Cannot Forget My Ex - An Ego Thing?

[Anna]

On ‎12‎.‎02‎.‎2016 at 11:57 AM, The Alchemist said:

It's always hard to get over your first love. But I think it's unfair to your new boyfriend if you keep thinking about the ex. How can you give 100% in this relationship and love your new boyfriend 100% if the ex is still lingering in the back of your mind? Are you really happy with the new boyfriend? Maybe he cannot give you something that your ex was able to give you...maybe even it's true love. 

Maybe you need to resolve something with your ex, maybe you need to meditate a lot.

I agree with that.

I had the same situation till last year. It took me 2 years to figure out what's wrong. I always thought of my ex and already had a new boyfriend. I broke up with the new boyfriend telling him I don't behave fair and have to clear my mind. I took my time to think about everything and came to the conclusion that I definitely needed the conversation with the ex my mind couldn't get rid off. We talked to each other and it really helped me to let go. (After our conversation we never met again.)

So you should think about what could help you. It's not wrong to remember the good times, but you have strong reasons why you broke up. Don't forget that.

Edited February 26, 2016 by Anna

[Elton]

@Stelka  start dating someone else. Any one who makes you sexually active.

[Jay Brown]

@Stelka To be honest, I used to be exactly like your ex with one of my ex, however I understand what your going through cause i have been in your position too, the solution is very simple you just need to block all ways of you communicating or being able to see him pictures mutual friends etc anything stay happy with your new guy and go on a adventure have spontaneous sex be wild feel the rush, only too forget him not that you went crazy over night  .. 

 

Hope it helps