I felt pussy was not tight, even though I have mid-big dick.

[Tudo]

I think due to masturbation, my dick got desensitized. What are the chances of this being the cause?

Edited December 1, 2022 by Tudo

[Phil King]

Yeah its possible you got the salami death grip. It should be cured by a week of nofap. 

[King Merk]

Could be. Personally I find if I masturbate too much then the quality of sex I have goes way down

[Tyler Robinson]

1 minute ago, King Merk said:

Could be. Personally I find if I masturbate too much then the quality of sex I have goes way down

I guess low stimulation?

 

[King Merk]

10 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

I guess low stimulation?

 

Yea kind of. It’s like porn is too much stimulation which results in a real woman being too low of stimulation. Then it’s super hard for me to cum and find pleasure in the interaction. Which is obviously unhealthy.

I’m like two weeks in with zero porn and my sex life has improved a ton. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with masturbation per sey but it seems porn is pretty detrimental to my sex life. 

[Tyler Robinson]

1 minute ago, King Merk said:

I’m like two weeks in with zero porn and my sex life has improved a ton. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with masturbation per sey but it seems porn is pretty detrimental to my sex life. 

What would happen if you were mutually masturbating with your partner and zero porn? Would that make you feel better and happy with them consistently ? 

 

[King Merk]

@Tyler Robinson yea sometimes we masturbate together. It’s really not an issue when she’s around.

My problem is whenever she’s not around and my sexual urges are so intense and feel I need to get that release

If I don’t have sex or masturbate at least a couple times a week then I start going crazy 

[Roy]

@Tudo How often are you having orgasms? If you are doing it every day you will get chafed and have lower sensitivity. It's a muscle that can get strained just like any other part of your body. Give yourself gap days.

[Tyler Robinson]

Learned something new today about male sexuality. 

Maybe this is the problem you're going through. It's called DGS

[Michael569]

It might be your brain that got desensitized by seeing unrealistic images of surgically enhanced female bodies for years, this is pretty common.

Reduce your porn time and try to use your fantasy instead a bit more. 

Occupy your mind with other things so that it doesn't slide to needing so much relief whenever you feel a boredom 

 

Edited December 2, 2022 by Michael569

[Tudo]

4 hours ago, Roy said:

@Tudo How often are you having orgasms? If you are doing it every day you will get chafed and have lower sensitivity. It's a muscle that can get strained just like any other part of your body. Give yourself gap days.

Yes. I have orgasms every day from masturbation. I had not reached orgasm with my dick inside her, I had to finish it through masturbation, it was a pretty weird situation actually.

Edited December 2, 2022 by Tudo

[Tudo]

1 hour ago, Michael569 said:

It might be your brain that got desensitized by seeing unrealistic images of surgically enhanced female bodies for years, this is pretty common.

Reduce your porn time and try to use your fantasy instead a bit more. 

Occupy your mind with other things so that it doesn't barely slide to needing so much relief.

 

Yes, I will follow your advice.

[Eyowey]

A good measure of sensitivity is how itchy it feels when it's hard. If there's no itch then you need to stop stroking it for a while and open your window more often. Oxygen speeds up recovery in my experience. Cold water too.

Edited December 2, 2022 by Eyowey

[Roy]

8 hours ago, Tudo said:

Yes. I have orgasms every day from masturbation. I had not reached orgasm with my dick inside her, I had to finish it through masturbation, it was a pretty weird situation actually.

Well fuck there is your issue. You need to cut masturbation, like TODAY. You'll be able to orgasm with her, you just need to give your parts a break and build up excitement.

She won't say anything because she doesn't want to hurt you, but this is a massive problem. Subconsciously she is going to process that as you not being attracted to her. It doesn't matter the words coming out of her mouth or yours, that is how she will feel inside. If it happens enough she will leave you.

[Tudo]

29 minutes ago, Roy said:

Well fuck there is your issue. You need to cut masturbation, like TODAY. You'll be able to orgasm with her, you just need to give your parts a break and build up excitement.

She won't say anything because she doesn't want to hurt you, but this is a massive problem. Subconsciously she is going to process that as you not being attracted to her. It doesn't matter the words coming out of her mouth or yours, that is how she will feel inside. If it happens enough she will leave you.

Yes, I know. I will stop immediately.

[integral]

When a dick is rock hard it penetrates forcefully. It’s possible you where mid-soft.