Hero in progress

Alot of men and women in the western world have become sexual degenerates.

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@Hero in progress are men inherently loving or do they just pretend to love a woman. Do they want a woman to feel loved to stroke their own ego? 

Is a man really capable of lifelong love? 

Why do they lose interest after some months or years? 

Is a man's love true or is it just infatuation? 

Did a man ever truly deeply really loved a woman he desired? 

Why do men say sweet things to women if they don't want to love her long term? 

 

 


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7 hours ago, Tyler Robinson said:

Is a man's love true or is it just infatuation? 

Have you ever truly loved someone or was it just Infatuation? 


How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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@integral

9 minutes ago, integral said:

Have you ever truly loved someone or was it just Infatuation? 

Yes I have truly loved. But he cheated on me. That was the only guy I truly loved. Because even when the attraction died, I was still with him and wanting him. That time I knew it wasn't just attraction. Too bad he realized it much later when the other woman dumped and cheated on him. 

Just yesterday my Norwegian ex sent me this message feeling regret for cheating on me. 

 

 

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You have to get out of the kitchen where Tate's energy exists ~ Tyler Robinson 

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8 hours ago, John Paul said:

why can’t a woman be “slutty” and still have self-respect at the same time? 

She can have self-respect, just not mine nor the tribe's.


Foolish until proven other-wise ;)

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Just now, Hero in progress said:

@Tyler Robinson

Alot of marriages dont work out, some do.  Dont take that knobhead back though, you would be a idiot if you did

I told him that I don't want him. He gets pissed off every time I tell him that there's no chance. He disappears and then comes back and starts a conversation to see if I'm still ready to go back to him. 

Rinse and repeat. 

I have decided that I will never forgive a cheater. He acts like a child. 

 


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You have to get out of the kitchen where Tate's energy exists ~ Tyler Robinson 

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@Tyler Robinson I don’t view true love as an emotion or an addiction or need for another human being. I think the love you generally experience would fit in the category of a romantic love and crazy love. 

 

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How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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@integral I really don't know what true love is according to you. 

 


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You have to get out of the kitchen where Tate's energy exists ~ Tyler Robinson 

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On 11/25/2022 at 11:05 PM, Eyowey said:

I had a girl on my bed once. We were playing a video game. I did not want to fuck her because I knew she had already been fucked. I only want virgins.

Lolz. You guys are so silly.

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@Tyler Robinson

I think the last one is true love 


How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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@integral I think my love for him was crazy in the beginning and then turned into compassionate love. 

Although I consider compassion as the highest form of love. 

My love for him was like a service. I was always there for him. I didn't expect anything from him other than loyalty. 

He on the other hand was very shallow and thought that it was okay to cheat on women 

I was strict about loyalty. 

For him it was a convenience relationship. He needed me as a personal therapist and listener. He was using me as emotional diaper. And I was not able to separate my empathy for him. 

After the breakup, I grew up big time, got rid of that useless empathy and walked towards self love. 

Now whenever he plays victim and starts how he is so lonely, I don't feel any sympathy for him anymore. I'm able to attend to my own needs better. I don't even reply if I don't feel like replying to him or if I have some work. 

Before I used to reply to his every text, sometimes I would not even eat food because he wanted to talk to me. I was like that with him. 

But I changed a lot and went through a lot of growth. 

It was a spectacular recovery from who I was before. 

I was too naive. Too trusting. 

Then I learned to question people and be critical and not give power to others. 

Long process. Took a year. Tremendous growth. 

 

 


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You have to get out of the kitchen where Tate's energy exists ~ Tyler Robinson 

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@Tahuti

Its nonsense to you brother because you probably spend most your time busting nuts and weakening your self, I can already tell. 

My advice to men who struggle finding sexual partners is to hold on to there masculine energy through celibacy and sexual transmutation to become so much more than they ever could be.  In other words squeezing everything out of themselves and there precious life, rather than squeezing all there juice out of there balls. I have to be religious to have this perspective ay?  Or maybe its rather intelligence, discipline and experience. 

As for females its essentially the same message but the other way around, I know most of them don't have trouble finding sexual partners so for them I say it can't hurt to have a bit of self-restraint and respect for there own bodies. 

And yeah you seem like your at God consciousness right now, just coming down to feed the peasants your holy knowledge once every 5 days how noble of you brother, Jesus aint got shit on you has he

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3 minutes ago, Cat_eyes said:

imagine you waited until marriage for sex then your husband creeped you out in the bedroom and now you’re stuck with him. Lol. 

Though, ironically, conservative societies/arranged marriages are way less prone to divorce.


Foolish until proven other-wise ;)

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Just now, Cat_eyes said:

@Gesundheit2 yeah only because they aren’t allowed to leave. Most of the women are terribly unhappy and not attracted to the husbands. 

They're allowed to leave, and some of them do, eventually. But leaving probably sucks even more than staying, so the majority stays. I don't know if it's better or worse. The entire concept seems flawed and unmaintainable in this modern era.


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27 minutes ago, Tahuti said:
  1. Stop this non-sense and mature yourself. I enjoy sexually experienced partners who do not just lay on the bed with my penis inside them for the entire duration of our sexual-intercourse.
  2. I would not be suprised if you are christain or catholic.
  3. You anti-porn people needs some serious medical examinations. Nothing is wrong with porn. Idk why you guys act like it is such a bad thing.
  4. It is not about body count. A women has sex many times in one relationship. You cannot be this FOOLISH. You would rather have a girl who is "pure" and had sex 76x in one relationship; vs. THREE-TIMES, but having been with 5 GUYS....?

One of the few smart replies in this thread. 

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@Tahuti

Mate I understand that it is a powerful force to harness and difficult to control but not impossible, but  are you actually trying to argue for porn consumption?  You do what you want, but dont try and make out that porn is harmless on my post son! Im here saving the children ;) 

Women are well aware that men think with there penis 

And we call a women who sleeps around with a lot of men sluts

Don't waste my time with word games boy

I think your ego would feel inflated if your post got lots of comments that's why you said it, for me I couldn't give a shit It makes no real difference to my life in the scheme of things 

You cant convince me that the message does not have some relevancy and ultimately good intentions for both sexes, I aint here though to pussy foot around people emotions so I say it how it is  

Oh and yeah you are right ego does hate what it cant control, thats why you dont like me telling you stop watching porn and busting nuts cause you cant stop 

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1 hour ago, Tahuti said:

One experience, alot more to come. Be firm in yourself before communicating. No one should hinder your ability to eat. Much love goes toward your way. 93/93

 

Thanks a lot for the kind words. 

 


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 Be careful being too demanding in relationships. Relate to the person at the level they are at, not where you need them to be.

You have to get out of the kitchen where Tate's energy exists ~ Tyler Robinson 

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Sex is good. Enjoy sex with as many people as you can want. 
 

This sexual shaming is culturally relative. And it honestly can cause a lot of dysfunction. 

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@Hero in progress Today's example of 'Projecting my sexual shame onto others'


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