Question for Chads here

[something_else]

44 minutes ago, LSD-Rumi said:

what you're referring at as your "authentic self" is actually your weak beta self

Being authentic is a good thing. You need to run this balance between authenticity and pushing yourself to change.

I often see people saying both of these things:

1. You must be your authentic self, don't change yourself for others
2. You must disregard your nice-guy authenticity and make yourself appear as masculine as possible

When in reality the ideal is to balance these two things.

[StarStruck]

I don’t get why this is a problem. Insecure girls are sexy. And girls are attracted to guys who make them insecure. It is like asking “why are people people insecure towards me while I’m jacked and a three time kickboxing champion?”. It comes with the territory. You have to find somebody of your own stature or just accept it. Power plays a huge part in human relationships in general, not only in male-female dynamics. 

[LSD-Rumi]

@something_else I didn't mean either of those things. Keep your personality but just learn to be stronger. There is not actually any interfernce between those two things.