Received my Worst rejection to date...and it was fun

[Vercingetorix]

This afternoon I opened a girl in a creepy way....I saw her on a cross walk but decided to walk to another direction. then when I looked back i saw she comes to my direction. So I stopped and waited for her,  ...hesitated for a few seconds and she noticed me but I said fuck it I'll do it anyway... I opened direct and was needy and shy in my voice and when I stated my intent she had this disgusted face like I'm a cockroach ? and she shouted "what? no!!! and Don't follow me!!!" That stung a bit. Fucking bitch ?

It was a good reminder for me approach detached from outcome, not needy.

After a few minutes of shame and me breathing in the insult i started to feel good, as if i faced the worst. had a few nice chats with other chicks, met my ex by chance and we had a fun conversation and later that day received a lot of attention from girls. Felt like energy flow state.

[Leo Gura]

Good

13 hours ago, Vercingetorix said:

Fucking bitch

Don't do that. Stay classy.

[Bird Larry]

@Vercingetorix Girls treat men differently upon how he approaches her, and where you approach her. For example, 

Approaching her in a midnight street where only you and her exist vs approaching her in a cafe where she sits next to you. 

The reactions are different, although there is the same person. You gotta feel the place and feel how you approach, not be logical here. 

It seems like girls see context rather than logic much more

Edited July 17, 2022 by Bird Larry

[something_else]

15 hours ago, Vercingetorix said:

Fucking bitch

Dude, it ain’t her fault you creeped her out, calm down

Edited July 17, 2022 by something_else

[Bird Larry]

@something_else You must have a brain of an elephant. 

Edited July 17, 2022 by Bird Larry

[Breakingthewall]

thanks for reminding me to go to the first, direct. Letting it go and then going to the second chance seems weird. but at the end it's better than nothing, so forget and to the next 

[Danioover9000]

@Vercingetorix

18 hours ago, Vercingetorix said:

This afternoon I opened a girl in a creepy way....I saw her on a cross walk but decided to walk to another direction. then when I looked back i saw she comes to my direction. So I stopped and waited for her,  ...hesitated for a few seconds and she noticed me but I said fuck it I'll do it anyway... I opened direct and was needy and shy in my voice and when I stated my intent she had this disgusted face like I'm a cockroach ? and she shouted "what? no!!! and Don't follow me!!!" That stung a bit. Fucking bitch ?

It was a good reminder for me approach detached from outcome, not needy.

After a few minutes of shame and me breathing in the insult i started to feel good, as if i faced the worst. had a few nice chats with other chicks, met my ex by chance and we had a fun conversation and later that day received a lot of attention from girls. Felt like energy flow state.

   Don't worry about it. One time I cold approached a woman in the street one afternoon, and she so coldly rejected me that she could have frozen hell twice over, calling me something along the lines of a bastard's son and the spawn of hell itself. Yikes, but luckily I reframed from that and forever decide to dress a little bit nicer.

   A friend of my wasn't lucky, as he ended up solo approaching, fighting the woman's BF he didn't noticed before cold approaching one time.

[Danioover9000]

1 minute ago, Danioover9000 said:

@Vercingetorix

   Don't worry about it. One time I cold approached a woman in the street one afternoon, and she so coldly rejected me that she could have frozen hell twice over, calling me something along the lines of a bastard's son and the spawn of hell itself. Yikes, but luckily I reframed from that and forever decide to dress a little bit nicer.

   A friend of my wasn't lucky, as he ended up solo approaching, fighting the woman's BF he didn't noticed before cold approaching one time.

   My best friend was also there at the time I got that rejected, and laughed at me for that situation, because she found it very funny how I'm called a devil's son, but the woman rejecting me was wearing lots of black and red colours as her fashion.

[something_else]

5 hours ago, Bird Larry said:

@something_else You must have a brain of an elephant. 

Huh? I don’t understand what you mean lol

[integral]

It could be a defense mechanism from being harassed a lot.

Edited July 17, 2022 by integral

[Vercingetorix]

@Leo Gura 
@something_else

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Don't do that. Stay classy.

to be clear I don't resent her. It's in good humor. I thank her for the feedback. But I have some anger on the situation that I express like that.


@Bird Larry Calibration

@Breakingthewall yeah It really helps me If I can approach the first set of the day and experience a rejection (or a good reaction.)

@Danioover9000 haha we should make a thread about funny approaching stories to give motivation to each other. I like "Sasha daygame" (and marcus) mindset of "approach and you'll have either a success or a funny story to tell". 

[Jacob Morres]

I agree with the advice here but I wouldn't want a women that looks at men like cockaroaches