Girlfriend won't let me watch porn...

[Tyler Robinson]

3 hours ago, Devin said:

@Tyler Robinson

I can masturbate easily and I haven't looked at porn in years, and it's a much better and fulfilling experience now.

Also, there are girls that orgasm quicker than me (male). I thought most girls can cum in a few minutes

Nope. Not my experience. I don't know how you guys manage it but good for you. For me I've always needed imagination. Maybe I'm just not used to something you're saying. 

[Devin]

1 hour ago, Tyler Robinson said:

Nope. Not my experience. I don't know how you guys manage it but good for you. For me I've always needed imagination. Maybe I'm just not used to something you're saying. 

Your sexuality

Edited August 11, 2022 by Devin

[Tyler Robinson]

1 minute ago, Devin said:

your sexuality

My sexuality is just my sexual fetishes and fantasies that is all and I crave dominance in the bed. To each his own, way of fulfilling the selves. 

 

[Devin]

1 minute ago, Tyler Robinson said:

My sexuality is just my sexual fetishes and fantasies that is all and I crave dominance in the bed. To each his own, way of fulfilling the selves. 

 

I don't think that's sexuality at all, that's all ego

[Tyler Robinson]

19 minutes ago, Devin said:

I don't think that's sexuality at all, that's all ego

How is that even remotely associated with ego lol? 

[Devin]

12 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

How is that even remotely associated with ego lol? 

Because you wouldn't have fetishes and fantasies without the outside world

Just look at how you wrote the previous post, you said "my" sexuality, "my" fetishes and fantasies

It's from fear, otherwise they wouldn't be "yours"

Edited August 11, 2022 by Devin

[Tyler Robinson]

2 minutes ago, Devin said:

Because you wouldn't have fetishes and fantasies without the outside world

Just look at how you wrote the previous post, you said "my" sexuality

Yea because it belongs to me lol, as in a personal sense. Why would I say "our" sexuality when I don't know if others are into it or not. 

 

[Tyler Robinson]

@Devin you fulfill yourself your way, I fulfill myself my way. Don't see why there is a problem here. Just that I was never aware of your way. It sounded too unnatural to me. 

[Devin]

3 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

Yea because it belongs to me lol, as in a personal sense. Why would I say "our" sexuality when I don't know if others are into it or not. 

 

No you wouldn't say ours either. Fantasies and fetishes aren't sexuality

[Tyler Robinson]

Just now, Devin said:

No you wouldn't say ours either. Fantasies and fetishes aren't sexuality

Then I'm waiting for you to explain what sexuality is. Please go ahead. 

 

[Devin]

2 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

Then I'm waiting for you to explain what sexuality is. Please go ahead. 

 

Experiencing and expressing yourself sexually. Fantasies and fetishes are just during sex, but they're purely superficial, they're not sex

[Tyler Robinson]

Just now, Devin said:

Experiencing and expressing yourself sexually.

You're being too vague. What does this even mean? Any elaboration? Any example? Any structure? 

How do you express yourself sexually (I'm talking about you in the person)? 

(BTW I already knew you would be vague) 

 

[Devin]

13 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

@Devin you fulfill yourself your way, I fulfill myself my way. Don't see why there is a problem here. Just that I was never aware of your way. It sounded too unnatural to me. 

I'm not saying what you do is wrong, I just don't think you know your sexuality

[Devin]

9 minutes ago, Something Funny said:

I think I disagree with you here. You are just getting into the pointless argument regarding semantics and definitions.

Most people would consider those part of your sexuality. Depending on how you define it. And who is to say that your definition is the supreme one?

It feels like you don't  want to consider them "sexuality" so that it can have a nicer more profound meaning to you.

Also, I can't help but feel that you are being judgemental and are talking down to her with the way your posts are worded.

Yeah, it's fair to say semantics but I think there is a more profound meaning here that's being hidden by fetishes and fantasies

Well hopefully if we come full circle it won't seem like I'm attacking her, I think I'm just attacking the idea not the person but I'm tired, just woke up in middle of the night and checked my phone

Edited August 11, 2022 by Devin

[Devin]

8 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

You're being too vague. What does this even mean? Any elaboration? Any example? Any structure? 

How do you express yourself sexually (I'm talking about you in the person)? 

(BTW I already knew you would be vague) 

 

"basic" sex

[Tyler Robinson]

@Devin but sex also involves fetishes too. I just don't get you. There's also sex without fetishes. 

There's food with garnishing and without garnishing. 

I'm missing your point entirely or you're being comically vague. 

 

[Devin]

14 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

@Devin but sex also involves fetishes too. I just don't get you. There's also sex without fetishes. 

There's food with garnishing and without garnishing. 

I'm missing your point entirely or you're being comically vague. 

 

It's more like saying dinner can be with a show

[Nilsi]

54 minutes ago, Devin said:

Because you wouldn't have fetishes and fantasies without the outside world

Just look at how you wrote the previous post, you said "my" sexuality, "my" fetishes and fantasies

It's from fear, otherwise they wouldn't be "yours"

What are you saying? Without the outside world there wouldn't be sex in the first place.

[integral]

i've been visualizing and masturbating to my crushes the moment i unlocked the secrets of the penis.

I guess that's also porn.

While we are at it make sure you stop making eye contact with women, that's also a sign of porn.

The signs are everywhere. You just need to look for them. 

Edited August 11, 2022 by integral

[Devin]

19 minutes ago, Nilsi said:

What are you saying? Without the outside world there wouldn't be sex in the first place.

That fantasies and fetishes are not ours in the original sense, they're from deceptions we believe. Sex is ours though, purely

Some fetishes can be as well

Edited August 11, 2022 by Devin