking about one's own death can help focus on generating results and make the most of the limited time one has
• Instead of just consuming information and thinking about it, it is important to take action and apply what one has learned
• Holding oneself accountable and working on self-improvement are key to success
• Having a clear vision and a plan for achieving it, as well as being consistent and following through on commitments, are important for success
• It is helpful to have a strong work ethic, be organized and efficient, and have a big picture understanding of what one is working towards
• The life purpose course can help with finding and achieving one's life purpose, which can lead to exceptional results and satisfaction.

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My Enlightenment Experience - Exactly How It Happened
https://youtu.be/QOsUx9a3UoU

• Leo from Actualized.org talks about his enlightenment experience after a 10-day silent meditation retreat
• First enlightenment experience was "murky" and hard to distinguish from a hallucination
• This second experience was different, as he was completely awake, alert, and without hallucinations
• Leo wants to share the step-by-step process he went through to generate the experience
• He was at a retreat in Virginia, surrounded by beautiful natural scenery
• He was meditating by himself near a chapel on a rainy, cloudy day
• He had been using the "looking process" and self-inquiry techniques from his other enlightenment videos
• He became aware of a "still, small voice" in his mind that was separate from his thoughts
• He began to focus on the voice and let go of his thoughts
• He experienced a "complete surrender" and a sense of surrendering to a higher power
• He experienced a feeling of "unconditional love" and a connection to all living things
• He felt a sense of "oneness" and connectedness with the universe
• He experienced a feeling of "eternal peace" and "infinite stillness"
• He felt a sense of "unconditional happiness" and "infinite joy"
• He realized that this experience was not a temporary state, but something he could access anytime
• He thinks this process can help others with their own self-inquiry and enlightenment journey.
• The speaker is asking themselves where they are and what aspect of their experience they are
• The speaker is trying to generate an honest answer, not necessarily a correct one
• The speaker believes they are not their body, mind, thoughts, or a physical entity
• The speaker tries to pin down their answer and determines that they are an amalgamation of their body, mind, and sensations, but also the perceiver of all of these things
• The speaker realizes that this "I" is just a belief and their identification with their body and sensations may be arbitrary and influenced by social conditioning
• The speaker becomes aware of the interconnectedness of all things and their own infinite nature
• The speaker reflects on the idea that consciousness may be the fundamental building block of reality
• The speaker concludes by reminding the listener to stay present and not get caught up in thoughts or labels.
• The speaker had a realization about the nature of thoughts while doing self-inquiry work
• Each thought is just a phenomenon, and has no inherent meaning or significance beyond its phenomenal nature
• The speaker's sense of self and thought stream shifted, feeling more present and aware
• The speaker experienced a feeling of bliss and joy in this state of heightened awareness
• The speaker wonders if this experience was enlightenment, but suspects it may have just been a peak experience
• The speaker spends the next 30-60 minutes in a state of heightened awareness, noticing the beauty of their surroundings
• The speaker believes that enlightenment is a process that involves facing difficult challenges and doubts
• The speaker wants to show that they are working through their own doubts and struggles, and that enlightenment is not a magical solution to all problems
• The speaker takes a direct approach in their style of personal development, but wants to give a behind-the-scenes look at how the process works
• The speaker's goal is to share ideas and encourage people to try them out and see if they work for them, rather than providing scientific evidence or convincing people to believe in them
• Personal development is a difficult and often messy process, but it is worthwhile to struggle through it
• The speaker does not claim to have all the answers or a one-size-fits-all solution, and encourages people to experiment and find what works for them

 

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Lower vs Higher Self - Understanding Your Two-Faced Nature
https://youtu.be/MZFty-eM6Rk

• The lower self is characterized by fear, meanness, pettiness, untruthfulness, and selfishness
• The higher self is characterized by calmness, kindness, nobility, generosity, truthfulness, and selflessness
• The human organism has a switch that can be flipped between the lower and higher self at any time
• The lower self is like the animal or beast within us, while the higher self is the embodiment of the most noble aspects of humanity
• Most people are unaware that their lower self is being triggered and that this switch is being flipped, which can lead to disastrous decisions, actions, and plans
• When we are threatened or feel fear, we tend to switch to our lower self
• It is important to be aware of this boundary between the lower and higher self in order to make better decisions and avoid destructive behavior
• The second key insight is that the lower self is not our true self, but rather a defensive mechanism that we use to protect ourselves
• The lower self is often a result of past trauma or conditioning
• It is important to recognize and heal the wounds that contribute to the manifestation of the lower self
• By doing this inner work, we can learn to live in our higher self more consistently and have a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
• The sensation of an emotional body revving up can start in the lower abdomen and spread to the chest, limbs, and mind
• The mind may start creating fantasies or scenarios related to the emotion
• With practice, it is possible to observe and understand the revving up and calming down of the emotional body
• This ability to observe and understand can be developed through mindfulness and meditation practices
• When the emotional body revs up, it can become an "avalanche" or lose control, leading to being in the "lower self"
• Observing and understanding the emotional body can prevent it from becoming an avalanche
• Most people do not have the opportunity to observe and understand their emotional body in this way
• The ability to observe and understand the emotional body can be applied to various situations in life
• This ability can be developed like a muscle through mindfulness and meditation practice
• It is important to be aware of and understand the emotional body in order to avoid being controlled by it and to make better decisions
• It is possible to make the emotional body a "ally" rather than an "enemy" through understanding and observing it.
• A third person, such as a therapist or coach, can be helpful in understanding and addressing problems
• It is possible to do this work on one's own with determination
• Signing up for a newsletter and engaging in personal development activities on a regular basis can lead to growth and a more fulfilling and successful life
• Insights and distinctions are important for personal development and can be built over time through habits such as reading, watching videos, listening to audio programs, discussing with friends, and journaling.

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Using Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs To Self-Actualize
https://youtu.be/ojC0HlclnW0

• Introduction to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs
• Hierarchy is a pyramid or staircase that people ascend as they mature and develop themselves
• Goal is to ascend to the top of the pyramid as quickly as possible
• Rungs of the pyramid:
• Physiological needs (basic biological functions necessary for survival)
• Safety needs (shelter, employment, resources, protecting property)
• Love and belongingness (good friendships, family, sexual intimacy)
• Esteem needs (healthy self-esteem, confidence, achievement, respect from and giving respect to peers)
• Self-actualization needs (morality, creativity, discovery, acceptance of facts, truth, awareness, contribution)
• Self-transcendence (true spirituality, enlightenment, transcending the self)
• Problem is that most people are stuck low on the pyramid
• Solution is to work on self-actualization to ascend the pyramid
• Self-actualization involves personal growth, self-improvement, and reaching one's full potential
• Tips for working on self-actualization:
• Reflect on what is important to you and what you value
• Work on your self-awareness and understanding of your own thoughts and motivations
• Practice mindfulness and being present in the moment
• Take action towards your goals and aspirations
• Engage in personal growth and self-improvement activities
• Seek out new experiences and challenges to expand your horizons
• Surround yourself with supportive and growth-minded individuals
• Introduction to scenario of a man running from a tiger and composing poetry on a tree stump
• Explanation of Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs and how it is intuitively understood by everyone
• Success is about growth and expansion, not about building a cushy life
• Success is necessary for self-actualization and self-transcendence
• People who are not successful are concerned with petty things and are unable to act on self-actualization concepts
• Success is difficult and requires hard work and sacrifice
• Successful people have a growth mindset and are always learning and growing
• Successful people also have a clear vision and a plan for how to achieve their goals
• Successful people take action and are not afraid to fail
• Successful people also have good habits and discipline themselves to work towards their goals
• Final thoughts on the importance of taking success seriously and working towards self-actualization.

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Masculinity vs Femininity - Psychology Of The Male & Female Mind
https://youtu.be/SmeDDN1_TSQ

• Introduction to topic of masculinity versus femininity
• Example of misunderstanding gender differences in a scenario with a cat and dog
• Gender differences are real and biologically based
• Masculinity and femininity are not mutually exclusive
• Masculinity and femininity are not about strength or weakness, but about differences in values and traits
• Masculinity and femininity can change and evolve over time
• The importance of understanding and embracing gender differences in relationships
• Conclusion and call to action to learn more about gender differences and their impact on relationships
• The feminist movement has brought about positive changes in terms of civil rights and equality in the workplace
• However, this emphasis on equality can be taken too far and lead to the idea of treating everyone equally, including in intimate relationships
• This is a touchy subject and can lead to backlash and conflicting agendas
• The speaker personally did not focus on romantic relationships in high school and college, but after college began exploring and learning about masculinity and the differences between male and female attraction
• The speaker learned about the asymmetry between male and female relationships and the division of labor within them
• The speaker initially approached relationships with the idea of treating everyone equally, but learned that this causes problems in intimate relationships
• Masculinity and femininity are not the same and should not be treated as such in relationships
• The speaker discusses studies on biology and gender differences in attraction and relationships
• Society and media often push the idea of treating everyone equally, but this does not work in intimate relationships
• It is important to understand and embrace differences between masculinity and femininity in order to have successful relationships
• Fruit fly studies show that male and female characteristics can be exhibited by flies with opposite sex brains
• Gender differences are not just social and cultural norms, but may be due to deeper biological factors
• Men's brains may be more geared towards logic and construction, while women's brains are more geared towards emotion and nurturing
• Chimpanzee studies show that male and female power dynamics differ, with male chimps using violence and manipulation to maintain power and female bonobos using love and relationships to maintain power
• Hormones and brain structures may play a role in gender differences in behavior and attraction
• Evolution may have shaped gender differences in order to improve chances of survival and reproduction
• It is important to understand and embrace gender differences rather than trying to treat everyone equally or conform to certain societal expectations
• Men tend to dismiss the importance of emotions and prioritize logic and objectivity
• Unconditional love and affection from mothers can have a significant impact on a child's emotional development
• Studies on monkeys raised without maternal affection show that they can become neurotic and unable to function in social groups
• Women have a strong power in love and emotions, and society depends on adults who are not neurotic and received love as children
• Women may struggle to understand the detached, logical male mind and men's tendency to be sexually non-committal
• Men may try to cover up their honesty about objectifying the world and women by lying about their feelings
• Both men and women can struggle to understand and embrace each other's differences and may try to change each other to fit societal expectations
• It is important to understand and embrace gender differences in order to have successful relationships and a functional society
• Introduction to visualization exercise
• Exercise for men: visualization of surrendering and being penetrated during sex
• Acknowledge the beauty and validity of surrendering and being emotional
• Exercise for women: visualization of penetrating during sex
• Acknowledge the beauty and validity of dominating and being detached from emotions
• Recap of exercise and the strong preferences for masculine or feminine traits
• Understanding the balance between masculine and feminine traits
• Importance of being able to access both masculine and feminine traits
• Closing thoughts on the value of understanding and embracing both masculine and feminine traits.
• Gender differences are not just social and cultural norms, but are likely due to differences in genes
• Male fruit flies can exhibit female behaviors when given female brains, and vice versa
• Chimpanzee societies are male-dominated and use violence to maintain power, while bonobo societies are female-dominated and use love and relationships to maintain power
• Love and affection from mothers is crucial for children to become emotionally stable adults
• Men tend to be more logical and detached, while women tend to be more emotional and nurturing
• It is important for men and women to understand and accept the differences between their approaches to life
• Exercises can help people understand and accept the opposite gender's perspective
• It is important to continuously work on understanding one's own psychology in order to achieve success and fulfillment in life.

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Meditation Techniques Do Nothing - The Simplest Meditation Possible
https://youtu.be/e4yipKfO8nA

• Introduction to "do nothing" meditation technique
• Easy and effective for all levels of experience
• Enjoyable and leads to consistent practice
• Technique involves sitting in a comfortable position and focusing on the present moment
• Thoughts will come and go, but the goal is to not get caught up in them or engage with them
• Practice for at least 10 minutes a day, gradually increasing to longer periods of time
• Can also incorporate other elements such as breath or mantra to further enhance the practice
• Importance of having a consistent daily practice to see benefits
• Conclusion: "do nothing" meditation is a powerful, easy, and enjoyable technique for anyone to try
• Introduction to the concept of letting go of control in meditation
• Analogy of a monkey in a cage being released and given a bag of hand grenades
• The mind will often resist letting go of control and may act out or test limits
• Maintain control of the body while letting go of control of the mind and thoughts
• Only let go of the intention to control the mind if it feels natural and not forced
• It is natural for the mind to wander and for thoughts to come and go, the goal is to observe them without engaging with them
• The "do nothing" technique allows the mind to process and release pent-up energy
• Practice for at least 10 minutes a day, gradually increasing to longer periods of time
• Conclusion: letting go of control in meditation can be a powerful and transformative practice