Secret to healthy dating

[Heart of Space]

Here you go guys.  First I'd like you to read my thread on how to be successful it's short:  

Step 1, Get your life together

Step 2, You best not be jerking to porn that's shameful and women hate you

Step 3, Be open minded to different body types, beauty is subjective, stop looking at porn (congrats your dating options just improved significantly)

Step 4, After getting your life together you probably now have a personality, congratulations

Step 5, Meet girl and consistently show that you like her by just being gay towards her, you don't even have to have complex interactions.  Just consistently show that you like her.

And most important advice after application of said steps, be patient, you'll get rejected even if you're a good partner before you find a great one.  

This shit ain't complicated genuinely.  If you find yourself getting confused, you're overcomplicating it.  

 

Edited November 7, 2022 by Heart of Space

[Tyler Robinson]

Simplest dating advice —

Be what the woman wants. Give what the woman wants. Forget else. 

[Heart of Space]

13 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

Simplest dating advice —

Be what the woman wants. Give what the woman wants. Forget else. 

No, be yourself for the sake of your happiness.

Just be aware of the woman's feelings and be attentive to her needs.  

Being what the girl wants can be a huge mistake.  Girls want to be coddled, that's not always what a woman needs.  

Edited November 7, 2022 by Heart of Space

[Tyler Robinson]

3 minutes ago, Heart of Space said:

No, be yourself for the sake of your happiness.

Just be aware of the woman's feelings and be attentive to her needs.  

No. Do what the woman says or shut up! 

[Heart of Space]

@Tyler Robinson  Yes, mam.  

[Heart of Space]

5 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

What is so shameful about porn and why should I care about some closeminded retards hating me?

It's harmful to your ability to be a good romantic partner.  It closes your mind to a variety of forms of feminine beauty and causes addiction to sexual thoughts and feelings.  

I could write a short book on why porn is bad scientifically, psychologically, spiritually, romantically.  

It  makes you sad in the long run.  For the love of God stop looking at it forever.  

[Tyler Robinson]

49 minutes ago, Heart of Space said:

Girls want to be coddled

End of the story! 

You don't need any dating advice anymore. 

 

[Heart of Space]

4 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

This is different. I could even somewhat agree with that argument. Still, that doesn't answer why a person should be shamed for it.

Shame is a tool to make you feel bad for not being your best self.  

If you look at porn, feel shame because you are failing.  

[NoSelfSelf]

God help us all ?

[Raze]

This simply isn’t useful or good advice 

[King Merk]

8 hours ago, Heart of Space said:

Step 5, Meet girl and consistently show that you like her by just being gay towards her, you don't even have to have complex interactions.  Just consistently show that you like her.

Instructions unclear. I think I just fucked another man. 

[Heart of Space]

26 minutes ago, King Merk said:

Instructions unclear. I think I just fucked another man. 

Gay is a great word for happy.  Start using it.  Europeans are more evolved then us Americans that way at least.  

@Raze Sorry you feel that way.

@NoSelfSelf Do you care to add anything?  

Edited November 8, 2022 by Heart of Space

[King Merk]

1 hour ago, Heart of Space said:

Gay is a great word for happy.  Start using it.  Europeans are more evolved then us Americans that way at least.

That’s a very dated use of the word. Great was to create confusion in the conversation 

[Roy]

There is no such thing as healthy dating lol. You can be a personal development saint on your end, but the other person can end up being emotionally unstable or disrespectful and you won't know until you're already on the date and it's too late. You can try and filter but you simply won't know beforehand.

Dating is a numbers games of slogging through mud to find the diamond.

[Heart of Space]

11 hours ago, Roy said:

There is no such thing as healthy dating lol. You can be a personal development saint on your end, but the other person can end up being emotionally unstable or disrespectful and you won't know until you're already on the date and it's too late. You can try and filter but you simply won't know beforehand.

Dating is a numbers games of slogging through mud to find the diamond.

Yikes, sounds like you've had some bad experiences, @Roy

A natural part of the dating process is filtering out the unhealthy individuals.  That can be messy, but hang in there.  

@King Merk Are you gay though?  

Edited November 8, 2022 by Heart of Space

[Roy]

I'm quite good at filtering and know the types I'm looking for, it's just inevitable though you run into people that have unhealthy traits or attitudes but you don't see it on the surface because the initial game of courting is a lot of acting and being on best behavior.

It sucks but it is what it is.

[Heart of Space]

30 minutes ago, Roy said:

I'm quite good at filtering and know the types I'm looking for, it's just inevitable though you run into people that have unhealthy traits or attitudes but you don't see it on the surface because the initial game of courting is a lot of acting and being on best behavior.

It sucks but it is what it is.

Yea, I scrolled through your posts for a minute, you do seem like a high value partner on the surface.  

Just keep trying, lad, patience and perseverance through disappointment is of most importance.  

[meta_male]

On 7.11.2022 at 9:27 PM, Tyler Robinson said:

Simplest dating advice —

Be what the woman wants. Give what the woman wants. Forget else. 

One thing to never forget: Take dating advice from women with a grain of salt, most of them are unclear about why they get attracted to certain guys.

[NoSelfSelf]

@meta_male yeah giving women what they want is fail 90% of time, as a man you must know what she wants and when she wants it and if you give her to lead,meaning that you go along to where she wants it to go(what she wants) usually fails but not always its how it is...best thing imo is do what you want and what she wants comes after sometimes what she wants comes first because you see its best for situation its not simple as follow few steps...

[Tyler Robinson]

1 hour ago, meta_male said:

One thing to never forget: Take dating advice from women with a grain of salt, most of them are unclear about why they get attracted to certain guys.

If you only want to attract a woman, then maybe. But if you want to develop a deep bond with a woman then maybe not.