Socialization Issue

[Magnanimous]

Mine is this: I don't know how to trigger this state completely, but I know it happens when meeting new people (and being engaged by something?).

In it, I'm high energy, charismatic, funny, high vibe, extrovert, and (basically but not necessarily) unrestrained with my words. I don't think I've fully described it because I haven't been in it long enough and I'm not that articulate, but that's the gist of it. It gets me really popular and tons of girls.

But all the time, (especially after my first encounter with people), it just dies down and I'm reduced to a pretty normal state. Of me just talking in a logical, monotone voice, without that much enthusiasm. Basically the opposite of that peak state I just described. We could say that's the positive polarity of my social capability, and this is my nuetral.

How to get into that positive state on command?

Plz question me if you need more details on the state.

[Leo Gura]

Yeah, in pickup we call that "state".

Your question is how to build state, or get into state.

Well, that's what all game is basically about.

You build state by relaxing, having fun, and doing your approaches no matter what. It usually takes 10-20 approaches to hit state.

You're not going to hit state every night. Some nights will just be shit. But you can get a lot better at it by developing your inner game and being very disciplined about approaching.

Edited October 22, 2022 by Leo Gura

[Magnanimous]

15 minutes ago, Leo Gura said:

Yeah, in pickup we call that "state".

Your question is how to build state, or get into state.

Well, that's what all game is basically about.

You build state by relaxing, having fun, and doing your approaches no matter what. It usually takes 10-20 approaches to hit state.

You're not going to hit state every night. Some nights will just be shit. But you can get a lot better at it by developing your inner game and being very disciplined about approaching.

Is flow state the same thing as "state"?

[StarStruck]

Meditation can help to be in state by prepping your mind before going out. Get into alpha brain waves with special meditation techniques.