My Insight On Women Psychology After Meeting A Woman Online

[Mesopotamian]

I met this girl about 6 months ago online, she's an American-Chinese girl, and out of necessity, she did let me into her personal life in exchange for asking my advice for a romantic relationship she is having with a Middle Eestern guy. It was an enlightening experience for me, and especially in the light of the development that happened since my last failed relationship about four years ago, and we are now not talking after I tried to set boundries with her when it comes to access for my time. She didn't like what I said apparently and I don't know, maybe she's a bit angry when I mentioned to her that I need to limit the time we are talking on the phone, but anyways here are some of my remarks which in my opinion can be a good interpretation for the dating reality, therefore I am generalizing here:

1-Girls like cute guys, they try to imagine how would it feel to be with a cute guy, someone who's taller than them (how would it feel if he hugs me? probably I am going to fit well in his arms), and this didn't make me sad because I don't fit the category, on the contrary, this makes me feel pity for cute guys, because all those girls who are around them are probably not interested in them genuinely (although they think the opposite), and this certainly won't push me to look good and become one of those cute guys that women wants to be with.

2-Girls have a sense of urgency. Time for girls are measured in days, minutes and hours, and they want good things to happen to them almost instantly, they need instant results with little to no planning, unlike guys who are geared towards planning and strategizing. This way, girls are in a very disadvantage position, and their sense of urgency will certainly gets them nowhere.

3- Connection for woman is essential, she wants to be connected to as many people (mostly men) as possible, chatting with 3 different guys per day for hours and hours, phone calls included, and according to the book "The Female Brain" woman depends on connection to survive, while for us men, connection is a mere luxury, we want to connect to others when we are done from our daily business and survival activity, and just a little of that is enough to make us feel good.

4- Unlike men, Women do not interface with the outer world directly. They don't like to try to understand the world like a man does, and that's because they depend on others and the social network to get their needs met. They have little to no interest in gadgets, and they don't know how it feels for a man who is supposed to meet his need wrestling with the outer world. More often than not, I felt that she wasn't able to understand the magnitude of the problems that I am facing in life, and the daily challenges.

I'll add to the list later if I remember any other points.