petar8p

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I'm looking over the tread and it's kind of filled with the harshness of man-woman dynamic, I don't like that too much. There is very rarely something about sweet intimacy and sex. Let's mix this up a bit. 

 

Vagina is an interesting beast. I like to think of it as a special entity. There are a lot of nuances to what does it prefer in regards to rhythm, type of touch/stimulation, motion, anticipation build-up etc. 

 

What in your experience have you found that works pretty good for getting the job done that was perhaps even surprising/weird to you. Or what is something simple that works for you?

 

We can even talk about interconnectedness with the psyche, spirituality and whatever, feel free to touch new territory here. 

 

Ladies you can mention what guys are often doing wrong and what you responded well to in the past?

 

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2 hours ago, petar8p said:

Vagina is an interesting beast. I like to think of it as a special entity. There are a lot of nuances to what does it prefer in regards to rhythm, type of touch/stimulation, motion, anticipation build-up etc.

Is this some kind of platonic entity? Like a superlative... the vagina to end all vaginas? :P

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Ladies you can mention what guys are often doing wrong and what you responded well to in the past?

Vaginas: they're moody and picky. To the point that even I myself, as a vagina owner, don't always enjoy the same sort of stimulation all the time (or the same degree of it). It affects your mood and vice versa.

I'm pretty sure this is common, but assuming what worked well for one woman you knew works for everyone else.

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whisper to it ever so softly. feed it grain. brush it's hair 

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Tried Leo’s technique from the squirting video recently and that shit works wonders just for pleasure, not even necessarily making a girl squirt

Wouldn’t call it delicate or sweet although there’s an element of sweetness and intimacy in the build-up

You wanna start with a soft and sweet dynamic with cuddles, kisses and massages. And then build up into a rougher dynamic with lots of polarity. Combining these together with progressive build-up is the key

You’re aiming to lead your girl on a journey into her sexuality, let her know it’s OK for her to let out all her dirty thoughts and fantasies around you, let her know that you won’t judge, that you find her deepest dirtiest fantasies hot, and that you want to see that side of her come out for you

 

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10 hours ago, eos_nyxia said:

Vaginas: they're moody and picky. To the point that even I myself, as a vagina owner, don't always enjoy the same sort of stimulation all the time (or the same degree of it). It affects your mood and vice versa.

Interesting. I watched one girl explaining that if you as a man know the right type of approach she needs right in that moment, pretty much you can get pussy any time you want with her. Like if she's feeling insecure, try to make love in  a way where she feels in power and in control. etc. What do you think about that?

 

2 hours ago, something_else said:

Tried Leo’s technique from the squirting video recently and that shit works wonders just for pleasure, not even necessarily making a girl squirt

I thought that someone will reference it and I need to watch it for sure.

 

For me, thumb was an interesting one. Even tho it's short, you have a lot of control and strength with it and other part of your hand can provide stimulation to the clit area so you can play around like that and it's pretty effective ?

3 hours ago, flyingwhalee said:

What the fuck guys

Yeah. Feel free to talk about hurt souls instead :)

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11 hours ago, Tron said:

whisper to it ever so softly. feed it grain. brush it's hair 

xDxDxDxDxD

@petar8p thank you for your effort to bring back some balance/nuance

 

What I recently learnt works really well is being present, but not moving.

So my finger is at the entrence, just.. resting, waiting for the vagina to get curious.

Then at some point it will get excited by my patient presence and start to get wet and literally suck me in.

And I let it, but I still don't really move much, and my finger is not rigid.

It's just there.


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1 hour ago, flowboy said:

thank you for your effort to bring back some balance/nuance

Thanks. 

 

1 hour ago, flowboy said:

What I recently learnt works really well is being present, but not moving.

So my finger is at the entrence, just.. resting, waiting for the vagina to get curious.

Then at some point it will get excited by my patient presence and start to get wet and literally suck me in.

And I let it, but I still don't really move much, and my finger is not rigid.

It's just there.

Nice. What he will do next kind of anticipation ?

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Sexuality compatibility. Both should climax at the same time. Mutually seducing each other. 


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 Be careful being too demanding in relationships. Relate to the person at the level they are at, not where you need them to be.

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5 hours ago, petar8p said:

Nice. What he will do next kind of anticipation ?

From what I've been told, it's not even about anticipation of me doing anything.

Just about me being there and not going away.

The feminine goes crazy for a stable masculine that does not move.


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Oh ok. So it's not even tickling their mind, it's just about intensity of the moment and your masculine energy..

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@petar8p Yeah.

Just lay your fingertip at the entrance and do nothing. Look your woman in the eyes and make sure she knows she doesn't have to do anything, and can express anything. Wait. Wait more. Then you will see.


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   It'll depend on positioning, and other techniques involving fingers, lips, teeth and licks. Generally, you should be teasing and slowly build from intimacy, then during that pick-up the pacing. Slow and steady wins the race, don't go too fast or you'll turn turtle.

   Of course, you have to survive the entire dating courtship and PUA style dating, 1 2 and 3rd base, and make her comfortable with your leading to begin with. Even before this, you got to get your socialization basics down and get down your ability to calibrate and assess her body language, tonality, and signs of attractions or signs of her body rejecting you.

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2 minutes ago, Danioover9000 said:

   It'll depend on positioning, and other techniques involving fingers, lips, teeth and licks. Generally, you should be teasing and slowly build from intimacy, then during that pick-up the pacing. Slow and steady wins the race, don't go too fast or you'll turn turtle.

   Of course, you have to survive the entire dating courtship and PUA style dating, 1 2 and 3rd base, and make her comfortable with your leading to begin with. Even before this, you got to get your socialization basics down and get down your ability to calibrate and assess her body language, tonality, and signs of attractions or signs of her body rejecting you.

xDxDxD

Good thing that natural instinct kicks in at a certain point so the complicated stuff can be forgotten again :)


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On 10/13/2022 at 4:11 PM, flowboy said:

xDxDxD

Good thing that natural instinct kicks in at a certain point so the complicated stuff can be forgotten again :)

yeah rule number 1 is dont listen to women lmao. Thats just their way of trying to get you to be in your head so they can control you. 

do what you want and youll be A okay! I am finally learning this and accepting it fully 

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Learn to carefully observe her and the right thing to do next will come intuitively. 

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How is this post just me acting out my ego in the usual ways? Is this post just me venting and justifying my selfishness? Are the things you are posting in alignment with principles of higher consciousness and higher stages of ego development? Are you acting in a mature or immature way? Are you being selfish or selfless in your communication? Are you acting like a monkey or like a God-like being?

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17 hours ago, Tahuti said:

Hahaha sex trends existing on this forum. Will an end come soon to such madness?

What madness? 

 

 

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