Describe your ideal girlfriend

[Someone here]

A round for you guys..describe your ideal girlfriend.

What would she look like physically? (hair color, eyes, body type)
What kind of a personality would she have? (shy, humorous, looks-like-she-always-has-her-shit-together kind of person?)
How would you want her to act?
Any turn-offs? (too clingy, not clingy enough)

If you already have a girlfriend, what features do you like/not like about her?

For me in terms of physical appearance..I l adore blondes ..slim fit body. Height doesn't really matter, I like feminine bodies. In shape but not an athlete. Don't care about boobies, as long as they are not overly big lol  , butts are cool too.

 In terms of personality traits: One who knows what she's doing. I don't have to coach her how to keep me interested, she doesn't have to play games.

She flirts with me back, and is sometimes better at it than me. She texts back, and texts stuff that is interesting that makes me want to keep the conversation going. Very intelligent. 

What about you guys ?

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Edited July 27, 2022 by Someone here

[Someone here]

1 minute ago, Something Funny said:

@Someone here

She is genuinely attracted to me and I am genuinely  attracted to her. I don't  care about look soecifics as long as there is an attraction. 

She loves me for eho I am, I don't  need to pretend to be a superman around her.

We have a very special, deep, and intimate connection.

She is passionate, confident, and assertive. Nows what she wants out of her life.

She is into personal develolment and spirituality or is open-minded enough to get into it.

She lives a enerally healthy lifestyle. Doesn't smoke and drink.

She cares about the environment. Being vegan is a plus.

She is chill, not neurotic. Being more of an introvert is a plus.

She has a mature, well developed feminine energy.

All personality traits .

Why did you dismiss looks ? Are you trying to tell me you would accept an ugly girl with these personality traits rather than a beautiful girl without all or some of these traits ?

[Someone here]

@Something Funny fair enough. I respect your priorities. 

[something_else]

I don't really give that much credibility to MBTI, but the ENFP personality type seems to pretty accurately describe my ideal personality in a girl. Bubbly, confident, slightly clumsy and messy but in a cute way, creative, open minded.

In terms of appearance I like really short girls with a nice figure. I care more about body than facial aesthetics. Not too fussed about hair colour. Ginger girls definitely have a unique appeal though.

I also really like girls who have eyes with a strong positive canthal tilt. Eyes that look really mysterious and intriguing.

[Someone here]

3 minutes ago, something_else said:

I don't really give that much credibility to MBTI, but the ENFP personality type seems to pretty accurately describe my ideal personality in a girl. Bubbly, confident, slightly clumsy and messy but in a cute way, creative, open minded.

In terms of appearance I like really short girls with a nice figure. I care more about body than facial aesthetics. Not too fussed about hair colour. Ginger girls definitely have a unique appeal though.

I also really like girls who have eyes with a strong positive canthal tilt. Eyes that look really mysterious and intriguing.

I agree with the short thing .I too find short thin girl super cute and attractive.  Not really into huge ass and tits .

But I do care about facial beauty. That's the number one turn on for me.  And a blonde hair mixed with blue hypnotic eyes are a killer for me 

[Tyler Robinson]

I'm trans.

So my ideal gf would be 

• Cute
• Nice voice
• Humble 
• Sweet 
• Elegant 
• Submissive
• Caring 
• Creative
• Giggly

[Someone here]

18 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

Cute

Nice voice

Humble 

Sweet 

Elegant 

Submissive

Caring 

Creative

Giggly

Agree with all of these .

19 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

I'm trans

Are you a woman who turned into a man ?or a man who turned into a woman ? Probably the first one but your profile pic looks like a female .

[Tyler Robinson]

Just now, Someone here said:

Agree with all of these .

Are you a woman who turned into a man ?or a man who turned into a woman ? Probably the first one but your profile pic looks like a female .

I'm mixed. Can't explain. It's ok. I was born a woman. But now I'm a man.

[Someone here]

6 minutes ago, Tyler Robinson said:

I'm mixed. Can't explain. It's ok. I was born a woman. But now I'm a man.

May I ask you what made you take that decision (to turn into a man ). Did you feel that you was born into the wrong body ? I'm really curious because this is a sensitive area that I have not much knowledge or experience in..so I wanna hear more about your story,if you don't mind .

[integral]

Anyone who can take in all the love I want to give them. 

[Jannes]

Physically I like brown hair, brown eyes and and white skin with a bit of brownness to it and also a touch or orange/redness in it. 5.9feet (I am 6.1). Healthy body fat and a surpreme booty and general athletic (nothing crazy) look from working out. Middle size tits with a good shape to it.

I definetly want her to feel attracted to me and that I bring value to her life.
Authenticity is my number one trait. I want us to eye gaize all the time and find energy through that deep connection. Maybe a shared tiredness of human bullshit and the relief that we can be completely ourself and talk about our deepest guilt, shame, … when we are together and know that we accept ourself for it because we see ourself in each other and we of course now that we are limited ourself.

Generally at least a bit of access to tier 2 thinking. A bit of interest in real spirituality. Maybe just an intuition that there is some higher force that although you can’t really grasp it you also can’t deny it. You can’t see it but it is the realist thing there is. (that’s me lol ?) Or maybe she could even be really advanced in spirituality but there needs to be something at least. 

I think some balance between strong and independent and caring and dependent is good for me. Good social skills but not interested to do something with people everyday. Vivid energy but also chill time. 

Of course humor, sexy feminine energy, creativity, cuteness, healthy lifestyle, .. hmm don’t know what else right now but I am a bit tired and can’t think so good.  

[Pavement]

Quirky, moody, has own style, changes hair colour/cut often, humble, loving, down to earth, mysterious, eccentric, outsider, speaks mind, shy, shows different emotions, social but not too much, independent, likes nature, takes health seriously, into personal development, doesn’t follow others, creative, honest, notices stuff. Notices people. Silly and with sense of humour. 
*describing my gf* 

Edited July 27, 2022 by Pavement

[integral]

A copy of me but female would likely work very well. 

[Yarco]

Best all-around person that actually exists (face + body + personality, political leanings, etc, full package), either Lauren Southern or Shoe0nhead would be top-tier.

Ideal face+body I've seen on a pornstar: Dillion Harper, Caprice, Evelin Stone are pretty much a 3-way tie, each has their pros and cons.

Either blonde or brunette is fine.

Super petite/slim body (where she might be 25 but you wonder at first if she's really 18+) but with C or D cup. Not a butt guy so doesn't factor in.

Short, under 5' and less than 110 lbs ideal, no more than 5'6". A thick/chubby girl isn't out of the question though as long as she carries it well and not just rolls of fat.

Ideal family background Russian, Czech, Polish, or most Eastern European countries, maybe Japanese. (No 1st generation immigrants with annoying accents.)

18 - 32

Submissive with me but strong personality with everyone else and in her career. But can step up and make decisions when I'm being indecisive about what to have for dinner, etc (knows me better than I know myself.) Somewhat paradoxically, also kind of a mommy-gf that's super caring and supportive, drives me everywhere, comforting, etc.

Encourages me to be the best version of myself, but can read my mind and knows when I want feedback and when I'd interpret it as being naggy.

Personality-wise I've been with girls that are extroverts and excessively positive and bubbly, as well as super cynical with dry humor introverts, I'm not sure if I have a preference one way or the other. Probably an extrovert just for outward appearance and perception by others.

Earns at least $100k/year, enough to support both of us if I just don't feel like working, or just want to work on personal projects for years that won't earn an income, and has to be okay with that.

No vegans, no gluten-free or other really restrictive allergies. Vegetarians who will occasionally bend the rule and have a burger, or someone who eats chicken/fish but not pork/beef is ideal.

Decent at cooking/cleaning and general housekeeping stuff. Doesn't have to be great, just not clueless.

No severe mental illness (bipolar, schizo, debilitating depression). Strong genetics, no significant genetic diseases in her family.)

Limited need for socializing, won't be dragging me out to group events every week. No male friends.

I like a clingy girl with abandonment issues that is constantly begging me not to leave her and needs constant reinforcement that she's mine.

Ideally her mom is hot, as that's probably the best predictor that she will also age well.

 

Turn offs: Any body hair (she has to be meticulous about it), more than 1 or 2 tiny tattoos, smoking, drinking, drugs, 5 or more previous sexual partners

[Jannes]

Just now, Judy2 said:

Wow, is that supposed to be a joke?

I also wanted to comment but I mean this is about the ideal girlfriend so it doesn’t have to be realistic. 

[Yarco]

4 hours ago, Judy2 said:

Wow, is that supposed to be a joke?

Not a joke. My wife is like 8/10 for the criteria I've listed. Biggest thing I'd change is that she leans left politically. 

You guys are in a bubble of spiritual highly-actualized people here. One person insists there is no such thing as ugly and it's entirely subjective. HAHA. Everyday people out in society don't think that way. The majority of guys want many of the things I listed, except the average guy is probably even more misogynistic than me and strict with gender roles (ie they wouldn't want their gf earning more than them.) Welcome to stage orange, guys.

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sure he can have his preferances/dreams:) They seem a bit unhealthy is all. Like they are built on his own insecurities.

What, you want me to build my ideal girlfriend around duplicating my strengths instead? Your partner should fill in the gaps for you, why would you want redundancy?

I never said my ideal fantasy was healthy. If you ask me what I'd do with $500M my response would be pretty unhealthy as well 

Edited July 28, 2022 by Yarco