How to approach a woman with a child?

[StarStruck]

I was in the supermarket and I got steady eye contact from her. When I walked passed her she fixed eye contact and gave me the fuck me eyes. She made an innuendo about “fingering” while looking at me. All the while her child was next to her. Probably it was her child. In retrospect I recon it could be her nephew or something else. Would you approach her? And how would you do it? Out of respect I just walked passed her. 

[Eyowey]

You're kind of forced to acknowledge the child in some way because otherwise she will think that you're not going to stick around. But acknowledge her first so you don't come across as a predator.

[Nilsi]

Picking up a woman with a child is beyond stupid.

[StarStruck]

@KH2 she looked 25

[mr_engineer]

@StarStruck Don't approach in front of a child. Pick-up is an adult activity. 

If it's a family-friendly environment where families are spending time, they are very likely to frown upon you trying to pick up girls there. Go to a better environment for it, like a bar or club. 

[Gesundheit2]

Like any other. It's not like you're going to have sex with her in front of the child.

I hope I'm not sounding mean here, but children, siblings, parents, friends, etc. are all irrelevant when you're approaching a girl. If she's down with it, it's none of their business. But this depends on where you live. You gotta understand and approximate the social expectations before you do anything. In most places, you can approach girls who are with children or friends or even family members, as long as there are not adult males.

[StarStruck]

46 minutes ago, mr_engineer said:

@StarStruck Don't approach in front of a child. Pick-up is an adult activity. 

If it's a family-friendly environment where families are spending time, they are very likely to frown upon you trying to pick up girls there. Go to a better environment for it, like a bar or club. 

Obviously I would avoid such situations but she gave verbal and nonverbal cues and even made a sexual comment towards me about fingering. The kid didn't understand the sexual joke because he was too young. If she wasn't smoking hot I wouldn't have a second thought and forget about it lol.

2 hours ago, Eyowey said:

You're kind of forced to acknowledge the child in some way because otherwise she will think that you're not going to stick around. But acknowledge her first so you don't come across as a predator.

Now that I contemplated it. You are right. That is the only way.

She told the child: "stop fingering that thing" *while looking at me in a naughty way*

Me: *I had to smirk and continued looking at the product*

At this point I was finished looking at the product and had to walk pass them and she was still talking about fingering while looking at me. It was an open invitation to join the joke..

Now that I think about it, all I had to do is tell the kid that "fingering is bad". The opener is so easy. But at that moment I just couldn't think of it.

 

Edited December 5, 2022 by StarStruck

[Leo Gura]

My dad picked up my mom on the street corner while she was standing there with her son, my half-brother.

Edited December 5, 2022 by Leo Gura

[Linda22]

@Leo Gura awwww❤️‍?

[John Paul]

Wingman with a little cousin then they can game the kid 

[How to be wise]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

My dad picked up my mom on the street corner while she was standing there with her son, by half-brother.

I remember the video when you said you were so shocked when your mother told you that he was your half-brother. 

[Leo Gura]

1 hour ago, KH2 said:

Guess it's just another excuse of mine after all

It's not a problem, as long as you like kids. If you don't, then don't date women with kids.

[How to be wise]

1 hour ago, KH2 said:

I like kids - yeah they can be annoying, but so are most things in life - but I'd prefer them to be made by me, if you catch my drift?

Raising another man’s child is not very appealing to me. I’m putting in all the effort so that another man passes on his genes to the next generation, while mine are cut off. I have sympathy for the mothers who want to find a relationship, but I couldn’t imagine myself being in one. I want my dna to be passed on to the next generation. 

[petar8p]

9 hours ago, StarStruck said:

I was in the supermarket and I got steady eye contact from her. When I walked passed her she fixed eye contact and gave me the fuck me eyes. She made an innuendo about “fingering” while looking at me. All the while her child was next to her. Probably it was her child. In retrospect I recon it could be her nephew or something else. Would you approach her? And how would you do it? Out of respect I just walked passed her. 

Did you have a problem approaching a MILF at the supermarket or you have a general problem approaching?