Would it be unhealthy to love someone dangerous?

[Preety_India]

What if I love my stalker knowing and being aware that he can kill me in a fit of rage. Would it be unhealthy? 

Would it be a sin to love such a person? 

Leo talks about ideal love and how the other person's selfishness should be accepted. 

What if I develop deep sexual intimacy and deep mental/emotional intimacy with my stalker and fall in love with him and not care about how dangerous he can be. 

 

[BipolarGrowth]

21 minutes ago, Preety_India said:

What if I love my stalker knowing and being aware that he can kill me in a fit of rage. Would it be unhealthy? 
Most people consider death to be the opposite of health. 

Would it be a sin to love such a person? 
A sin in what sense? I don’t think you’ll be punished by anything other than the potentially brutal or underdeveloped nature of the person you’re trying to love. 

Leo talks about ideal love and how the other person's selfishness should be accepted. 
I’m fairly certain this would be outside the scope of what Leo is suggesting, at least on the practical level. 

What if I develop deep sexual intimacy and deep mental/emotional intimacy with my stalker and fall in love with him and not care about how dangerous he can be. 

Then you might both heal each other of all inadequacies and live in an upper-middle class suburb with a white picket fence. Or you might be killed. Realistically, the reality of what will unfold will likely not be either one of these extremes. It will probably just be a rather dysfunctional relationship that blows up eventually leaving you thinking that being romantically involved with someone else would have been better. 
 

A stalker probably has a lot of psychological issues, and this might be the basis for a quite chaotic situation. You can undoubtedly find a better partner for yourself if you wish.  

I hope this helps. 

[Leo Gura]

Watch the last 10 mins of the video.

[Thought Art]

Last 20?

[BuddhistLover]

@Preety_India xNFJ's love being stalked. It's a deep fantasy to those types of people. Hey, if it makes you happier to be that way, then go for it. 

But please:

1. Set healthy boundaries

2. Take Care of Yourself

3. Don't make relationships about money

And remember relationships transfer over to the next life.

Edited May 23, 2022 by BuddhistLover

[Raze]

Yes it is unhealthy because you are putting yourself at unnecessary risk. It likely isn’t love but unhealthy attachment.

[Preety_India]

6 hours ago, BuddhistLover said:

@Preety_India xNFJ's love being stalked. It's a deep fantasy to those types of people. Hey, if it makes you happier to be that way, then go for it. 

But please:

1. Set healthy boundaries

2. Take Care of Yourself

3. Don't make relationships about money

And remember relationships transfer over to the next life.

Best advice. 

Thanks fellow INFJ