Razard86

I had a kind person tell me "No wonder we are so f**ed up!

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So there is a certain person on this forum who replied to me "No wonder we are so fucked up!" I replied that we weren't fucked up we were confused....    I think I maybe taking that back....yeah fucked up maybe a legit answer. Obviously I know everything is always working together in instant perfection. I am totally aware of it, not in its totality obviously but I see the big picture. But its funny when you see the small squabbles, and selfish egos running around so dysfunctional and you know....its not their fault.

Its so funny how important parenting is. I've had this discussion over the years with my friend but seriously...we need to take parenting seriously. How do we even fix this? So many people form relationships selfishly and give birth and torture their children. Then their child grows into an adult who tortures others....the first problem we need to fix is understanding the importance of the parent to help a child build a healthy ego growing up.

A flexible less rigid ego that is full of love. All this hatred and pain you see if literally the result of a bunch of hatred and pain being passed down generation from generation. Its incredibly hilarious that the answer to every single question is LOVE. Is like how do we solve inequality? LOVE. How do we solve racism? LOVE. How do we heal? Self-Love, and forgiveness which is LOVE. How do we unite the divide between modern men and women? Love again. How do we parent our kids? Love. 

What is Love? Go freaking watch Leo Gura's Love series and follow that!! But, But, that is hard to do.....exactly...that's we are here. Love is the hardest thing to do, but its also the solution to everything. Its the hardest thing to do....but if you do it collectively.....it then becomes the easiest thing to do. So its like investing in a failing company. Initially you invest love into selfish people...and you will not get equal return on investment. But over time...slowly...you will get a return. It will be small initially and then over time...it will increase until it hits a breaking point, a critical mass point where it EXPLODES!!!

But since collectively....we are so selfish and stubborn...we are crawling there so we needed a push. Global Pandemic? Push. High interest rates and mortagages/rent? Push. Crime could increase and maybe some more wars..PUSH. Sometimes you need to bring in a belt and whoop your children into shape!!! Survival, Masculine Love, the pain that forces you into action. 

All the problems can be solved with Love, the level of separation, discord we have is at the level of Love we are at. So...in whatever capacity/level you are at...just attempt to Love a little more. I know its scary, its painful, its like dipping your toe in ice cold water, but hey...either it gets done...or we annihilate ourselves (I don't think we will, but we may get close) but all separation is illusion we all impact each other. I can feel the pain of others...because...ultimately...they are me. 

You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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@Razard86 The irony is that love requires no effort. No effort is love. To the extent the self thinks it is real and thus uniquely important, it gets in the way of love (selfishness)

Apparently.

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1 hour ago, axiom said:

@Razard86 The irony is that love requires no effort. No effort is love. To the extent the self thinks it is real and thus uniquely important, it gets in the way of love (selfishness)

Effort and lack of effort are one. To surrender takes effort, it is the effortless effort. Why does one stop effort? Because the realization is that effort was pointless when one is love itself. But to realize that takes effort. 

To surrender the self and become one with the happening takes the most effort, it is the release of all that is, it is to release existence as a self. That is the strongest attachment, it means looking the strongest fear in the face and not blinking as the illusion dissolves. 

To understand how much effort it takes to take no effort ask the average person who has never meditated to meditate. They will struggle and squirm and will barely last 10 minutes. It takes more effort to NOT do something when one is conditioned to always be doing. 

You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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@Razard86 Sure. It could be said that in the story, effort seems to required. Thereafter it is obvious that noone was there to put the effort in. This has been referred to as the pathless path, the gateless gate and so on.

The problem with talking about effort is that it gives the self something else to stick to. 

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@Razard86 Jeez Raz what inspires you to make so much topics.

Truth is simple.

survival and reproduction

Evolution.

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2 hours ago, axiom said:

The problem with talking about effort is that it gives the self something else to stick to. 

How is this a problem? Its literally what we are doing right now.... if we didn't want to stick...we wouldn't want be dreaming right now. 

You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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2 hours ago, Zeroguy said:

@Razard86 Jeez Raz what inspires you to make so much topics.

Truth is simple.

survival and reproduction

Evolution.

What is survival? Love of self. What is reproduction? The desire to spread more of self. What is evolution? The desire to change one's self, to transcend into a greater expression of self. What is all this? Infinity's desire to express as a self. What is all this? Self-Love. 

So the answer is self love. I love my self so I want to share my self, which is what we are all doing. The problem is...we don't love our other selves...equally so it causes friction. We are judgmental of how we believe the self should be expressed, we are some picky selves of the ultimate self.

You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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12 hours ago, Zeroguy said:

@Razard86 Great explanation it helped.

I live to serve.

6 hours ago, NoSelfSelf said:

@Razard86 Kind of you saying that ?

Lol whatever do you mean?

But yeah I work with a tech company in Customer Service that connects with some Insurance Companies and The Elderly in America are getting hit hard by the Economy. There are a bunch of issues they have from their health, fear of being evicted, isolation from family and friends so a lot feel lonely and are dealing with depression. I try in little ways to assuage their fears but....I look around and realize this problem is too big for lil ol me. 

So the best I can do is my tiny part in encouragement for all of us to embody even a little more patience, and love for those around us. Every little bit counts you have no clue how powerful you are. I may drop a thread on that...but I might need to do some research to really drive home the point more.

You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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@Razard86 i thought you knew that im that person that said no wonder we all so f up ?

There is nothing safe with playing it safe.

 

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4 hours ago, NoSelfSelf said:

@Razard86 i thought you knew that im that person that said no wonder we all so f up ?

Lol I swear it was NilSil that told me that...you sure it was you?

You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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Just now, Razard86 said:

Lol I swear it was NilSil that told me that...you sure it was you?

Why are you so worried about who tells you? 

Nilsi doesn't exist. @NoSelfSelf is equal to self. You're same as Nilsi or me. 

What do you care about? 

Let it go. You are all and all are you. 

♡✸♡.

 Be careful being too demanding in relationships. Relate to the person at the level they are at, not where you need them to be.

You have to get out of the kitchen where Tate's energy exists ~ Tyler Robinson 

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5 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

Why are you so worried about who tells you? 

Nilsi doesn't exist. @NoSelfSelf is equal to self. You're same as Nilsi or me. 

What do you care about? 

Let it go. You are all and all are you. 

Ummm if this is true...then why do you care that we care if you are us? Its you that is caring...that's why you typed that comment. Also...what is wrong with caring? Should I not care? If not what should I care about? Should I tell you what to care about? Would you like me too? 

 

You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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@Razard86 i said that phrase in alfa thread and you replied with:we are not that fucked we just dont have love or im mistaken wont qoute you?

There is nothing safe with playing it safe.

 

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1 hour ago, NoSelfSelf said:

@Razard86 i said that phrase in alfa thread and you replied with:we are not that fucked we just dont have love or im mistaken wont qoute you?

I'll take your word for it, I couldn't find it myself.

You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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33 minutes ago, NoSelfSelf said:

For saga to end ?

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Wow nice find!!! I apologize!!! LOL!! Well thank you kind person and yes we are all a product of everyone we interact with. We are like impression machines just taking in stimulus to craft more interpretations onwards into infinity.

You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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@Razard86 No problem,yes we are but to heal we should come back to who we are as an individual, its really deep topic and many disfunctions come from being defined and shaped by outside world...

Edited by NoSelfSelf

There is nothing safe with playing it safe.

 

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