Something is holding me back, help

[Hibahere]

Hi I'm on the journey to self actualization but there is one thing that always holds me back.

I have it in me to be a good communicatior a listener and a great social being. I used to be very shy at first and I slowly overcame that ...but recently whenever I am in university I always feel the urge to social, considering the countless opportunities around me but something inside me always stops me. It's like a voice saying that no you shall remain in your comfort zone...

What should i do?

[NoSelfSelf]

That thing i like to call the boss of your prison...so every time you try to wonder outside of your mental prison he will sent guards to stop you with different kind of voices (you are not good enough you cant do this etc.)

So you need to sent your own guards to destroy those guards 

You are the one whos the ruling and deciding who you gonna listen you need to fire those prison guards if this all makes sense ?

[Hibahere]

Thank-you for the wisdom