Reality is Simple

[Thought Art]

2 hours ago, Galyna said:

It means you are still triggered, LOL, no offense....

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Alright Not going to speak to you on this thread. Take care guys!

I’m setting a rule to not speak to jerks. Take note. 
 

[Galyna]

22 hours ago, Thought Art said:

I’m setting a rule to not speak to jerks. Take note. 

I am sorry you feel this way, because I love when people stopping by and spend their time in my thread.

I do appreciate your participation; I am sorry if I was not accommodating to understand you better.

Let's not take it personally and maybe next time we can understand each other better.

Have a wonderful day! 

Edited November 20, 2022 by Galyna

[Galyna]

6 hours ago, Judy2 said:

@Galyna hey, i liked your post:) don't care about the others, it's beautiful that you expressed this with your own words.

 

Thank you, Dear

 

[Razard86]

8 hours ago, Galyna said:

I am sorry you feel this way, because I love when people stop by and spend their time in my thread.

I do appreciate your participation; I am sorry if I was not accommodating to understand you better.

Let's not take it personally and maybe next time we can understand each other better.

Have a wonderful day! 

Not sure why you feel sorry, your apology is not going to prevent triggering from happening. It just happens, and has absolutely nothing to do with you. I once came across a girl who got triggered by cartoon characters as she sees them as scary. When someone gets triggered by something you say it has everything to do with them and nothing to do with you.

You just got called a jerk and nothing you did....fit that label. Notice....only one person called you that and felt that way. That means...that person constructed that entire meaning....themselves. So how can you be a jerk? When only one person thinks that way? You write enough threads....you'll be called a jerk a lot more LOL. 

You keep apologizing every time someone gets triggered you will be apologizing for everything. Outside of direct personal attacks and threats, you are good...also notice....that person made a personal attack....they called you a jerk. LOL. So who is the jerk....the one who is interpreted as one...or the one who calls one a jerk? Who knows?......

[Galyna]

11 hours ago, Razard86 said:

Not sure why you feel sorry, your apology is not going to prevent triggering from happening.

Actually, I used the phrase in a wrong way, maybe I wanted to say: I regret you are feeling this way. I agree... this would have been more honest. I do not really know what emotional load the phrase: I am sorry means to native speakers. Looks like it is way more serios than I take it.

11 hours ago, Razard86 said:

You just got called a jerk and nothing you did....fit that label.

I am not a jerk, I do not react to this phrase, you can call me a bitch, cu**, or anything, I would care less. It does not trigger me anymore. 

11 hours ago, Razard86 said:

That means...that person constructed that entire meaning....themselves. So how can you be a jerk? When only one person thinks that way? You write enough threads....you'll be called a jerk a lot more LOL. 

He did construct the meaning, indeed. What is wrong with saying that I was regretting he felt this way? 

Actually, the guys' ego might be injured, wounded, traumatized, and he needs some love. He might have personal life issues we do not know or not aware. I do not think/see a being like that, through the prism of drama. In fact, it made me smile. 

I see him as a being who suffers and ignorant.  People like this need more love. 

My biggest wish is to carry love to others and help people heal. Because they do not know, and they suffer. 

11 hours ago, Razard86 said:

You keep apologizing every time someone gets triggered you will be apologizing for everything.

I do it deliberately, I am perfectly aware of what I write here and how I behave, because I want to show the person that I am not a threat to them. And they can relax. Once their ego is relaxed, they will be more open to see the Light. Fear causes all the drama and name calling.

I am truly sorry for all the people on this forum who suffer. And they act the way they do because they are not happy! It is so simple.

Your approach is masculine, you would rather hurt feelings but protect your stance and win the verbal battle. My approach is feminine, I would rather drop my stance/point but connect to people in a lovely way, so they feel happy. 

But why reacting out of fear? I would rather react out of Love.

I love PEOPLE! 

 

Edited November 20, 2022 by Galyna

[Razard86]

12 hours ago, Galyna said:

Actually, I used the phrase in a wrong way, maybe I wanted to say: I regret you are feeling this way. I agree... this would have been more honest. I do not really know what emotional load the phrase: I am sorry means to native speakers. Looks like it is way more serios than I take it.

I am not a jerk, I do not react to this phrase, you can call me a bitch, cu**, or anything, I would care less. It does not trigger me anymore. 

He did construct the meaning, indeed. What is wrong with saying that I was regretting he felt this way? 

Actually, the guys' ego might be injured, wounded, traumatized, and he needs some love. He might have personal life issues we do not know or not aware. I do not think/see a being like that, through the prism of drama. In fact, it made me smile. 

I see him as a being who suffers and ignorant.  People like this need more love. 

My biggest wish is to carry love to others and help people heal. Because they do not know, and they suffer. 

I do it deliberately, I am perfectly aware of what I write here and how I behave, because I want to show the person that I am not a threat to them. And they can relax. Once their ego is relaxed, they will be more open to see the Light. Fear causes all the drama and name calling.

I am truly sorry for all the people on this forum who suffer. And they act the way they do because they are not happy! It is so simple.

Your approach is masculine, you would rather hurt feelings but protect your stance and win the verbal battle. My approach is feminine, I would rather drop my stance/point but connect to people in a lovely way, so they feel happy. 

But why reacting out of fear? I would rather react out of Love.

I love PEOPLE! 

 

Well I am glad you feel this way.