What is your guys view on renting a girlfriend?

[onacloudynight]

I have been noticing this trend. It is still fairly underground, but there are places in the world and small parts of the US that allow for dating and relationship exchange services. Now at first this might just seem like a cop out for not actually developing yourself and although it does save you a lot of time it certainly doesn't save you money. That is the trade off. 

Me personally I think this is a much needed service. Especially since, 90% of men are not going to be getting the exact relationship they want and probably will never get due to the vast amount of competition nowadays. This service provides men to have their "dream" type of relationship, albeit at a cost, but at least it is better than getting nothing. 

I think this is also going to blend into gender binaries collapsing. As what is expected of men nowadays leads to certain core parts of themselves not being acceptable by women, when the same behavior would be accepted if he were female. 

I think this is the trend we are going to see... First more women are going to start offering their services to date them, talk to them, etc.... Then eventually this will all be outsourced by Robotics and Artificial intelligence once society gets advanced enough. 

[thepixelmonk]

Hasn't this been around since forever via escorts?

[onacloudynight]

4 minutes ago, thepixelmonk said:

Hasn't this been around since forever via escorts?

Yes. It's just that I see more and more of it getting itself into the mainstream.

[onacloudynight]

The dating market is so heavily skewed right now. 

Like what is the exact events that are going to correct it?

[NoSelfSelf]

26 minutes ago, onacloudynight said:

The dating market is so heavily skewed right now. 

Like what is the exact events that are going to correct it?

You taking accountability and realizing how skewed your thinking is 

[onacloudynight]

28 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

You taking accountability and realizing how skewed your thinking is 

why is my thinking skewed? What are your thoughts on the dating market? In what ways will it evolve into in the future? 

[Leo Gura]

@onacloudynight Stop this nonsense and go learn how to talk to women.

[StarStruck]

It will give you false success and screw you up. Don't cheat the mating hierarchy.

[onacloudynight]

8 minutes ago, StarStruck said:

It will give you false success and screw you up. Don't cheat the mating hierarchy.

Is paying for food cheating?

[StarStruck]

1 hour ago, onacloudynight said:

Is paying for food cheating?

That irrelevant to the mating hierarchy.  

[Bojan V]

@onacloudynight

1 hour ago, onacloudynight said:

Is paying for food cheating?

Eating ain't cheating.

[NoSelfSelf]

@onacloudynight When you mention dating market immedietly i can read you as easily influenced guy with no sense of self,no original and critical thinking,gullible is the word, you believe in this nonsense like dating market and now that will affect your action and your direction of life in this case dating...hiding behind that so you avoid  inner work to not see how weak you are..

You will also missjudge my message because your level of thinking is working againts you not for you...

Edited October 5, 2022 by NoSelfSelf

[something_else]

Man what the fuck. You think such a service would even come close to a real relationship? It would actually destroy your self esteem by convincing you that the only way you can get any scrap of love is by paying

The dating market isn’t as fucked up as you think. You think it’s fucked up because you don’t leave your house and get all your ideas about the dating market from online

If you actually pay attention you see guys of all kinds of appearance with girls. If you go to a club you can see pretty average or even unattractive guys who can attract girls

[Kalki Avatar]

@onacloudynight It will just get you more depressed. But try it so you can learn the hard way and your mind illusions drop.

I tried a few escorts in the past because they seemed fun. Never seeing these rats again. 

Maybe a hot robot could be fine for casual sex instead of jerking off. But it will never replace an authentic woman connection. 

Edited October 5, 2022 by Kalki Avatar

[Arthogaan]

6 hours ago, onacloudynight said:

Is paying for food cheating?

Function of food is to allow you body to thrive. So buying it via money does not negate the purpose of it, it is still fulfilled.

But the purpose of a relationship is to grow yourself, provide value and love for other person, learn about human emotions, about commitment, about friendship. So paying for that negates the very thing.

It's more like wanting to learn how to hunt via buying food - yeah, that would be cheating and you will learn nothing.

[mr_engineer]

It's highly dangerous for your mental-health. If you're lonely enough, it can send you down a death-spiral of delusion. 

I know from personal experience. I once bought a 'girlfriend texting service' or something. Because I was very lonely. When I realized the long-term consequences of doing this, I stopped it immediately. 

[Yarco]

If it's about emotional connection, just go make friends.

If it's about physical touch, get a dog or a cat to pet and snuggle. Or go all the way and just get a prostitute.

If it's about having someone to listen to you, a therapist is properly trained and probably costs the same or cheaper.

[Tyler Robinson]

You can't buy a heart. 

 

[flowboy]

10 hours ago, onacloudynight said:

Me personally I think this is a much needed service. Especially since, 90% of men are not going to be getting the exact relationship they want

As a man currently in his dream relationship, and with a good history of past relationships, I can only assume that you haven't experienced a fulfilling relationship, because it's not possible to have been in love & union with someone and still believe that a business transaction can compete with that.

What I want you to realise is that your thoughts are no replacement for experience.

It doesn't matter what point you argue here, or who wins, or who convinces who.

You won't know until you've lived it.

Don't you care about actually living and experiencing?

[Twenty]

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Edited October 5, 2022 by Twenty