I go to clubs, kiss girls, get their contact but they are not willing to go on dates.

[Karmadhi]

3 hours ago, Tudo said:

Then where I'm going to find one? The only other option I have is to try daygame. Tinder doesn't work for me.

I think clubs are the only option for me

Social circle

Activites

Daygame

Tbh daygame i know like 10 guys that got gfs from it, they got laid a lot from nightgame but found their gf from daygame. They mix quite well. Just dont be creepy and u re good to go haha

[Roy]

3 hours ago, Tudo said:

Then where I'm going to find one? The only other option I have is to try daygame. Tinder doesn't work for me.

I think clubs are the only option for me.

School, work, friends, day game, online dating, even bars.

Anything is better than clubs.

[Tudo]

@Razard86 Ok, I will definitely try it.

[Tudo]

@something_else @Karmadhi @Roy  Thank you guys for the tips. I will try these things.

[somegirl]

On 6/5/2022 at 2:53 PM, Tudo said:

Any Idea of what may be the problem? 

You're meeting them at the club, that's where the problem lays

[something_else]

2 hours ago, somegirl said:

You're meeting them at the club, that's where the problem lays

Why is this a problem?

[somegirl]

11 minutes ago, something_else said:

Why is this a problem?

Because people you meet at the clubs are not relationship materials usually. They look for a fling or fun, rarely a long commitment. 

[Karmadhi]

1 hour ago, something_else said:

Why is this a problem?

The way i see it is:

Bars and clubs: Casual stuff, one night stands etc

Daygame, Social circle, activites: GFs

Very steriotypical but the base idea.

[Thought Art]

a lot of girls are probably just their to have fun don't play boyfriend card

[something_else]

2 hours ago, somegirl said:

Because people you meet at the clubs are not relationship materials usually. They look for a fling or fun, rarely a long commitment. 

Because regular people don’t party?

Especially in like the 18-25 age range it’s literally just normal people who go out partying, especially students. Yea, they’re gonna be a bit less serious on the whole, but they’re just normal people, many of whom want relationships too

And yea, typically things start pretty casual if you meet at clubs but transitioning that into something more serious is not really out of the question

[somegirl]

2 hours ago, something_else said:

Especially in like the 18-25 age range it’s literally just normal people who go out partying, especially students. Yea, they’re gonna be a bit less serious on the whole, but they’re just normal people, many of whom want relationships too

And yea, typically things start pretty casual if you meet at clubs but transitioning that into something more serious is not really out of the question

I've been going out ever since I waa 19 and I see people my age in their early 20s and younger people, and so far my friends and I have come across people who are straight up not looking for anything serious, they're being flaky, non-responsive to texts etc.

I've managed to find a bf in the club though, but he was working there, didn't drink. So in that sense you can find someone, but in most cases people usually go there to drink, get wasted and have fun one night stands and makeouts.