First girlfriend

[Javfly33]

I´ve gotten my first girlfriend ever (I say like its a trophy LoL) and I feel lately im getting too needy with her.

Should I do pickup again to lose this neediness? In a way I know it would help to stop being attached to her, in other I feel it could be kinda cheating. 

Edit: Obviously I wouldn't do it to the intention of getting laid. With pickup I mean keep going out clubbing/nightgame and being proactively interacting with girls. Just to not lose the abundance/relaxation mindset. But I wouldn't do it with the intention of escalating it to anything.

Edited October 2, 2022 by Javfly33

[Jannes]

Don‘t know but what I would do is to learn to become a sex machine. You have a girl you can probably bang every day now so take that chance and learn to be really good in bed. If you know that you are really good in bed you gain a lot of confidence.

[NoSelfSelf]

Yeah that qoute i got a girlfriend is pedestalization, you wont lose neediness because you dont see yourself as someone worth pedestalizing...

You  shouldnt even have to mention that you have a gf because shes in relationship with you but thats more advanced mindset ?

Pick up should be coupled with inner work of Game which you are not doing and it wont go away, because mind is looking at outside for solutions..

[StarStruck]

You need to go to the source of neediness which is inside. If you find other girls, those will just be another emotional tampon for you. Trigger yourself & let go of identification of neediness and related emotions & repeat. 

[Leo Gura]

Yes, go talk to more girls.

[Jannes]

1 hour ago, KH2 said:

What really is neediness?

What exactly do you need from her, that you cannot easily get anywhere else, almost instantenously?

There's not a thing.

Neediness is so illusory. So stupid. You have made up an issue in your head, that doesn't exist.

It's not like she's your parents, family, your close circle of friends whom you trust. If those are gone, then those are hard to replace, if not impossible.

She's just some chick. Wtf. Replacable.

A relationship often becomes a lot deeper then your connection to your closest friends or even family. 

[Raze]

No.

 

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