Journal :Let's talk sex

[Someone here]

Its hard to believe but there are many who consider themselves to be “Asexual”.

From what I’ve gathered, they don’t actually “hate sex” but they find the prospect extremely “yucky & gross”.

I’m not sure if any of these folks have ever tried it but I’m guessing a significant amount have & were supremely turned off by a bad experience.

I’m also sure that some have decided to be this way since puberty.

I subscribe to a few thoughts on this that are along the lines of: “Live and let live” and “To each, his own”.

[Someone here]

I have a love/hate relationship with sex. Not the actual act of sex but what many men have to go through to get it. It's the same feeling as being financially poor. On one hand the poor person would love to be rich but on the other hand that person is also often envious of those who are rich because it's easier. This is a problem for me because when I do get with a woman, I often mentally lose my want for sex because I keep thinking about the effort and energy it took to get to this moment. And it sometimes has little to do with the actual courtship of that particular woman and more to do with the general idea of what many men have to do, learn, endure etc to be worthy of that “sexual entitlement” from her. It turns me off. I've often had to apologise for not performing in the moment.

I much prefer sex with prostitutes because I don't get that thought with them. I'm there for a reason and so is she, no bullshit in between. Never had a performance problem there.

[Someone here]

 

I hate people who hate someone for thing that is not in their control, (Sexual orientation/Beauty/Skin colour/Body type/Financial status.)because,A person is gay not because he chose it , but nature chose him to be like that.

A person is dark skinned not because he wanted it , but nature made him so.

A person is born poor not because he loves being poor, but because nature chose to give him birth in a poor family.

And moreover hatred for people like these  should be more , because You are mocking a person for a thing that he did not choose himself.

He cannot do anything to change it.

So stop discriminating and start loving.

Gays are also human beings

[Someone here]

Women enjoy the feelings that go along with sex. Not just the physical part of sex. When women realize most men are only after the "physical" they get bitter on being just a piece of ass for a man's pleasure. But that's the truth of the matter.  Men are after physical pleasure .women are after romance and connection .

[Someone here]

Even with birth control and condoms, there's a part of me that just can't relax. People are having sex in this era more than anytime in history  .and the result is overpopulated poor dysfunctional society.  I think there should be restrictions on having sex causally. 

[Someone here]

According to many people having sex with anyone other than their life partner is seen in a negative way because of the way we perceive the world and the way we perceive is because of the way our society has been born and bought up.

This thinking is the by product of our society and the situations it had to face to achieve what it is today.

This society also prevents havoc and chaos that would be caused without its presence as there will be many people who will not be able to understand the true nature of many things around them(because of their temporary limitations and the current state of their being they are at that moment), which may affect their lives and the people around them in a negative way.

(By stating all this i am not saying in any way that the current state of our society is perfect, it’s far from that and we all need to awake ourselves up from the deep sleep we all have been, to live a life worth living and upto our true potential)

[Someone here]

Its part of human reproduction strategy to have as much sex as possible with attractive partners themselves but to discourage others from doing the same. → So you will reproduce more successfully than others.

We are all competing for having sex with highly attractive people, that’s why this bigoted double morale has developed:
Publicly condemning sex (of others) whilst (in private) having lots of sex (with highly attractive people) yourself.

[Someone here]

Many things about sex are exciting precisely because they are forbidden or considered unusual. The human sex drive is rather odd and much more complicated than that of most other animals (bonobos might be an exception), in part because of our complex social structure. So your fantasies are not unusual and not harmful unless you act on them in ways that cause trouble for you.

[Someone here]

You can’t really change your sexuality. No one can. If you’re straight, you’re straight; if you’re gay, you’re gay; if you’re bi, you’re bi. It’s not practical and frankly not healthy to force yourself to be attracted to certain people just because you want to.

[Someone here]

we only control our sexual  desires because the timing is not right all the time. the difference between us and animals is self control.
animals engage in sex for reproduction purpose only and so when the time comes ( say when they are on heat), they cant be stopped. They chose do it with just any female specie type around without consideration.
humans do sex for procreation as well as pleasure. In most cases of sexual engagement, among humans, its for pleasure so we are able to control it till the time is right with the desired person

[Someone here]

So I discovered that the best way to have an orgasm (for men) is by rubbing the area where the green area meets the blue area

[Someone here]

Maca roots are amazing for libido, these days when I have an orgasm, it is extremely intense to the point I have almost passed out. At times, I could barely get out of bed without resting for 10 minutes.

[Osaid]

10 hours ago, Someone here said:

Maca roots are amazing for libido, these days when I have an orgasm, it is extremely intense to the point I have almost passed out. At times, I could barely get out of bed without resting for 10 minutes.

What type are you using? capsule? powder? gelatinized?

[Someone here]

15 minutes ago, Osaid said:

What type are you using? capsule? powder? gelatinized?

Sunfood Gelatinized Maca Capsules. 

[Osaid]

19 minutes ago, Someone here said:

Sunfood Gelatinized Maca Capsules. 

Thanks

[Someone here]

@Osaid you're welcome .

And btw ..it's not just gonna increase your sex drive ..its gonna give you extra energy..you will become so energised that you won't know what to make of yourself lol..

I have been using maca for a couple of months now. And I must say it gave me the energy to do my workouts properly. Before using it, I could not keep training for long. Now I have more energy during my workouts and can do more reps.

There will be no harm to your body if you don’t exceed the daily dose of 3mg a day. I also use maca because it gives me extra minerals and vitamins I need.

[Osaid]

9 hours ago, Someone here said:

And btw ..it's not just gonna increase your sex drive ..its gonna give you extra energy..you will become so energised that you won't know what to make of yourself lol..

I have been using maca for a couple of months now. And I must say it gave me the energy to do my workouts properly. Before using it, I could not keep training for long. Now I have more energy during my workouts and can do more reps.

There will be no harm to your body if you don’t exceed the daily dose of 3mg a day. I also use maca because it gives me extra minerals and vitamins I need.

Interesting, I used it before and it didn't do anything, but it wasn't the gelatinized version. I've yet to find a natural supplement that noticeably increases my sex drive. Maybe my body is just built different. Caffeine doesn't have much of an effect on me either. I've heard lots of promising stories from maca though.

 

[Someone here]

13 hours ago, Osaid said:

Interesting, I used it before and it didn't do anything, but it wasn't the gelatinized version. I've yet to find a natural supplement that noticeably increases my sex drive. Maybe my body is just built different. Caffeine doesn't have much of an effect on me either. I've heard lots of promising stories from maca though.

 

You can try raw Maca magic roots . It comes in a powered version.  It has the same benefits and works exactly as the capsules.  The key though is to be persistent and take it every single day for two weeks at least and you indubitably will experience the benefits. 

For me it has helped me immensely I'm curing my chronic fatigue. Maca does not contain caffeine or any other stimulant, but it can increase your levels of energy. For that reason,I  recommend that you take it first thing in the morning. If you work in the night or want an extra boost on a given night you could also try taking Maca in the evening.

Good luck and let me know if you have any questions ? 

[Osaid]

10 hours ago, Someone here said:

recommend that you take it first thing in the morning. If you work in the night or want an extra boost on a given night you could also try taking Maca in the evening.

Good point. Might try it out. Not really for energy, but I'm just experimenting with libido right now. A lot of these libido supplements seem to have an energy-boosting side to them as well which is interesting.

[Someone here]

 I think, most of the time, hatred of women's traits or women in general comes from fear, which is not necessarily unfounded. Women hold immense amount of emotional power over men. Basically, women look for men's love, while men look for women's approval. Not getting it hurts like hell. This is why we have "man up!" but not "woman up!", and dateless 40 year-old men going on killing sprees, but not women. Both men and women feel the same desire for love, sex and connection, but the pressure to earn that falls squarely on men's shoulders and often times stays there - consider, for example, that if a man initiates a breakup, we instinctively assign the blame to him, and we do the same thing when a woman does. It is no surprise, that men's failures and rejections exacerbate the fear, and it's natural to hate what we fear.

To be fair, in an established relationship the power dynamic often reverses (although never completely), and there are just as many women hating men, having gone through bitter experiences, fueled by the fear of future betrayal or a