I lost my virginity

[Someone here]

I did it . I fucking did it . I lost my virginity to this hot girl (please no personal questions about the girl. like where she from or whether she is blonde or  brunette etc .to save her privacy )

So we both arrived to the hotel in 8th December.  I didn't pick up her from his house. She told her family that she is going for a vacation  with her girl friends.  So we arrived late at night and it was the  perfect time.  Before I arrive I masturbated to test myself..didn't cum .just was checking if my dick is working.
me and this girl were alone. I kissed her and hugged her then I asked her If I can go the shower. She didn't mind .she asked me "do you want me to go to the shower with you ?" That statement turned me on so much  .I went to the shower and started checking again if my dick is working.  It was .so I didn't feel I need Cialis. . As I was masturbating I heard her get in the outdoor shower. I heard a lot of moaning and went to check on her and I asked her if she was okay and she turns off the water and she walks out of the shower completely naked looking like a goddess..she had big breasts and was curvy. Then she looked at me up and down and she said

“I need your help”

And I instantly started growing a boner. but as I was talking to her , the horny 14 year old I am I started to get hard and she noticed and asked to touch it. I had to think about it for a minute and then I say sure so then we went inside and she started licking all over my cock and balls, and she was sooo good. It felt amazing and after a while I asked if I could play with her, so I started kissing her neck then her feet and went back up to to her breasts then to her thighs and then to her pussy and it was soooo wet, and I couldn’t get enough of her and she tasted so sweet. After a while I asked if I could put it in.

She said yes please, as she grabbed my cock and shoved it deep in her pussy. I went in and out really slow. Then she grabbed my hips and thrusted me deep inside of her pussy, she was moaning super loud and it didn'ttake long for her to cum. and she came a second time but this time was different because she absolutely soaked me in her sweet squirt. Then a few minutes later I came so deep inside her pussy (in the condom of course, so no risk of getting her pregnant).and it was the biggest load I had ever seen.

Then after that we made out for a few minutes but she told me to wait there for a minute and she went to her room and after 5 minutes she came out wearing a strapon and she had a bottle of lube in her hand. She said bend over bitch ..so i did then she started to tongue my asshole. After that she put some lube on her finger and slid it in slowly and it hurt but it felt good. So I was ready for the strapon and she lubed it up and stuck it in and I screamed super loud but I told her don’t stop and she kept on pounding my ass and soon after I had the best orgasm of my entire life, and the gape on my tight ass was the biggest gape I will ever see in my lifetime but she was playing with my balls . And man ..I've never ever felt that good my entire life . Then we ate some pizza and went to sleep .I rested my head between her tits and slept like that .
That was the first night . Then the next  day she told me she doesn't like to have sex In the morning. So we ate something. Played some video games together. And before you know its.it went dark .


we started by making out and taking each others clothes off, then once i was naked and she was in her underwear she pushed me against the wall and sucked my dick which at the time was about 5 inches i think. I was so turned on.

then she laid out on the bed took her panties and bra off and told me give her oral, which i didnt even know you could do to a girl but she told me how, then we decided it was time to finally do it

we did missionary style and were making out and hugging the whole way through and its to this day one of my favorite memories of my life, the intimacy there was something ive never gotten again, it was so special because it was our first time.

we were both pretty bad at it but i last about 5 minutes until i pulled out and nutted on her boobs

we then cleaned up and put on our underwear and she just laid on top of me and we fell asleep, it was like a scene out of a movie and i think it was the perfect way to lose your virginity

We didn't have sex the next  day because we were sexually exhausted. Instead we spent our time eating KFC and playing video games and I ordered champagne and we both got drunk and slept on each other's belly.

Then the next day we have regained our energy and appetite for sex . Although not fully. Because I orgasmed three times. So I popped two pills of Cialis.
we had a wonderful view of the sunset. Then when the night came , We immediately started making out with each other and then she went down on her knees and started sucking me off. I was already hard and she was looking at me seductively. We stripped fully naked and I penetrated her from behind.  slowly and soon after 5–10 mins I was fully inside her. Never had I felt our bodies so connected and we started thrusting in sync loving it all. It was over within 5 mins. Thanks to the foreplay she came first. I then came over her face and boobs.
We cleaned up and then returned we left the hotel next morning .The experience ended and then we met our friends in the cafeteria.  I gave her a wink and she smiled back. He had sex a lot of times before that.(she wasn't virgin, she didn't bleed when I penetrated her). We left today's morning because we were both tired and exhausted after having ejaculated too much .
One note I want to add is that sex require physical strength. Unlike masturbating. In masturbation only two muscles are working : Your dick and your hand . But in sex your whole body is performing effort . So if any of you guys have not had sex before ...just know that it's a little bit difficult than masturbation. Also there is performance anxiety which can make your dick limp no matter how hot your partner is or how she is seducing you .
In conclusion:
This was the happiest week In my entire life .I made some epic memories to remember for the rest of my life
And what's more exciting is she told me we can do it again in the future.
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[Tyler Robinson]

But you said that you did it with some prostitute somewhere in South East Asia, you mean at the time, you did not have sex? Just curious. 

 

[Someone here]

3 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

But you said that you did it with some prostitute somewhere in South East Asia, you mean at the time, you did not have sex? Just curious. 

 

It was a blowjob (she sucked my dick and that's it ) the whole thing lasted few minutes.  I didn't fuck her .but this is my first time I fuck a girl in her pussy and alow her to fuck my butthole (because I'm bisexual, I adore women but I also like dicks 

[Someone here]

@KH2 I've said it in the past.  One of my biggest sexual fantasies is to get fucked in my ass by a hot a girl . I guess that was after me getting into trans porn .I wasn't like that 5 years ago .I was 100% heterosexual straight. But porn missed up with my mind .

But who gives a shit as long as it feels pretty damn good ,right ?

[Tyler Robinson]

Just now, Someone here said:

It was a blowjob (she sucked my dick and that's it ) the whole thing lasted few minutes.  I didn't fuck her .but this is my first time I fuck a girl in her pussy and alow her to fuck my butthole (because I'm bisexual, I adore women but I also like dicks 

Oh ok. 

It's awesome that you tried this because I know how much anxiety can be involved while getting ready for such an experience. 

I'm glad you had an amazing time. I am also glad that you didn't allow any kind of shaming around bisexuality to get to you. I remember my ex asking me to do something similar because he was bisexual as well and I found it a bit uncomfortable and didn't understand at the time, now that you said this, I understand why he felt that way. I'll keep that in mind if I'm ever dating a bisexual guy again. 

By the way, no offense, just for some clarification, I don't think bisexual actually means just wanting to have that in your butthole. I think it means being specifically sexually aroused by men along with having sexual attraction to women. 

So my question to you is (since you're bisexual only you can answer this) — if you're bisexual, do you feel fulfilled if a woman does that to you and is it enough for you or would you still be attracted to other men despite your partner offering you an anal experience? I mean would you still look at other men or want to date them or is such a sexual experience enough? 

Also, do you get such sexual bisexual urges for the anal experience every time you want sex(or masturbating), or is this an occasional thing? 

My ex did not ask for such things every time, I mean it was an occasional demand. 

(kudos for being so bold and please take time to answer my questions thank you) 

 

[Osaid]

Wow, nice.

I feel like it's hard to find girls who are into kinkier stuff. Pretty amazing to get to do this for your first time. She seems very open sexually.

[Tyler Robinson]

Yea I actually almost envy you. You had sex for the first time and it was kinky sex on top of that. Not many people get to experience that. That's an awesome Christmas gift, isn't it? 

It seems you have been glowing(the glowing energy is reflected in your writing) since you had such a fantastic time. 

 

I'm still way too shy for sex. So this post is quite encouraging. 

 

 

Edited December 11, 2022 by Tyler Robinson

[Someone here]

1 minute ago, Tyler Robinson said:

So my question to you is (since you're bisexual only you can answer this) — if you're bisexual, do you feel fulfilled if a woman does that to you and is it enough for you or would you still be attracted to other men despite your partner offering you an anal experience? I mean would you still look at other men or want to date them or is such a sexual experience enough? 

Also, do you get such sexual bisexual urges for the anal experience every time you want sex(or masturbating), or is this an occasional thing? 

I'm bisexual by a vague definition of the word. My sexuality is quite circumstantial and fluid, so sometimes I'm 50/50 split between men and women, sometimes I'm 60/40.etc

I once masturbated to gay porn but it wasn't a satisfying experience. I tried trans porn (girls with penis) and it felt amazing . So no ..I'm not attracted to any body part in the make body except the dick. Unless the guy is a real 10 Chad handsome. Then it's a different story.

It's a bit weird, simply because it's still, somehow, taboo. You don't hear about bisexuals in tv. No one talks about how their sexuality is fluid.if they ever mention how they used to be into one gender and now they're into another, they often say it like they were wrong before.. Being with a man is cookie.  I don't have to take on typically masculine traits, I don't have to consider adoption, I don't have to listen to “you're too pretty to be gay”. I'm tired, and I'm taking the easy way right now. But after this experience I'm pretty sure I'm like 70% straight and 30%gay .

[Tyler Robinson]

 

1 minute ago, Someone here said:

I'm bisexual by a vague definition of the word. My sexuality is quite circumstantial and fluid, so sometimes I'm 50/50 split between men and women, sometimes I'm 60/40.etc

I once masturbated to gay porn but it wasn't a satisfying experience. I tried trans porn (girls with penis) and it felt amazing . So no ..I'm not attracted to any body part in the make body except the dick. Unless the guy is a real 10 Chad handsome. Then it's a different story.

It's a bit weird, simply because it's still, somehow, taboo. You don't hear about bisexuals in tv. No one talks about how their sexuality is fluid.if they ever mention how they used to be into one gender and now they're into another, they often say it like they were wrong before.. Being with a man is cookie.  I don't have to take on typically masculine traits, I don't have to consider adoption, I don't have to listen to “you're too pretty to be gay”. I'm tired, and I'm taking the easy way right now. But after this experience I'm pretty sure I'm like 70% straight and 30%gay .

So I guess your gayness wasn't a natural phenomenon and was in part encouraged by porn? 

I think that tends to reverse over time if you quit porn. 

I think this would not be the case for someone who is naturally bisexual. 

 

[Someone here]

14 minutes ago, Osaid said:

Wow, nice.

I feel like it's hard to find girls who are into kinkier stuff. Pretty amazing to get to do this for your first time. She seems very open sexually.

Yep ..that's because she is not Indian.  Indian girls are sooo closed off and sexually repressed. They don't meet guys except as a coincidence.  I'm pretty privileged that there are multiple and diverse ethnicity in my college. Then I can find more girls who are open sexuallly .

[Someone here]

7 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

 

So I guess your gayness wasn't a natural phenomenon and was in part encouraged by porn? 

I think that tends to reverse over time if you quit porn. 

I think this would not be the case for someone who is naturally bisexual. 

 

Yeah. Just like straight men watching other categories. It’s fantasy, and not representative of someone’s actual sexual preferences, just like how if you watch step-family porn, it doesn’t mean you are actually going to do it or desire to do it with your own real-life family.

Now, this obviously changes if you aren’t just watching it casually… if you obsess about it, then you’ve entered something abnormal and might need some professional counseling. Otherwise, it’s fine. Enjoy your preferred kinks and don’t let other people’s subjective opinions bother you too much.they probably are watching or doing waaaaaaaay worse shit than you.

[Tyler Robinson]

2 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Yep ..that's because she is not Indian.  Indian girls are sooo closed off and sexually repressed. They don't meet guys except as a coincidence.  I'm pretty privileged that there are multiple and diverse ethnicity in my college. Then I can find more girls who are open sexuallly .

So what happens when you meet a 10 Chad kind of a guy? Would you still crave sex with him? 

[Someone here]

2 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

So what happens when you meet a 10 Chad kind of a guy? Would you still crave sex with him? 

If he is really hot ..why not ? I don't have any red lines when it comes to sexuality.  I actually remember in my teenage years the first sexual experience I had was masturbating my dick to the thought of other dick touching mine . So like I'm said I'm pretty bi.

 

however, Technically speaking, i would not be straight anymore but at least bi-curious. But that’s not a big problem as a large percentage of the human population (both men and women) are bi-curious.

Some men think that if you don’t have anal sex then you’re still straight. But no, having sex with another man is not straight sex…

But i could still enjoy this kind of sex…

[Tyler Robinson]

23 minutes ago, Someone here said:

If he is really hot ..why not ? I don't have any red lines when it comes to sexuality.  I actually remember in my teenage years the first sexual experience I had was masturbating my dick to the thought of other dick touching mine . So like I'm said I'm pretty bi.

Well.... I'm offering you a scenario. Let's say you have a girlfriend or you're married to a woman. 

Do you think being bi increases your inclinations to cheat on your partner as opposed to being heterosexual? 

I'm saying this because being heterosexual and sexually satisfied with your girlfriend, you might not want to look at other women or cheat on your gf with women because she is already satisfying you and giving you something that any other woman could, so no woman would be special/different in any way. 

But being bi creates a unique problem. Even though you're sexually satisfied with your gf, there could be the possibility that you crave for the experience a man has to offer which something your woman can't because she can't look or act like a man during sex. So craving a different experience (with a man) can be a tempting thing. Does this imply that bi guys are inclined to cheat more frequently on their female partners with other bi guys in comparison to the cheating tendency of heterosexual men? Just curious how this part of the relationship equation works. 

This is one of the main reasons why I was so hesitant with my bisexual ex, I felt he would easily cheat on me and I wanted to abandon him

I hope you're getting what I'm trying to imply. 

(my biggest fear/concern/insecurity when it comes to dating bi was cheating.) 

 

Edited December 11, 2022 by Tyler Robinson

[Someone here]

4 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

Well.... I'm offering you a scenario. Let's say you have a girlfriend or you're married to a woman. 

Do you think being bi increases your inclinations to cheat on your partner as opposed to being heterosexual? 

I'm saying this because being heterosexual and sexually satisfied with your girlfriend, you might not want to look at other women or cheat on your gf with women because she is already satisfying you and giving you something that any other woman could, so no woman would be special/different in any way. 

But being bi creates a unique problem. Even though you're sexually satisfied with your gf, there could be the possibility that you crave for the experience a man has to offer which something your woman can't because she can't look or act like a man during sex. So craving a different experience (with a man) can be a tempting thing. Does this imply that bi guys are inclined to cheat more frequently on their female partners with other bi guys in comparison to the cheating tendency of heterosexual men? Just curious how this part of the relationship equation works. 

This is one of the main reasons why I was so hesitant with my bisexual ex, I felt he would easily cheat on me and I wanted to abandon him

I hope you're getting what I'm trying to imply. 

 

Cheating means that he is having sex with someone behind your back, without your knowledge or consent, while you are in a relationship with him.

If he had sex with other people before you and he became a couple, that is not cheating on you.

If you know that he is going to his male friend’s house to have sex with the friend and you are OK with that, it isn’t really cheating as you’ve said, “Bye, love you, have fun.” as he left.

It is when you come home early and find him and a guy in bed together and you had no idea…to me, that is cheating.

So yes..being bi can increase the chances of cheating .because you can not only cheat with a woman but also with a man .

But if I was  a girl and my boyfriend cheated one with another man..then I will immediately dumb him out.

I doesn’t matter with whom he cheated, male or female. What matters is that he respected you so little to throw commitment out the window. So he felt embarrassed about being attracted to men and felt horrible for having to see them in secret? It still doesn’t give him the excuse to disrespect your relationship, and disrespect you, the person he supposedly loves so much.

You can feel sorry for his internal conflict with sexual orientation without needing to forgive his cheating.

Bringing a third person into your sexual encounters won’t fix this. He has broken a trust.

 

[Tyler Robinson]

4 minutes ago, Someone here said:

I doesn’t matter with whom he cheated, male or female. What matters is that he respected you so little to throw commitment out the window. So he felt embarrassed about being attracted to men and felt horrible for having to see them in secret? It still doesn’t give him the excuse to disrespect your relationship, and disrespect you, the person he supposedly loves so much.

You can feel sorry for his internal conflict with sexual orientation without needing to forgive his cheating.

Bringing a third person into your sexual encounters won’t fix this. He has broken a trust.

Oh God. Thank you so much for confirming this for me. This was my biggest concern with my bisexual boyfriend. I mean if someone wants to cheat, they will cheat anyway, regardless of sexual orientation. It's just this nagging insecurity in the mind that someone who is bi has more opportunities to cheat than the average heterosexual. 

It seems many people tend to believe this same concern, it's almost turned into a popular myth and I just googled it and found it to be true - 

 

............. 

Like you said, being a bi does not give someone the entitlement to cheat. Cheating is wrong at the end of the day and being bi shouldn't justify that in any way. 

Or maybe we can flip it around and put it this way - that bi people have a greater responsibility (although not obligation), to make their partners feel sexually secured and let them know they are never going to be cheating, the onus is definitely on them since they are the ones with more options to cheat, with both men and women. This increases the risk of feeling insecure around a bisexual person and it's on them to mitigate this risk and strengthen the foundation of trust. 

Thanks a ton for clearing this important blockage for me. 

Have a great day! 

[Tyler Robinson]

@Someone here I don't like bothering you with lot of questions. But this one is nagging me. 

So my bisexual boyfriend said to me that he wanted to try with a guy. And when I displayed some discomfort at such a suggestion, he quickly replied to me - "oh I still love you." 

As in he wanted to say - "look I'm not having sex with another woman. You have nothing to worry. I'm having sex with a guy. I still love you for who you are. You can let this happen as this is not a big deal as long as I don't abandon you or stop having sex with you. It's a guy, not a girl. "

Do you think that by saying this he was being manipulative? 

I was very confused at his request. 

Was he trying to justify cheating on me in this manner and covering it with an excuse? 

What should have been my response to his request since I'm not open to having my partner have sex with a third person? 

 

[PenguinPablo]

@Tyler Robinson I would definitely bring it up and just be straight up about how you feel about it. Sounds like he's a kind of guy that usually gets his way also. So he plays it off like it's not a big deal and then does what he wants. As long as you don't bring it back up, he conveniently assumes that you were okay with it.

[Javfly33]

That's really a top G way of losing your virginity for sure lol. Congrats sounds you had a great time 

[Someone here]

1 hour ago, Tyler Robinson said:

@Someone here I don't like bothering you with lot of questions. But this one is nagging me. 

So my bisexual boyfriend said to me that he wanted to try with a guy. And when I displayed some discomfort at such a suggestion, he quickly replied to me - "oh I still love you." 

As in he wanted to say - "look I'm not having sex with another woman. You have nothing to worry. I'm having sex with a guy. I still love you for who you are. You can let this happen as this is not a big deal as long as I don't abandon you or stop having sex with you. It's a guy, not a girl. "

Do you think that by saying this he was being manipulative? 

I was very confused at his request. 

Was he trying to justify cheating on me in this manner and covering it with an excuse? 

What should have been my response to his request since I'm not open to having my partner have sex with a third person? 

 

Of course it's a form of cheating  . But you have to be open-minded about guys .most guys are bisexual but they keep it as a secret. They don't tell anyone about it .so im not sure how did he have the gut to tell it to you explicitly that he wants to sleep with a guy .he should've kept it a secret and not tell you about it .but since he is not doing it behind your back and he is open with you about it ...then you might want to give him some credit for being honest .
Like i said If I was a girl and my boyfriend displayed gay tendency I would immediately broke up with him . Why?  Because somehow being gay emasculates men.
However..if I'm being honest , I'm not sure what should you do.  That kinda sucks, not knowing if the person you're romantically and sexually involved with actually swings your gender-way. Maybe try to offer him what he is looking for in a guy.  So maybe you should fuck him in the ass if that's what he wants .

Option 1: buy a strap-on penis, duct-tape your breasts into your armpits and walk into the bedroom naked with your strap-on hard-on and see if your boyfriend yodels with delight.

Option 2: potentially deeply offend your boyfriend by questioning his sexuality and sexual commitment to you.

Option 3: be confident in your attraction and attractiveness and your lovability and trust your boyfriend and drop the topic and any associated thoughts and .
Do whatever YOU find best.
Good luck ?.