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[Tyler Robinson]

 

 

many men believe that women are attracted to men in the same way that men are attracted to women. So, they try to improve themselves and put on a facade because they believe women are attracted to attractive traits and not whole entire people, because men are attracted to attractive traits as opposed to the whole person, at least initially. In the initial stages of attraction, to a woman a man is more than the sum of his parts. In the initial stages of attraction, to a man a woman is exactly the sum of her parts. So, when a woman is unattracted to them or rejects them the first thought is "What's wrong with me?" "For what REASON doesn't she like me?" "How do I make it so that she is attracted to me?" But there is no reason there because it's a completely emotionally based thing... and quite random. It like bubbles up from the subconscious mind at the onset of the attraction.

 

Edited November 22, 2022 by Tyler Robinson

[Tyler Robinson]

I'll call it sexual bonding preference. 

SBP

My preference is rape fantasy, rape kink or rape fetish combined with bdsm. 

[Tyler Robinson]

 

                             

You feel good when your dominator is punishing, disciplining, torturing, abusing, beating you etc etc. 

It makes you feel bonded and loved. Obviously it's unhealthy. It's unhealthy sexuality basically. It's like dark chocolate sexuality rather than vanilla sexuality. But it's a kink in its own right. 

It's like how we're addicted to junk food or liquor. 

It's our deepest animalistic fantasy that doesn't find acceptance because of its taboo nature. 

We don't like things that don't appear too innocent and we like to repress lt. This is repressed sexuality and it's best to confront it rather than hide it, suppress it or shy away from it. 

This is our taboo animalistic side and if we don't indulge in it freely and appropriately, it probably results in deep dissatisfaction and boredom and even detachment from living. Even aversion. 

Edited November 22, 2022 by Tyler Robinson

[Tyler Robinson]

The things that my mind is attracted to —

• Grooming 
• Taming 
• Owning 
• Disciplining 
• Bondage 
• Dominating
• Coaching 
• Guiding 
• Affection 

Negative side of it —

• Punishing 
• Disciplining 
• Bondage 
• Raping 
• Conquering 
• Abusing 
• Molesting 
• Rough treatment 
• Authoritarian but not totalitarian 
• Animalistic sexual affection 

 

Edited November 23, 2022 by Tyler Robinson

[Tyler Robinson]

I'll say I'm mainly attracted to —

 

• Grooming
• Owning 
• Taming 
• Disciplining 

I'll short form it as GOTD. 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

It's like separating corn silk from corncob. That's a very tough thing to do. Most of the above traits belong to abusers. 

These are leadership traits, some of them in the dark category yet they're useful to leading and taming people. 

What I'm looking for is a master slave Bondage relationship yet the master has to be someone who isn't genuinely abusive, someone who knows that he is using stage Red qualities (along with some Orange), but he is masterfully using them being fully aware that none of it should hurt me in the process. This is like using a mock fight to induce hormones that's all. This pretty much mimics rape fantasy. 

This sort of a guy will need to be extremely kind and empathetic to the point that he is aware of using torture for bonding and not for hurting 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

I'm stage green mixed with blue

 

And the guy needs to be stage Red mixed with Blue. 

Stage Red because he has to be raw caveman Disciplining type asshole. 

Blue because he is aware not to cross the line or make it hurtful. Blue leadership qualities. 

So my perfect match goes like this 

GREEN + BLUE   MATCH    RED + BLUE 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

 

I'm the only INFJ girl in this forum 

I don't know any INFJ guy. I haven't met any INFJ guy yet. 

There's only one  guy who is INFJ here and he is a bit passive I would say. 

 

He is probably a healthy INFJ. Meanwhile I'm the unhealthy INFJ. 

I'm more neurotic than him. 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

Now Hitler is a great example of Red+BLUE. 

He was deeply religious, made a good leader, he was domineering yet he maintained his own code of ethics so he was very much Blue but he was also a tyrant in which he exhibited Red qualities 

He was also INFJ. 

 

I might be attracted to someone like Hitler in terms of SD. 

 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

I tend to develop an inferiority complex around ENFP and INFP. Because they're less neurotic than me. 

They are also able to understand my thunderous emotions better and tend to keep me calm with their motherly energy. 

I'm mostly like a neurotic fervent child. 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

So I'm basically a Green Blue Hippie INFJ.

And I'm either attracted to Red Blue Neurotic empath INFJ or a sophisticated Blue Green wise empath ENFP. 

 

 

Hmm. 

 

 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

Hitler was a Taurus. 

And I'm hugely attracted to a Taurus. 

Maybe Hitler would have been a great match as a husband to me. 

 

 

 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

My general matches are Aries, Taurus, Virgo and Leo. 

I don't get along with Sagittarius 

 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

I'm thinking of Tony now. 

Maybe he is a Taurus. And not the cheating lying, deceiving clever Taurus. 

Maybe a good Taurus who really cares 

 

I'm in tears right now. I was manipulated so much and I didn't deserve it. 

When you love someone genuinely from your heart and you realize that they don't really give a damn about you, it hurts like hell even if that person is attractive for whatever reason. 

Nothing hurts like betrayal 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

My ex boyfriend's birthdays 

• APRIL 11
• APRIL 25
• March 2
• APRIL 29
• AUGUST 26

LMFAO APRIL..... 

 

Edited November 23, 2022 by Tyler Robinson

[Tyler Robinson]

I'm not going to talk about genotypes though. 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

So yea phenotypes 

 

A person is a combination of many things. 

Nature nurture 

Phenotypes 

Social Environment 

Evolutionary wiring 

Upbringing or nurture 

MBTI 

Personality traits 

Character and moral framework 

Energetic type 

Spiritual type

 

 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

Sexual bonding preference. 

Spiritual energy traits match 

 

Soulmate preference 

Magnetism and polarity 

 

Edited November 23, 2022 by Tyler Robinson

[Tyler Robinson]

Mental, moral, spiritual, physical, energy, emotional, sexual match 

 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

I think I'm sexually perverted and I have deviant sexual fantasies that I must learn to own and understand that this is also a part of my psyche blueprint unique to me. 

There's no point in shaming something that the mind is attracted to. I won't say the same about pedophilia because that thing is without consent and hurts children. And no adult has the right to decide a child's sexuality and prey without consent. They cannot control a child no matter how tempted they feel to do so. It's just based in power and control.