How to integrate the implications of oneness in direct experience?

[Vynce]

As quantum physics, non-dual teachings and, of course, you in your awakened state have figured out: reality is one thing connected to the center of your direct experience. Everything, even the slightest arbitrary bit of consciousness.

And as I'm figuring this out bit by bit I feel helpless.

What kills me the most is to see others "bad attitude" as a reflection of my lack of love and selflessness. On the other hand, others seem to be in paradise when I'm loving and selfless. But it always starts with my state. This gets so radical sometimes, that it's laughable.

I hate to say it but: How can this feel fair? How am I supposed to bear the burden of being responsible for every consciousness in this entire planet. Most people seem bitter and depressed. (Because I am  - of course).

I don't have so much love for this massive pile of depression everywhere I look.

I don't know how to tackle this. Especially if this direct consciousness gets even less ignorant. What way is there to gain so much love for this loveless life around me? 

[Vynce]

@Judy2 This can get soooo radical haha 

To a point where even a reply in this forum is only so informative or valuable in direct relation to my inner state. 

@lxlichael @Judy2 appreciate your empathy

 

Edited October 27, 2022 by Vynce

[Leo Gura]

Stop trying to change people.

Stop judging people and reality.

Everything is as it should be.

Enjoy your life. Don't try to be a saint or a martyr.

Edited October 27, 2022 by Leo Gura

[njuufa]

10 hours ago, Vynce said:

hate to say it but: How can this feel fair? How am I supposed to bear the burden of being responsible for every consciousness in this entire planet. Most people seem bitter and depressed. (Because I am  - of course).

No. That seems like a wrong conclusion.

When You become more conscious it affects everyone for the better. As You have discovered. But that does not mean You are now responsible for everyone. No. You dont need to become a mother for everyone. 

Keep Mothering Your own consciousness. That is only way how You can impact others through consciousness in a most positive way.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Edited October 27, 2022 by njuufa

[Razard86]

1 hour ago, Leo Gura said:

Stop trying to change people.

Stop judging people and reality.

Everything is as it should be.

Enjoy your life. Don't try to be a saint or a martyr.

^ True self-acceptance is unconditional love. Unconditional love is the realization that all distinctions are created by you and no distinctions exist. Its the realization that everything is YOU. Being able to accept your avatar unconditionally will by effect give you the ability to accept all of reality unconditionally. Reality just reflects the judgments you have about your avatar onto the Universe. So if you hate your avatar so does the Universe....because its you.

If every perspective of God....can learn to love itself unconditionally (waking the fuck up) then all is well. Each Dream...is just God waking up to the point of the dream being unconditional love. Its the only story/dream worth telling, unconditional love.

[Vynce]

3 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

Stop trying to change people.

Stop judging people and reality.

Everything is as it should be.

Enjoy your life. Don't try to be a saint or a martyr.

Sorry, I really thought Actualization was all about that. I'm really confused right now. I thought having a net positive impact onto reality is all God cares about and so should I. 

Now, I have no clue what reality is. Again. I was at this point so many times.

I never really got it in my ordinary states.

[Wilhelm44]

@Vynce Psychological suffering linked to the suffering of others, could be based on some subtle aspect of self which is still seeking happiness in it's environment. When i am fully rooted in Self as only source of happiness, my only job is to radiate Goodness wherever i go, and that is enough. A good question to ask is: what precise meaning do i give to the suffering of others, and how does that constructed meaning color my own sense of self.

[Jowblob]

10 hours ago, Vynce said:

As quantum physics, non-dual teachings and, of course, you in your awakened state have figured out: reality is one thing connected to the center of your direct experience. Everything, even the slightest arbitrary bit of consciousness.

And as I'm figuring this out bit by bit I feel helpless.

What kills me the most is to see others "bad attitude" as a reflection of my lack of love and selflessness. On the other hand, others seem to be in paradise when I'm loving and selfless. But it always starts with my state. This gets so radical sometimes, that it's laughable.

I hate to say it but: How can this feel fair? How am I supposed to bear the burden of being responsible for every consciousness in this entire planet. Most people seem bitter and depressed. (Because I am  - of course).

I don't have so much love for this massive pile of depression everywhere I look.

I don't know how to tackle this. Especially if this direct consciousness gets even less ignorant. What way is there to gain so much love for this loveless life around me? 

@Vynce It's not always the case, but if you have higher consciousness you affect the people more. So showing high vibe emotions = you pull the reality up and the people inside your dimension. Showing Bad vibe emotions = you pull them down in your dimension and affect their reality with the negative consequences. You don't have to necessarily actually feel those emotions, you can fake them for others and still affect the reality but on a lesser scale when you actually feel them.

The more conscious you are the more burden you have to carry.