Are all sexual fantasies a form of trauma?

[integral]

4 hours ago, Tyler Robinson said:

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Can we have sex with out the desire to maximising pleasure and orgasm? What about a different approach? 

Yea it's vanilla sex. But when you truly love a partner at least in the moment, you want to give them maximum pleasure. You not only want them to orgasm you want them to orgasm multiple times. 

Personally I won't be satisfied until I see my partner orgasming to the max and orgasming even more. It makes me crazy  happy to see the guy orgasm multiple times. 

Well I stopped having orgasms a while ago, id rather prolong the intercourse as long as possible with no end, more like a meditation then a race to ecstasy. 

[Tyler Robinson]

3 hours ago, integral said:

Well I stopped having orgasms a while ago, id rather prolong the intercourse as long as possible with no end, more like a meditation then a race to ecstasy. 

I can't imagine something like that. Are you not interested in giving the other person orgasms? 

What if they want orgasms? 

 

Edited September 17, 2022 by Tyler Robinson

[integral]

34 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

I can't imagine something like that. Are you not interested in giving the other person orgasms? 

What if they want orgasms?

Yes I do everything i can to give my partner the best experience possible. 

But I want to explore new types of sex that is not all about orgasms. 

Edited September 17, 2022 by integral

[Tyler Robinson]

1 minute ago, integral said:

Yes I do everything i can to give my partner the best experience possible. 

But I want to explore new types of sex that is not all about orgasms. 

Oof. Go ahead. No girl is gonna like it. But to each his own. I am glad my partner is too dirty.  he gives me insane orgasms. I'm happy. 

[integral]

11 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

Oof. Go ahead. No girl is gonna like it. But to each his own. I am glad my partner is too dirty.  he gives me insane orgasms. I'm happy. 

lol thats great, but the situation is its not inductive of the deep connection I'm actually looking for. The connection im talking about is 10000x what is bonding vai honeymoon hormones. 

Edited September 17, 2022 by integral

[Clabber Girl]

sometimes sexual fantasies that may include BDSM components could be a part of a woman's innate desire to be dominated, it comes from more of a primal instinct part of the mind.