Girl Aggresively Pushed My Arm During Pickup

[BlessedLion]

I was having a awesome night out gaming and I approached this one girl who like aggresively shoved my arm as she stormed off. It took me by surprise because it was so aggressive and I didn’t even do anything I was just saying hi. 
 

What do you guys do when this happens? Part of me wanted to go up to her and confront her about it like “is there a reason you had to push me?” But I just let it go as I didn’t want confrontation. But it was such bullshit what a cu** honestly

[Leo Gura]

Just let it go and move on. Do not enter into confrontations with upset girls. Just talk to new ones. Some girls will be in bad moods and arguing with them never leads to anything good.

I've had girls punch me or claw me. It happens.

Edited September 5, 2022 by Leo Gura

[integral]

4 hours ago, BlessedLion said:

What do you guys do when this happens? Part of me wanted to go up to her and confront her about it like “is there a reason you had to push me?” But I just let it go as I didn’t want confrontation. But it was such bullshit what a cu** honestly

Notice how your negative emotions warped reality and made the situation all about you when her state of mind had nothing to do with you. She was in a bad state of mind before you approach her.

Notice how you judged her entire life by that one thing she did. "a cu**" because she threatened your survival. So for your ego to survive you had to make her lesser then you.

Edited September 5, 2022 by integral

[Tyler Robinson]

You'll always meet a few bad apples. Just be glad that nothing worse happened. 

Always be prepared for such things. It's quite common to get into a feud where people gather.... Example, bar brawls. 

For whatever reasons, such places attract tensed crowds and the crowding, booze or loud music can impact people mentally and they can get aggressive. I would actually expect things like that to occur on the regular in those places just by the sheer volume of people packed in one place, it can be headache inducing and stressful and maybe the other person was perhaps having a bad day, maybe they got into a fight with someone in the vicinity or on the phone {angry texting} and that can explain their bad mood apart from the alcohol. 

You never hear of brawls on the beach, people are usually very calm there, guess the waves and the sand calm their  alpha waves. 

 

 

[NoSelfSelf]

You start conversation with another girl about how some girl showed your arm and you didnt like that, but you like it in intimate situation ? something like that...in perfect wolrd where you dont react to stuff...

Edited September 5, 2022 by NoSelfSelf

[BlessedLion]

Yeah. I wrote this right after it happened so I was kind of riled up. 
 

Glad I let it go, she’s not a cu**, I’m sure.