In Front of Cold Approach Dillema

[Rasheed]

The Cold Approach Dilemma:

Leo said to approach 20 women per week.

If I only approach women I feel are cute, I don’t think I would be able to reach 20 per week.

At the same time, when I approach women who I think aren’t cute, I am building social skills but at the same time it feels boring.

So, what to do? 

 

[petar8p]

If you cannot find 3-5 girls a day that are cute, idk where you live but you have to move to get noticeably better at game.

 

What are you doing now?

[Leo Gura]

Move

[Ulax]

@Rasheed Perhaps you could work on self-amusing more in your interactions.

I think that way you could improve your social skills, meet your no. of interactions goal, and also be more stimulated.

[Rasheed]

1 million people live in a city which I am in right now…Should I move? 

probably, I am just a bullshitter. Wasting your guys time with these questions cause

Today, I walked around 30 minutes around university buildings, I did 0 approaches, my ego mind is playing tricks on me. That thought of “creepy approaching machine” around university reputation is f****** me up badly now. I got 0 approaches this week as of right now. 

Sorry for wasting your time guys. 

Edited October 18, 2022 by Rasheed

[something_else]

5 hours ago, Rasheed said:

Today, I walked around 30 minutes around university buildings, I did 0 approaches, my ego mind is playing tricks on me. That thought of “creepy approaching machine” around university reputation is f****** me up badly now. I got 0 approaches this week as of right now. 

Because the only part you listened to was that this isn't a good strategy. You never paid attention to the alterative approach: university culture, build up a social circle, go to parties, go to clubs, go to bars

If you start doing these things you can approach girls much more organically rather than having to force it by hunting for girls around university campus

[Leo Gura]

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