80/20 Rule

[SFRL]

I like this version of the 80/20 rule. I think it's good relationship advice. 

I know there are several variations on the 80/20 rule. What's the definition of the 80/20 rule you know? 

Edited February 7, 2017 by STC

[Nahm]

Codependency.

Whenever a couple is struggling with codependency (depending on the other for their happiness) There is an 80/20 happening. Each person is focusing 80% on how they think about it, and 20% focusing on how their partner thinks about it. (Whatever the topic is)         If either person switches to focusing 100% on how they think about it, the matter soon resolves for both people and then soon seems funny and ridiculous.

[ElenaO]

 

Didn't get your idea, Phil. Could you elaborate on it?

The advice given in the video is something I haven't heard of before. I must consider. 

[clytaemnestra]

I don't think there should be any rules on how to date/attract/be with someone.

 

[jse]

Related:  the Pareto principle