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What Women Want In A Man - 5 Factors That Hook Women Like Crack
https://youtu.be/JoRlb6xcymA

• Introduction to topic of what women want in a man
• Personal story of learning about relationships and understanding opposite sex
• Importance of understanding what women want in order to attract and keep them
• First point: never listen to a woman about what she wants in a man, as a woman's understanding of her own psychology is different from what a man needs to understand
• Women want deep emotional intimacy
• Women want a man who is confident and can lead and make decisions
• Women want a man who is emotionally intelligent and can communicate effectively
• Women want a man who is masculine and can protect and provide for her
• Women want a man who is driven and purposeful
• Conclusion emphasizing the importance of understanding and fulfilling these desires in order to have a successful and fulfilling relationship with a woman.
• Women enjoy a range of emotions, including some negative ones, and appreciate men who can make them laugh and be playful
• Detachment is important for men in a relationship; this means being grounded and confident and having a purpose outside of the relationship, but also being loyal and nice to their partner
• Women are attracted to men who are edgy, adventurous, and a little bit dangerous; they want to be challenged and stimulated emotionally
• Intimate, dirty sex is important in a relationship and can help to keep the spark alive
• Communication and being able to express oneself is crucial for both men and women in a relationship
• Trust and loyalty are important for both men and women in a relationship
• Respect and appreciation for one's partner are also important for both men and women in a relationship.

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How To Make A Girl Squirt - Give Your Girl An Explosive Orgasm
https://youtu.be/7FmAHDECFsY

• Introduction to topic of how to make a girl squirt
• Definition of squirting as an explosive orgasm with ejaculation
• Emphasis on the importance of mindset and emotions in the process, rather than just technique
• Recommendation to only try this with a girlfriend or wife, rather than a new sexual partner
• Tips for setting the mood, including relaxation and intimacy
• Description of the technique for stimulating the G-spot and causing a squirting orgasm
• Caution against using too much pressure or going too fast
• Advice to communicate with the partner and pay attention to their reactions
• Conclusion and encouragement to try and experiment with the technique to find what works best for both partners.
• Old trick for faking confidence
• Explanation that squirt and pee are different and woman may be self-conscious about this
• Telling the woman to push with her vaginal muscles to release juices
• Fingering technique for making the woman squirt
• Lying on bed with legs spread and pillow under head for support
• Positioning oneself next to the woman, almost hugging her
• Using middle and ring fingers to stimulate the upper wall of the vagina
• Curling fingers and applying pressure to the G-spot
• Telling the woman to push and continuing to stimulate the G-spot until she squirts
• Importance of building physical strength and stamina to perform the fingering technique
• Positive impact on the woman's enjoyment and intimacy in the relationship
• Potential for the woman to become "hooked" on the man
• Suggestion to practice the technique with a girlfriend rather than a first-time partner
• Encouragement to share experiences and ask questions on the topic
• Invitation to sign up for a newsletter for more tips on relationships and self-improvement

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Positive Attitude - The 3 Pillars To Cultivating Positivity
https://youtu.be/2_18oWkVq08

• Positive attitude is a very advanced topic
• Few people have a true positive attitude
• Genetics and upbringing can play a role in one's happiness and mood set point
• External circumstances will not make someone a positive thinker
• True positive attitude means being positive no matter what
• To cultivate a positive attitude, it takes time and inner work
• Three pillars of cultivating a positive attitude:
• Self-love and self-acceptance
• Gratitude and appreciation
• Being present and mindful
• It's important to work on all three pillars, not just one or two
• To work on these pillars, it's important to have a daily practice
• Practice gratitude by writing down three things to be grateful for every day
• Practice mindfulness by focusing on the present moment and not getting lost in negative thoughts
• Practice self-love and self-acceptance by being kind to oneself and accepting flaws and imperfections
• It's important to be patient and consistent with these practices
• Positive attitude is not something that can be achieved overnight, but with time and effort, it is possible to cultivate a true positive attitude.
• Some people think that if their strategy leads to a positive result, it was correct, and if it leads to a negative result, it was incorrect
• This is not the right way to approach strategy
• Proper strategy is correct regardless of the outcome
• Poker is an example where there are clear do's and don'ts for what hands to play
• Sometimes players rebel against the odds and win, but this is just luck, not a proper strategy
• Being cheerful is the best strategy, even in tough situations like someone close to you dying
• This takes self-control and discipline to execute
• Positive thinking is an advanced idea because very few people truly have a positive attitude in life
• Objection: positive thinking is just pretending everything is okay, and avoiding negative emotions is unhealthy
• This is not true, it's about choosing to focus on the good things in life and finding ways to make the best of a situation
• This can lead to a more fulfilling and meaningful life
• Conclusion: positive thinking is an advanced strategy that can lead to a better life, but it takes discipline and training to implement it successfully.

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How To Exploit People To Grow Yourself - An Advanced Technique
https://youtu.be/XQewAOgoxCE

• Leo from actualised.org explains how exploiting others can be a powerful personal development technique
• Exploitation in this context means using conflicts and clashes with others as opportunities to grow and improve self-understanding and self-control
• People often behave in negative ways because they don't understand fundamental principles of success and happiness
• As a student of self-mastery, you may feel bad for those who don't understand these principles and try to help them
• However, people often reject or become angry at attempts to show them their own flaws
• Instead of trying to directly teach these principles to others, use the opportunity to grow and improve yourself
• Practice detachment and non-judgment to avoid getting caught up in other people's negative behavior
• Use these situations as opportunities to practice self-control and self-mastery
• This will ultimately lead to greater success and happiness for yourself and potentially for those around you as well.
• Personal development is important to avoid behaving in negative or unconscious ways
• Seeing others behave negatively can be motivating to continue personal development efforts
• Negative examples of others can be used to identify and work on flaws in oneself
• Signing up for a newsletter or other resources can provide ongoing reminders and support for personal growth.

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Stress Management - Permanent Solutions For Stress Reduction
https://youtu.be/dSfZgygLjiw

• Stress is a chemical and emotional response within the body, as well as a series of negative thoughts
• Stress is created by negative thoughts and emotions feeding into each other, creating a "perfect storm" of anxiety and stress
• Stress is an internal condition, not an external one
• To manage stress, it is important to take responsibility for it and recognize that the solution lies within oneself
• Strategies for stress management include:
• Identifying the root cause of the stress
• Learning to relax and calm the mind
• Developing a healthy perspective on the situation
• Practicing self-care and setting boundaries
• Seeking support and guidance from others
• Making time for enjoyable activities and hobbies
• It is also important to maintain a healthy lifestyle, including eating well, exercising, and getting enough sleep.
• Tips for managing time and reducing stress
• Focus on one task at a time and sustain it over a long period of time
• Avoid multitasking
• Strategies for managing stress in relationships
• Take responsibility for the stress in your relationships
• Stop blaming others for your relationship problems
• Stop trying to control others
• Communicate openly and honestly with others
• Learn to say no and set boundaries
• Seek help if necessary (e.g. therapy)
• Tips for managing stress in general
• Exercise and take care of your physical health
• Practice relaxation techniques (e.g. meditation, deep breathing)
• Set realistic goals and priorities
• Seek support from friends, family, or professionals
• Take breaks and practice self-care
• Don't be afraid to ask for help

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Why I'm A Dick - And Why I Won't Change
https://youtu.be/N69Bw-kvpjU

• The speaker, Leo, sometimes behaves in a "dickish" way in his responses to comments or points made in his videos
• This behavior is reminiscent of Zen masters, who use harsh methods to help students attain enlightenment
• The speaker uses this approach because sometimes people are so far off course that a gentler approach will not be effective
• The speaker's ultimate goal is to bring wisdom and help it take root in people's lives, even if it requires a more "dickish" approach
• The speaker believes that people's egos often get in the way of their personal growth
• The speaker believes that being honest, even if it is harsh, can ultimately be more helpful than sugarcoating things
• The speaker recognizes that this approach may not be for everyone and that some people may prefer a more gentle approach
• The speaker believes that personal growth requires a willingness to face uncomfortable truths and make difficult changes

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Goal Setting - How To Set Goals Effectively
https://youtu.be/6SpN4b0d1SA

• Goal setting is the process of creating and working towards specific, achievable objectives
• Many people struggle with goal setting because they do not have clear, defined goals
• Goals should be specific, measurable, attainable, relevant, and time-bound (SMART goals)
• The first step in goal setting is to identify your long-term vision or dream
• From there, you can break down your long-term vision into smaller, more achievable goals
• It is important to regularly review and revise your goals to ensure that they are still relevant and aligned with your overall vision
• Common mistakes in goal setting include setting vague or unrealistic goals, not setting enough goals, and not having a plan to achieve your goals
• It is also important to have a support system in place and to stay motivated and accountable in working towards your goals
• Setting goals is important for personal and professional growth
• It's important to clarify what you want in life before setting goals
• Your goals should be SMART (specific, measurable, achievable, relevant, and time-bound)
• You need to write down your goals and review them regularly
• Your goals should align with your values
• It's okay if not all of your goals are accomplished, as long as you learned something from the process
• Every meaningful goal has a cost and you need to be willing to pay it
• Setting goals allows you to grow and discover yourself
• Be flexible and adjust your goals as needed

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Bad Relationships - How To Break Your Cycle Of Painful Relationships
https://youtu.be/iTPoxoQSb4o

• Introduction to topic of bad relationships
• Explanation of codependency as the root cause of bad relationships
• Description of three types of relationships: codependent, independent, and interdependent
• Definition of codependency as relying on a partner for emotional support and filling a void in each other's lives
• Definition of independent relationship as two confident, grounded individuals sharing some things together but not having a synergistic relationship
• Definition of interdependent relationship as two individuals performing a choreographed ballet and creating something greater than the sum of its parts
• Most people are in a codependent relationship and do not realize it
• Temporary stability in codependent relationships, but leads to toxic and bad outcomes
• People often get trapped in toxic relationships and cannot escape
• Discussion of the importance of self-awareness and self-love in avoiding codependent relationships
• Advice on how to break the cycle of bad relationships and move towards an interdependent relationship
• Conclusion and encouragement to take action to improve relationships
• Codependent relationships are unhealthy and will not work with independent individuals
• Interdependence is a healthy balance of independence in a relationship
• Codependency can be identified and worked on to become independent and have healthy relationships
• Dr. John Gottman's research found that a happy, successful relationship has a ratio of 5 positive interactions for every 1 negative interaction
• Dysfunctional relationships have a lower ratio of positive to negative interactions
• It is important to recognize codependency and take steps to break the cycle, including potentially ending the relationship
• Inner and outer work may be required to move from codependency to independence
• Recognizing and addressing codependency can empower individuals to have better relationships in the future.

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Bad Habits - A Live Exercise For Dropping Any Bad Habit For Good
https://youtu.be/a2stUIH3BnI

• Bad habits are negative habits that can be socially unacceptable or more subtle
• Examples of bad habits include drugs, alcohol, unhealthy eating, watching TV/playing video games, gossiping, criticizing, being pessimistic, getting angry, being passive-aggressive, biting nails
• The biggest challenge with dropping bad habits is falling back into them after trying to change
• To successfully drop a bad habit, it's important to understand your motivation for wanting to change
• It's also important to set a specific and achievable goal for changing the habit, make a plan for how to change the habit, and track your progress
• Other tips for dropping bad habits include finding a support system, using positive reinforcement, and being kind to yourself when you slip up
• The process of dropping a bad habit is likely to be difficult and take time, but it is possible to make lasting changes with the right approach
• The speaker discusses the importance of discipline and commitment in overcoming a hard addiction, such as a food addiction or drug addiction
• The speaker guides the listener through a visualization exercise to help them tap into their motivation for overcoming a bad habit
• The visualization exercise involves imagining the bad habit continuing for a month, a year, and five years, and reflecting on the pain and negative consequences that result from it
• The speaker encourages the listener to use their imagination to visualize a future in which they have overcome the bad habit and are living a healthier, happier life
• The speaker encourages the listener to take action on their goal of overcoming the bad habit, and to seek support and accountability to help them stay committed to their goal.

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How To Get A Girlfriend - The Ultimate Guide For Landing A Hot Girlfriend
https://youtu.be/SNbcCu1M4c4

• Introduction to video on how to get a girlfriend
• Two phases to having a girlfriend: attracting and maintaining
• Video focuses on attracting a girlfriend
• Different avenues for finding a girlfriend: social circle, online dating, cold approach
• Explanation of cold approach
• Tips for success with cold approach: nonverbal communication, vulnerability, authenticity, having a "hook"
• Other tips for attracting a girlfriend: confidence, social skills, masculine energy, social value
• Importance of self-improvement in attracting a girlfriend
• Conclusion and call to action to continue learning and improving
• The conversation is about sex and having a relationship
• A man should lead a woman, including physically leading her to different locations
• It's important to be a "hard closer" and push for sex until the woman gives a clear no
• Text game (communication through text messages) is important for attracting and not appearing needy or desperate
• Being too verbose or overblown in text messages can lead to losing a potential sexual or romantic partner
• Having a good location to take a woman for a date or to have sex is important
• Being able to handle rejection and not getting too attached to one woman is crucial
• Being a good lover and having good sexual skills is important for attracting women and keeping a relationship going

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How To Forgive Someone - The One Trick That Makes Forgiveness Easy
https://youtu.be/odQV4oODum0

• Introduction to the topic of forgiveness and the distinction between true forgiveness and half-hearted forgiveness
• Situations in which forgiveness may be necessary, such as cheating, lying, abuse, hurtful remarks, fighting, and wrong behavior in general
• Definition of true forgiveness: letting go and forgetting
• Most people only practice half-hearted forgiveness by letting go but not forgetting
• Half-hearted forgiveness can actually make the relationship worse by keeping the wrong alive in the mind
• Steps to take to practice true forgiveness:
• Recognize that forgiveness is a choice
• Recognize the benefits of forgiveness for oneself and the relationship
• Decide to forgive and let go of the hurt and resentment
• Practice gratitude and positive thinking about the person
• Let go of the need to be right or to punish the other person
• Practice self-care to heal from the hurt
• Practice forgiveness as a daily habit
• Tips for difficult forgiveness situations, such as abuse or repeated wrongdoings
• When you are sitting still and not actively engaged in something, your mind may start to have negative thoughts
• This can make it difficult to forgive others or let go of the past
• A solution to this is to develop a sense of purpose or mission in life
• When you are focused on something positive and meaningful, petty negative thoughts and actions by others will not affect you as much
• Forgiving others, even in cases of major transgressions, becomes easier when you are actively creating something positive in your life
• To fully self-actualize and create a successful and happy life, it is important to learn about yourself and use strategies and mindsets to improve and grow
• Sign up for a newsletter to receive exclusive content and tips on how to master yourself and improve all aspects of your life.

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Openmindedness - A Huge Overlooked Obstacle To Self Improvement
https://youtu.be/HQtpxc1ZJl0

• Open-mindedness is a key personal characteristic for personal development
• Being open-minded can accelerate personal growth
• The speaker's personal experience with open-mindedness has allowed him to achieve exceptional results in business, health, and relationships
• Many people become easily offended by different perspectives and ideas, which hinders their growth and development
• It is difficult to change a person's way of thinking once they have become stuck in their beliefs and perspectives
• To become more open-minded, one must be willing to question their own beliefs and consider other viewpoints
• It is important to stay curious and seek out new ideas and experiences
• Being open-minded allows one to adapt to new situations and learn from them
• Open-mindedness can also improve communication and relationships with others
• It is important to practice open-mindedness and stay humble in order to continue growing and improving oneself.
• Scary accurate picture of reality through scientific laws and discoveries
• Opposite of this is religion, which is dogmatic and resistant to change
• Example of this is Galileo being punished for challenging the Catholic Church's understanding of the universe
• Closed-mindedness has robbed humanity of its greatness and potential
• It is important to be open-minded and constantly expanding and adapting our mental model to new facts and perspectives
• Dogmatic people are easily threatened and quick to defend themselves
• It is better to be secure and not feel the need to fight for one's beliefs
• Adversarial relationships are formed when people are dogmatic and unwilling to change their beliefs
• It is important to be open to criticism and other perspectives
• It is possible to be open-minded and still hold strong beliefs
• The best approach is to be open-minded and willing to change, but also to hold strong beliefs and be able to defend them with evidence.

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How To Make Friends - 4 Sticking-Points That Limit Your Ability To Make Friends
https://youtu.be/S1rwCWDqtCU

• How to make friends
• Importance of quality over quantity
• Four sticking points that limit ability to make friends
• Inability to be open and authentic with others
• Lack of time spent face-to-face with friends
• Tendency to extract rather than give in friendships
• Difficulty in finding people with similar values and interests
• Tips for improving quality and depth of friendships
• Be open and authentic with others
• Spend time face-to-face with friends
• Give and support in friendships, rather than extracting from them
• Seek out people with similar values and interests
• Making friends can be difficult due to not being around people, being shy or fake, being judgmental, or not having the time and energy
• To fix these issues, consider joining a new group or club, hang out with coworkers outside of work, join a sports team or league, or look into meetup groups
• Being around a lot of diverse people can help to dissolve shyness and judgmental attitudes
• Friends can bring new ideas and opportunities into your life, and having diverse friends can lead to more diverse experiences
• To be a good friend, be open and honest, listen, and be supportive and respectful of boundaries
• It's important to set aside time for friends and prioritize building and maintaining friendships

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Good Vs Evil - Why Evil Doesn't Actually Exist
https://youtu.be/6P_Kvx5uC2I

• Introduction to the topic of good versus evil
• The importance of understanding good and evil, and how it can lead to dysfunction and closed-mindedness
• Conventional wisdom on the subject is often wrong
• The importance of doing a personal investigation into the topic, rather than just believing what one is told
• Definition of good and evil as subjective and culturally relative
• The concept of ego and how it can lead to harmful actions
• The role of consciousness and awareness in avoiding harmful actions
• The concept of "shadow" and how it can lead to harmful actions
• The importance of taking responsibility for one's actions
• Conclusion and summary of the importance of understanding good and evil in order to live a more fulfilling life
• Beliefs about something can have a big impact on a person, but it's the person's ego that is affected, not the reality of the situation
• Social conditioning can influence a person's beliefs about what is good or evil, but if one looks within themselves honestly and removes this conditioning, they may find that there is no inherent good or evil, only thoughts and perceptions
• Objection: if everyone believes this, society will become chaotic, with people believing that actions like murder, rape, and theft are neutral
• Example of a pride of lions, who don't have a concept of good or evil but still coexist peacefully
• Morality is not necessary for society to function well; it is hardwired into our brains and exhibited as part of the evolutionary process
• If a person's actions are not harming others or causing suffering, they are being "good" in the sense of coexisting peacefully and taking care of themselves and others
• The purpose of morality is to reduce suffering, not to dictate good and evil
• Personal responsibility for one's own actions and the consequences of those actions is more important than adhering to a moral code
• War creates negative situations
• Buddhist mindset sees reality as neutral, which makes a person more moral
• Ego can cause conflict and protectiveness
• Conflicts in history often occur due to different agendas and preferences
• Black and white model of good and evil can be harmful due to ego defense mechanisms, lack of intellectual honesty, and adversarial relationship with truth
• This model can lead to contorting oneself, building a life around it, becoming judgmental, and becoming more extremist and less accepting of life
• It's important to let go of ego and defenses in order to be peaceful and accepting

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Communication Skills - The 6 Keys Of Powerful Communication
https://youtu.be/XCc6-qr0Gww

• Communication skills are important for various aspects of life, including personal relationships, work, and managing/running a business
• There are six key pillars to becoming a good communicator: assertiveness, authenticity, open-mindedness, empathy, clarity, and listening skills
• Assertiveness involves being able to convey a message and push for one's own agenda in communication
• Authenticity means being genuine and true to oneself in communication
• Open-mindedness involves being willing to consider other perspectives and being open to change
• Empathy involves being able to understand and share the feelings of others
• Clarity involves being clear and concise in communication
• Listening skills involve being able to actively listen and understand what is being communicated by others
• Communication is not just about what you say, but how it is received and understood by the other person
• Clarity is important in communication to ensure that your message is accurately perceived and understood by the listener
• Good communication is clear, accurate, easy to understand, and not abstract or open to interpretation
• Miscommunication can lead to problems in various areas, such as business or giving instructions to others
• Active listening involves not just hearing, but also showing that you are listening and engaging with the speaker through nodding, making comments, and asking clarifying questions
• If you have trouble with communication skills or want to improve, consider which of the six pillars (assertiveness, authenticity, open-mindedness, empathy, clarity, and listening) are causing the most issues and work on improving in those areas
• To improve clarity, consider ways to write clearer emails, prepare more for presentations, and get feedback from others on your communication style

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Low Self Esteem In Women - Why Women Have Lower Self-Esteem Than Men
https://youtu.be/4lef8aZnvyU

• Low self-esteem in women is a common issue -Self-esteem has two components: self-efficacy (ability to control and direct life) and self-respect (believing in inherent value and right to be happy) 
• Culture may contribute to lower self-esteem in women, as boys are often encouraged to be competitive and assertive while girls are encouraged to be nurturing and focused on relationships and families
• Women may also internalize negative messages from society about their appearance and worth
• Low self-esteem in women can lead to codependency and being a "doormat" in relationships
• Improving self-esteem can involve learning to assert oneself and set boundaries, engaging in activities that boost confidence, and challenging negative beliefs about oneself.

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Visualization - A Powerful Technique For Reprogramming Your Subconscious Mind
https://youtu.be/q89nSsjWjFs

• Definition of visualization
• Importance of visualization for self development
• How visualization works: using mental imagery and imagination to program goals into the subconscious mind
• Checklist for proper visualization
• Visualization exercise
• Steps for effective visualization
• Finding a quiet place to sit
• Relaxing the body and mind
• Focusing on a specific goal or outcome
• Creating a detailed and vivid mental image of the goal
• Incorporating emotions and senses into the visualization
• Practicing visualization regularly
• Believing in the possibility of achieving the goal
• Examples of using visualization for different goals
• Tips for improving visualization skills
• Use affirmations and positive self-talk
• Use visualization in combination with other techniques, such as journaling or goal setting
• Incorporate visualization into daily routine
• Use visualization to overcome limiting beliefs and negative self-talk
• Use visualization to visualize both the process and the outcome of achieving a goal
• The next step in visualization is to visualize in the present moment, rather than the future
• To do this, imagine yourself already being a millionaire right now, rather than in the future
• It is important to focus on your emotions and really feel what it would be like to be a millionaire in the present
• Visualization should be done consistently, every day
• It is normal to have resistance from the subconscious mind when visualizing in the present, but it is important to push through this resistance and continue the visualization process
• It is also important to structure your day around visualization and make it a top priority
• When visualizing, it is important to focus on the emotions and not the logic of the situation
• The visualization process should last for about 5-10 minutes, and can be repeated multiple times or on different goals
• After visualization, it is important to get up and take action towards achieving your goals

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Self Confidence - The Two Essential Avenues For Building Confidence
https://youtu.be/v99YFYPCqU8

• Introduction to the topic of self-confidence
• Explanation of how self-confidence works and how it is developed
• Mention of other videos discussing practical ways to build self-confidence
• Explanation that self-confidence is context-dependent and can vary in different areas of life
• Examples of areas where self-confidence may be lacking, such as job interviews, public speaking, social situations, starting a business, hobbies, approaching the opposite sex, self-improvement, and exercise
• Importance of identifying the specific area where self-confidence is lacking
• Explanation that self-confidence is not a personality trait, but a skill that can be learned and developed
• Overview of the two essential avenues for building self-confidence: self-worth and self-competence
• Discussion of self-worth and the role of self-acceptance and self-love in building self-confidence
• Discussion of self-competence and the role of competence, skill, and knowledge in building self-confidence
• Conclusion and recommendation to focus on both self-worth and self-competence in order to build self-confidence
• Confidence is related to mental game and self-image
• Confidence can be changed through techniques and work
• Context dependence of confidence: people may be confident in some areas but not in others
• Two ways to build confidence: competence (through action and committing to a path of mastery) and self-image (believing in oneself and one's abilities)
• In order to build confidence, it is important to take action and commit to a path of mastery, as well as work on one's self-image
• Confidence can be improved through affirmations, visualization, and self-care
• Confidence can also be improved by seeking support and guidance from others

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Why Women Use You For Money - And How To Never Get Used Again
https://youtu.be/4MCnc2Ip8g8

• Women sometimes use men for money
• It is not a widespread trait of women, but rather a result of men's misunderstanding of female attraction
• Attraction for women is driven by emotions and a man's status and confidence
• Men who don't understand this may try to use money as a shortcut to attract women, but it is not necessary
• Instead, men should focus on emotionally stimulating and being confident in themselves to attract women
• Men who hold resentment towards women for using them for money may bring that negativity into future relationships and hinder their success with women
• It is important to understand and address the flawed understanding of attraction to improve relationships with women
• The speaker has worked hard to let go of negative thinking and become a more carefree, fun person
• He has invested hundreds or possibly over 1000 hours in practicing and studying how to be better with women
• He has approached thousands of women, including one particularly attractive and intelligent woman who he ended up hooking up with
• Other men also wanted to be with this woman, but the speaker believes he was able to win her over because of his strong personality and ability to make her feel good about herself
• The speaker believes that having a strong personality and being able to make a woman feel good about herself are more important in attracting women than having money or material possessions
• He advises against trying to take shortcuts or using money to impress women, as it will not lead to lasting relationships
• Instead, he suggests working on one's personality and being able to make a woman feel good about herself as the key to success with women.

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Why Men Cheat - And 8 Ways To Keep Your Man Loyal
https://youtu.be/KV7dHrc_r9g

• Men cheat for various reasons
• Women often do not fully understand how men think and what they are attracted to
• Men are highly sexual and visual
• Men are attracted to a woman's body, face, and ass, rather than qualities like confidence, humor, or having their life together
• Many women make the mistake of thinking that their confidence, humor, etc. are what attract men
• A man's attraction to a woman's body may fade over time, but this does not mean he will cheat
• To prevent men from cheating, women can focus on maintaining their physical attractiveness, understanding male psychology, and avoiding actions that may lead to cheating (such as neglecting the relationship or being overly jealous)
• It is also important for women to communicate with their partners and address any underlying issues that may lead to cheating
• Ultimately, no one can fully control whether or not a man will cheat, but taking steps to understand and address potential issues can help reduce the likelihood of cheating.
• Humans are wired for long-term relationships, but it can be difficult because it goes against human nature
• Top specific reasons men might cheat:
• Bad sex
• Stale sex
• No sex at all
• Partner is overweight or has let themselves go
• Passion is gone
• Opportunity presents itself (e.g., attractive woman approaches and offers sex)
• Emotional neglect or emotional abuse from partner
• Lack of communication
• Lack of emotional intimacy
• Lack of connection or disconnection in the relationship
• Feeling undervalued or unappreciated by partner
• One partner is not meeting the other's needs
• One partner is not fulfilling the other's emotional desires
• Boredom in the relationship
• Feeling unfulfilled in the relationship