I'm having sex soon

[Someone here]

Wohoo 

I'm feeling on top of the world.  The girl I met few weeks ago in college told me she is ready to have protected sex ..I booked a 4-star room in a hotel in Delhi from 8-12 December. 

Why ? Because I simply can't have sex at my apartment. 

My apartment is in the same building as a guesthouse. In fact, I’m the only permanent resident here apart from the owners of said guesthouse.

And almost on both a daily and nightly basis, I’m “treated” to the sounds of guests who check in for 10 or 15 minutes and then check out again.

It’s made me more disgusted with humanity than I ever thought was possible.

So that's why I'm shooting for a hotel .

However that's NOT  my primary concern at the moment. My primary concern is that the last two times I masturbated ..I was so sensitive (because I've been doing nofap since January). I ejaculated in less than 3 minutes.  So I don't want that to happen when I fuck this girl..I want this night to last for hours ..I want to absolutely fuck the shit out of this girl .if I ejaculate too early ,it will be a failure. 

So I need to buy three  things :

1-a condom. 

2-a spray that reduces the sensitivity of my dick so that I can last longer .

3- a pack of Cialis to help me get it up so that if for any reason I couldn't get hard .

This is my first time having sex ever . So I hope you guys overlook my immature excitement. 

and any sex experts here who had plenty of successful sex before to share how to have a kick-ass amazing sex ?. 

 

Oh man! LIFE IS GOOD ?

 

Edited December 4, 2022 by Someone here

[Sincerity]

24 minutes ago, Someone here said:

The girl I met few weeks ago in college told me she is ready to have protected sex

She TOLD You she is ready to have sex? What?

What's your relation to her? Are You dating?

Edited December 4, 2022 by Sincerity

[Someone here]

16 minutes ago, Sincerity said:

She TOLD You she is ready to have sex? What?

What's your relation to her? Are You dating?

She is a girl I met in uni few weeks ago .then I went on two dates with her to a coffee shop and a restaurant and we exchanged Ideas and getting to know each other .
She is definitely into me.  Because  she offered having "intimate time together "(that's how she framed it).if it’s what she wants it’s what she wants. I think people often underestimate how women also get urges, seems like it makes sense considering she’s a single before meeting me

I don't think it's an issue at all. I know many ppl will make assumptions that if a woman wants sex right away she's a skank and couldn't want a real relationship but that's just not true and not fair.

Also ..I don't have time for long periods of courting before sex. I can't just meet up whenever, it requires arranging some meetings  .So when I do find someone I actually like and deem worthy of my limited time more than likely we fucking.

[Eyowey]

1 hour ago, Someone here said:

Have fun. I've never seen Ron Weasley this happy.

[Jannes]

I wasn’t exactly an early starter as well so I know how you must feel. I hope everything will work out for you. 

56 minutes ago, Someone here said:

2-a spray that reduces the sensitivity of my dick so that I can last longer .

Please don’t do it ?

I don’t even have a good analogy for that but don’t you want the first "bite“ to be as real as possible?

Also I don’t even know if a spray like this exists but you have to be careful that it doesn’t hurt the mucous membrane of the girl you are sleeping with. 

Don’t overthink it too hard or put too much pressure on yourself that you will give her the sex of her life or something. Just be excited for the experience whatever it will be. 

[Someone here]

27 minutes ago, Jannes said:

Please don’t do it ?

I don’t even have a good analogy for that but don’t you want the first "bite“ to be as real as possible?

It exists .it's called delay spray 

In my masturbation sessions I  have used several techniques including benzocaine in different doses (spray, gel, etc), thicker, double and triple condoms, quick-burning exercise and I still can’t last more than 3 minute. The orgasm lasts 20–40 seconds, so I have to perform oral sex on this girl before I ejaculate inside her.

[Gesundheit2]

Awesome! 

[Sincerity]

2 hours ago, Someone here said:

She is a girl I met in uni few weeks ago .then I went on two dates with her to a coffee shop and a restaurant and we exchanged Ideas and getting to know each other .
She is definitely into me.  Because  she offered having "intimate time together "(that's how she framed it).if it’s what she wants it’s what she wants. I think people often underestimate how women also get urges, seems like it makes sense considering she’s a single before meeting me

Oh, that's cool  I was only surprised that she said it so explicitly.

Good for You! And good luck!

[Ulax]

@Someone here Nice dude

I'd recommend listening to this after:

Maybe put some headphones on when you do tho lol.

[Leo Gura]

Lol

[Cireeric]

I think it could come off as a bit tryhard and weird if you do spray and take cialis on your first time with her  You dont need to fuck her for hours like a pornstar. Especially for a girl this type of approach will come off as weird because they dont really understand the performance anxiety some guys can have. Most girls wont judge your performance that hard and if it isnt happening everytime will see it as a compliment when you cum fast on your first time with her.

[LSD-Rumi]

8 hours ago, Someone here said:

spray that reduces the sensitivity of my dick so that I can last longer .

Don't do it, it will desensitize your dick completely and you will not feel any pleasure. Some people cannot even cum on this stuff.

If you cum early, just fuck here again

Edited December 4, 2022 by LSD-Rumi

[Roy]

4 nights? That's an expensive investment to get laid lol. Maybe just book 1 or 2 nights, a weekend is plenty of time to have fun. Don't put too much pressure on her she won't like it.

As for the sensitive parts, I don't know what advice to give other than relax and breathe. A condom should help numb a lot and make you last longer. Really though just enjoy the experience and don't make such a huge deal out of it. There is a first time for everything! DO NOT use a spray or viagra or anything that will fuck with the natural function of your body. You are overthinking it and will ruin your own experience with so much tampering.

Even if you cum early don't act all defeated and sad. Tell her you want to cuddle and watch a movie for a while, then you'll go for round 2. If you are gonna have the night together, you don't have to rush.

Edited December 4, 2022 by Roy

[LSD-Rumi]

7 hours ago, Someone here said:

In my masturbation sessions I  have used several techniques including benzocaine in different doses (spray, gel, etc), thicker, double and triple condoms, quick-burning exercise and I still can’t last more than 3 minute.

I found what works for me is to masturbate in a more, let's say, tantaric way. I could go for half an hour when I masturbate in a more conscious way. But that takes a lot of practice.

[Nilsi]

6 hours ago, Someone here said:

In my masturbation sessions I  have used several techniques including benzocaine in different doses (spray, gel, etc), thicker, double and triple condoms, quick-burning exercise and I still can’t last more than 3 minute. The orgasm lasts 20–40 seconds, so I have to perform oral sex on this girl before I ejaculate inside her.

You have to stop putting sex on a pedestal.

You are acting like a 3 year old on christmas eve, that's the only reason you can't keep your panties dry. 

Practice with porn. This is all a mind-game. 

Edited December 4, 2022 by Nilsi

[John Paul]

Clap them cheeks

[Tyler Robinson]

I remember the first night with my boyfriend. He had sneaked into my house. 

He was nervous and shaking terribly. I kept looking at him confused and nervous as well. 

I didn't have sex that night. After that I never had sex. 

Energy transfers. If you're so shy, nervous and over thinking this whole thing to this degree then She will catch your nervousness and feel awkward/guilty and might not want sex anymore. 

I think he thought of premature ejaculation and panicked. I think for most guys premature ejaculation is the biggest fear. So fix that fear first. 

It can make women not want sex. 

[Bando]

@Someone here Dont know about your approach and  if im being honest im pretty sure she might flake but you've definitely got a good attitude, rock on playboy 

[John Paul]

Just have fun it’s your first time. Kiss her and touch her and have fun. Don’t think about negative things when the time comes. Just focus on kissing her, touching, listening etc 

[Leo Gura]

Be careful counting your chickens before they hatch. Women are notoriously not to be relied on for timely sex.