ED my first time with a girl lol

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, bazera said:

@Leo Gura Doesnt ED drugs come with some nasty side effects?

No

2 hours ago, bazera said:

Is Cialis safe for young people?

Sure

[StarStruck]

Grown ass man who can't have their dick up is not normal. Get professional help. Perhaps you have a health issue.

Dick pills are only a temporary solution since it doesn't treat the cause but the effect of the problem. Also it might hurt your self esteem.

My guess, and it is only a guess, is that it is porn induced erectile dysfunction. Your brain is use to porn so it can't get hard with a girl in real life.

It really comes down to what you find more important: your porn fun or your real life fun.

[integral]

Squats

Kegels

Problem solved.

Worst case scenario I go to the bathroom and do a few squats.

[StarStruck]

7 minutes ago, integral said:

Squats

Kegels

Problem solved.

Worst case scenario I go to the bathroom and do a few squats.

Squats and kegels work for you to get hard?

[mamad]

Drop all the suggestions to trash

Your problem is not physiological its neurological 

Search for "pied" (porn-induced erectile dysfunction) and you will find the answer

I had this problem years ago and I recover from it

Edited October 17, 2022 by mamad

[Federico del pueblo]

12 hours ago, sleep said:

So I'm a virgin. The other day I was at a girl's house and we were about to have sex but I simply couldn't stay hard. A few days before we were in our school and she wanted to give me a blowie but same situation; thought I was nervous but then it repeated itself. I havent fapped in about 8 days now, which is when the blowie thing happened (tried nofap before and farthest I could go was like 4-5 days) and I feel like my libido has died since. I'm also depressed and have been for years but I had no problem with mantaining an erection before. 

 

This is probably one of the most frustrating things that's happened to me in my life and I don't know what to do. 

I've already replied to a bunch of these performance anxiety threads. 

Read what I posted in a similar thread:

You basically need to stop stressing about "failing" and relax.

Don't beat yourself up about it, don't worry beforehand and if necessary work with more in depth techniques (as described in the thread I linked).

Train your brain to love Sex by visualising sexual scenarios.

Work on deeper self esteem issues if necessary.

And don't watch porn because it might desensitize you and set the bar very high for what you think you need to be able to do (which can cause porn induced ed).

Awaken the inner stud

Maybe consider taking a supplement like maca for some time to increase your baseline libido.

Have fun!

[Leo Gura]

10 hours ago, StarStruck said:

Grown ass man who can't have their dick up is not normal. Get professional help. Perhaps you have a health issue.

It's just performance anxiety, which the pill solves by making you automatically hard.

Having a pill in your pocket gives you confidence such that you may not even need to use it. Just having it reduces anxiety and gives peace of mind.

The worst thing is finally having a hot girl naked and you can't get hard cause you are in your head.

Edited October 17, 2022 by Leo Gura

[LSD-Rumi]

10 hours ago, Leo Gura said:

13 hours ago, bazera said:

@Leo Gura Doesnt ED drugs come with some nasty side effects?

No

I felt  a very severe and nasty headache whenever I took viagra

[Leo Gura]

2 hours ago, LSD-Rumi said:

I felt  a very severe and nasty headache whenever I took viagra

Cialis is different. Give it a try.

Obviously don't take it if it gives you headaches. But also, you don't need to take the full dose. You can cut a Cialis pill into quarters. One quarter is enough. Taking a whole pill is way too much and can cause side-effects.

Edited October 17, 2022 by Leo Gura

[sleep]

Thanks for all the suggestions guys. I'm sure some of the factors you mentioned like overuse of porn or performance anxiety play a part, but I think it's mostly just anhedonia. There was foreplay and everything, but I just felt numb. I'll try addressing that issue and maybe buy some dickpills for the next time the opportunity presents itself. 

As for my sexuality, I believe I'm straight. Well, at least I've always used straight porn and never really wanted to use gay porn or anything. Lately not even porn really does it for me. I guess I can coom but I don't really feel anything and I barely keep an erection.