Dilemma about sleeping with escorts

[assx95]

I haven't yet slept with an escort or anyone. This could be a sensitive topic. 

Women who are escorts, especially in the third world, I find it hard to believe that they are doing it willingly. There is so much taboo about sex that these women seem out of place doing this. 

Are escorts any different than Pornstars? I will have no dilemma in paying a famous pornstar say Mia Khalifa or a model, good cash in exchange for sex cause I know she's doing it willingly. I can't say the same for an escort who I know nothing about. 

I don't know if I am indulging in exploitation, cause if it is, then it is low key rape cause I am doing sex with her against her will. If with her will, then only for money, which is her compulsion to survive. 

I don't want just sex, I want sex w/ a girl who I find erotic and attractive, and who is doing it willingly, it could be a normal girl or an escort, I don't care. I just don't want to harm women or mess up their energy or their mind unknowingly or knowingly. 

[Leo Gura]

Dude, the girl making your coffee is hardly doing it willingly.

With that said, prostitution definitely fucks up a girl's whole mind. But then again, the only reason a girl begins prostitution is because her mind is already fucked up.

[musicalwatch]

Well.... I've done it 4 times. First woman was unattractive and tried to pity talk me about how poor I am, etc. I got tired of talking and told her to suck me off. It was bad, I didn't get aroused at all and left
Second looked nothing like the pictures and about 30 years older. I went with it, and it was bad, no arousal whatsoever.
Third one was fun but probably messed up on drugs. I had to initiate to have sex with her, otherwise she would just keep telling some stories. Then she told me "Hey! It is called making love, not clubbing someone to death!!!". I apologized and kept going. Then she told me "Pick up the condom and toss it in the toilet"
Fourth one was sweet, and was just a girl struggling with money while going to college or so she said. BUT I jerked off before seeing her, she could immediately tell. It was dumb

I don't recommend it

[Chives99]

I think using online esocrts are more ethical because they're creating their own profiles and doing it because thats how they want to make money rather some shitty 9-5 job, definitely useful for getting some sexual experience when you're clueless

[Roy]

On 8/11/2022 at 0:17 PM, assx95 said:

Are escorts any different than Pornstars? I will have no dilemma in paying a famous pornstar say Mia Khalifa or a model, good cash in exchange for sex cause I know she's doing it willingly. I can't say the same for an escort who I know nothing about. 

There is really no empirical difference between prostitution and pornography, they are both exchanging sexual services for money. The only difference is one does it with the purpose of being filmed.

For some reason recorded exchanges have a ton more legal flexibility, which legitimizes it. While the less legal exchanges are prone to more sketchy behavior.

I mean yea you don't know the escort, but you're only going to pay her $300 and you'll be paying Mia Khalifa like $3000.