My extreme obsession might have fucked my life

[UpperMaster]

@flowboy

Really good advice. Thanks.

[Byun Sean]

It all starts with noticing that your’e good enough regardless of what other people think of you.

Instead of waiting to give yourself permission to feel good enough when other people approve, realize your’e good enough now.

when life situations seem to reflect to you that you are low status or aren’t good enough, it’s not because those things are absolutely true.

it’s just that when you have those limiting beliefs, you think thoughts, feel emotions, and take actions around those limiting beliefs giving off a certain energy.

people and life situations reflect that energy back to you making you believe that it’s just an unshakeable reality.

it all starts with choosing self love rather than self hate.

Ask: what would someone who loved themselves do?

and keep asking that and take action on the flash of intuition you get from that.