D2sage

Has your success made you lose friends in life?

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There is a famous saying. Its lonely at the top.


You are a selfless LACK OF APPEARANCE, that CONSTRUCTS AN APPEARANCE. But that appearance can disappear and reappear and we call that change, we call it time, we call it space, we call it distance, we call distinctness, we call it other. But notice...this appearance, is a SELF. A SELF IS A CONSTRUCTION!!! 

So if you want to know the TRUTH OF THE CONSTRUCTION. Just deconstruct the construction!!!! No point in playing these mind games!!! No point in creating needless complexity!!! The truth of what you are is a BLANK!!!! A selfless awareness....then that means there is NO OTHER, and everything you have ever perceived was JUST AN APPEARANCE, A MIRAGE, AN ILLUSION, IMAGINARY. 

Everything that appears....appears out of a lack of appearance/void/no-thing, non-sense (can't be sensed because there is nothing to sense). That is what you are, and what arises...is made of that. So nonexistence, arises/creates existence. And thus everything is solved.

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Not really, but I've lost interest in them. Hanging out with stoners is like hanging out with grandmas.


Intrinsic joy is revealed in the marriage of meaning and being.

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Its really hard to keep these close relationships together, when you grow so far apart. In some sense I appreciate my friends even more, but I also realise that the only thing that keeps us together is our past. Im grateful that we got to grow up together and I also hope that we get to see eachother grow into the men we ought to become, but yeah, its hard and I dont think there would be anyone to blame, if we ended up growing apart.


“Did you ever say Yes to a single joy? O my friends, then you said Yes to all woe as well. All things are chained and entwined together, all things are in love; if ever you wanted one moment twice, if ever you said: ‘You please me, happiness! Abide, moment!’ then you wanted everything to return!” - Friedrich Nietzsche
 

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Make new better friends?


"Say to the sheep in your secrecy when you intend to slaughter it, Today you are slaughtered and tomorrow I am.
Both of us will be consumed.

My blood and your blood, my suffering and yours is the essence that nourishes the tree of existence.'"

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On 9/8/2022 at 10:18 AM, D2sage said:

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   That's the sacrifice you got to pay, for trying to lead a very successful millionaire like life, working away in some room, allocating most of your time and energy into projects. For example, I am not at celebrity level fame, I am reasonably famous, but the process of writing my stories, creating my backgrounds and sprites, finding the right music, and especially coding my Visual Novels, while doing my comic books, and on top of that doing my business and marketing stuff for my projects, takes so much time and energy, that it's no different from a 9-6 work in reality, really. It's just you slightly like this work versus the other, even though this work is more restrictive for the sake of higher quality content.

   I guess I'm very lucky, to have had a small circle of friends in the past, but now very few to sometimes no contact, which gets me much more time and energy to do what I want to do.

   Success is the hell you go through, to make the heavenly content.

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