Haha best example I found on how men lack understanding of women.

[Tyler Robinson]

Seriously this is how I felt with a bunch of guys I dated who I never resonated with.

You guys. Watch this. Don't tell me I'm wrong. 

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[StarStruck]

My experience is that a lot of girls are not ok with empty voids. They always look ways to fill it up. 

[vladorion]

Why would you date guys you never resonated with?

[Tyler Robinson]

22 minutes ago, vladorion said:

Why would you date guys you never resonated with?

I mean meeting them on the first date and realizing that they can't read my mind. 

 

[StarStruck]

24 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

I mean meeting them on the first date and realizing that they can't read my mind. 

 

you expect them to read your mind?

[Tyler Robinson]

1 hour ago, StarStruck said:

you expect them to read your mind?

Yea. 

[Egodeathrow]

@Tyler Robinson This is just being extremely anal and detail oriented which is not  a good way to live in these kinds of cases, even if it makes you money or makes you seem super important in your circle of reference. And people feed off buisness and academic talk, I dont like it at all its shallow and people will judge you if you have nothing to show for in the world. I have had girls who have went to university talk down to me in this same way though I think it is anal pretentious people in this case, Of course also being deaf to social cues and body language cause shes clearly just begging him to appreciate her presence unconditionally regardless of what she does in the world

[Tyler Robinson]

@Egodeathrow it's not about the specific video. You missed the message. What I meant is that men are unable to find a clue on what the woman wants in the situation. Not her presence. But what she has in mind. Men tend to assume a lot during conversations. That ends up in projecting things which can annoy the other person. Conversation is an art, not about who says what and how much, but about taking a conversation forward, making it engaging for the other person, at the same time collecting clues on what stuff might be interesting to the other person, sensing their discomfort in the right moment, knowing when to switch the conversation, making the other person feel at ease, knowing when and how to end a conversation. These are serious skills. They make the other person included rather than excluded.. Not trying to understand what the other person wants or worse making them feel excluded is bad social tact and bad social calibration.. A girl is going to notice how a guy makes her feel, not how much a guy knows about earth and jupiter. 

That was the message of my  post.. 

 

[meta_male]

22 hours ago, Egodeathrow said:

@Tyler Robinson Of course also being deaf to social cues and body language cause shes clearly just begging him to appreciate her presence unconditionally regardless of what she does in the world

The girl basically just wants to show up, look her best and let you lead her to the bedroom after you've built enough attraction. That's just how the dance goes.