I am struggling to find any top fitness/athletic babes who are available

[Hardkill]

I've always wanted to hook up with and/or date a girl who is a fitness model or a real athlete of some kind. I've been to many gyms, martial art studios, and other athletic clubs for many years and have talked to many girls at every gym I've been to. I've gotten with a couple of fit girls from this one LA Fitness gym I used to belong. My ex girlfriend was about a 7 to 8 in looks and she did yoga/pilates and some aerobics every week. 

However, none of those girls I got with had bodies that I would consider to be truly a 9 or a 10. Also, none of them were like college athletes, crossfit trainees, martial artists, or a well trained athlete of some kind. Every other gym girl and female athlete that I've ever talked to who were 9s or 10s, were either in a relationship with someone else or were single, but weren't interested in meeting up with me ever. 

I've been told by my family members that I don't need to get the hottest looking woman and I should just settle for someone who looks decent enough and has good qualities as a person.

I agree that it is better to be in a long-term relationship with someone who is okay looking and a good person than with someone who is really hot but is an asshole.

But that's not what I am looking for right now, and I really feel like I got to experience hooking up with or dating a super hot fitness babe at least one time in my life because those type of girls that really turn me on like crazy. Also, I've always been very much into fitness and have always loved playing all kinds of sports throughout my whole life. Therefore, I think I should be able to really connect well with some kind of super hot fit girls and athletic babes.

I just don't know what to do at this point.

[Federico del pueblo]

You probably have the best chances by becoming a fitness freak who has status within the fitness industry, like a yt channel, a lot of stuff on Instagram etc.

[Hardkill]

2 hours ago, Federico del pueblo said:

You probably have the best chances by becoming a fitness freak who has status within the fitness industry, like a yt channel, a lot of stuff on Instagram etc.

That's extremely unlikely to happen given how competitive it is.

Besides, most of the hot fitness and athletic girls that I've come across who were 9s and 10s had boyfriend or husbands who had no status in the fitness industry.

Edited August 23, 2022 by Hardkill

[Raze]

You have to go where those girls go. Try spin class or pole dancing class. But if you go to the class just to awkwardly hit on every woman that probably won’t work.

Try martial arts graduations or conventions. 

Edited August 23, 2022 by Raze

[integral]

I just don't get it. do you need to have sex with them to realize your experience with them will be identical to any other woman?

[BlessedLion]

Bro I think you should do it. Don’t listen to them, follow your karma and experience this. Although it is ultimately a shallow distraction it sounds like you need to get it out of your system. 
 

once I was at a gym and saw a beautiful blonde with a body that was out of this world. I just walked up to her and said “Jesus I’m trying to work out here you’re distracting the shit out of me!” In a fun and flirty joking way. 
 

2 nights later we had sex and even a couple of nights of dates/sex

 

so my advice. Sack up, and cold approach the girls you are interested in. Just stay cool, respectful and fun because it could be creepy if done wrong 

[Nilsi]

Become the kind of person a 10/10 would want to date - it's not that complicated.

[BlessedLion]

And have balls…

[Raptorsin7]

@Lila9 But can't you make similar statements about any trait you find attractive?

If a man chooses a woman solely on her integrity and kindness, then wouldn't that be objectifying a different trait and then you could say well you only love me because of my integrity and kindness?

And how much of attraction between partners can be based on physical factors before it becomes unhealthy iyo? 

Do you have little to no physical standards? You wouldn't mind a guy who's 5ft0, skinny, poor posture etc?

[Roy]

If you want to sleep with the hottest/fittest women just go to an escort service. It's like $300 which is ironically probably less than what you'd spend before getting in bed with one the regular way LOL.

[mr_engineer]

Improve your validation-game. 

If you want someone this hot this bad, you have the potential to validate them. You just have to find someone who has that kind of body and who needs validation and you gotta give it to them. 

This is easier said than done. I'm just giving you a clue. HTH! 

[spiritual memes]

hit the gym and get SWOLEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

[Raptorsin7]

@Lila9 Okay yeah I see where you're coming from now. Thanks for sharing that was a well written response

[Hardkill]

On 8/23/2022 at 2:08 PM, Roy said:

If you want to sleep with the hottest/fittest women just go to an escort service. It's like $300 which is ironically probably less than what you'd spend before getting in bed with one the regular way LOL.

I don't think that's the way to go, unless a guy is in his mid 20s, hasn't lost his virginity yet, and has little to no experience dating women. 

Have you ever paid for an escort?

[Raze]

On 8/22/2022 at 10:42 PM, Raze said:

You have to go where those girls go. Try spin class or pole dancing class. But if you go to the class just to awkwardly hit on every woman that probably won’t work.

Try martial arts graduations or conventions. 

To add usually very attractive girls get private martial arts coaching as they don’t want to do it with weird guys, but they do show up to graduations and conventions.

Some other actives hot athletic women go to are ballerina and hip hop dance class.

7 hours ago, Hardkill said:

I don't think that's the way to go, unless a guy is in his mid 20s, hasn't lost his virginity yet, and has little to no experience dating women. 

Have you ever paid for an escort?

Ignore this guy. You learn nothing from escorts, build no social intelligence or connections, and it’s illegal. It can also be addictive. Not to mention std risk. Genuinely stupid advice.

Edited August 26, 2022 by Raze