How do I play this out?

[Illusory Self]

So a girl is coming to mine for the third time. I am setting the frame of not going out to do stuff and being busy but it's almost like she has such an objection towards having sex early on. 

She has said to me she has liked me but maybe I had set the boyfriend frame to early on. I kind of just don't want to lead her on and upset her. She said like she wants to get to know me better etc... She's probably scared I am going to leave after I have sex with her or something

Really just don't know how to turn this one around or play it out. I might go next if she does not sleep with me the third time of meeting her. Because I think that will just cause her pain as I am pretty sure she is more interested in a longer term relationship. 

Don't wanna lead her on 

[petar8p]

On 10/19/2022 at 6:31 PM, Illusory Self said:

Don't wanna lead her on 

What do you mean? If you don't lead, there's no polarity and no strong attraction can happen.