Each Part Of Your Life Has A Theme

[Razard86]

As you get older, different events will happen that will change the direction and conditions of your life. Many people think life is just some random events, but in actuality it isn't. Life is a thematic expression of love. If you are walking the path of self-love/truth, and are checking everyday where you need some tinkering to better align yourself then eventually you will become aware of the theme for that particular part of your life. That theme will be something you are struggling to express, for me that theme is compassion. 

As you gain more in awareness of yourself and others, you will become more impatient. Your ability to see through your own self-deception and others will actually start to irritate you as you constantly keep catching yourself and others. This frustration will bleed out into your relationships, and you will start trying to teach and correct others. Whatever issues you have within you will always play it out in others, this is what life will constantly showcase.

All judgment of others is judgment of self, any criticism of an other is always with you. This is the absolute truth, you cannot run from this, you cannot hide from this, because there is only you. Even a notion of a Higher Self, is baloney, there is no higher self. What is the ego? Judgment. Get rid of judgment then no ego. So if the ego is an illusion, so is criticism/judgment. 

I have recently come into my awareness that the current theme in my life is compassion. I am to cultivate compassion, by getting rid of judgment of others. A desire to teach born out of lack of judgment, will be expressed as a desire to connect, not a desire to correct. My biggest issue is my desire to correct, which comes out of my desire for truth. When a person has a need to be right, they become deathly afraid to make a mistake, and they become overly sensitive and fearful of criticism of any kind.

This is a difficult identity to drop because a need to be right is a strong motivator to find the truth. But as a result it can make you combative, preachy, and have you come across as judgmental. Understand... that this only happens because of fear of being wrong, and then being called out for it can be resisted as well out of fear of being wrong. I have realized that every identity has its purpose, and the hilariousness of all this is each identity can only see this...if they can drop their fears/judgment. I have recently practiced this with people I thought were crazy....and immediately I understood them. 

Compassion is the practice of meeting people (points of view) where they are at and through that process you understand them. Why? Because they are you. Socializing with others doesn't make you stupid, the belief of socializing with others making you stupid, makes you stupid! The purpose of solitude is to wake up to your delusions, the purpose of interacting with others is to find out your hidden delusions. You will discover how well you are integrated through your relationships with others if there is no resistance in the interaction.

[How to be wise]

@Razard86 I think too much of socialising with people makes you stupid, just because if you spend a lot of time with them, you will adopt some of the collective dogma in order to fit in and be part of the group. We all have the desire to be loved, and you will easily adopt the group beliefs in order to get their love. 

[Razard86]

17 hours ago, How to be wise said:

@Razard86 I think too much of socialising with people makes you stupid, just because if you spend a lot of time with them, you will adopt some of the collective dogma in order to fit in and be part of the group. We all have the desire to be loved, and you will easily adopt the group beliefs in order to get their love. 

That's a limitation you put on yourself. Also...everyone on this forum socialize with others even Leo. So explain is it making you stupid? Here is an obvious statement. If we are all one mind....who is getting stupid? It's all a game. Wake up. Don't fall for this nonsense even Leo knows it's nonsense.