How do you discover your own love language?

[Preety_India]

I came across this term "love language" recently and I'm fascinated by it. I didn't know people had their own unique love languages. 

How can anyone know what their love language is? 

 

[Elton]

@Preety_India there is book 5 languages of love... 

So there are these 5 languages of love 

Touch

Time 

Gifts 

Words of affirmation 

Acts of service 

 

Which one of these you would like the most that is your love language 

[EternalForest]

@Elton Thanks for sharing that. Some other questions she can ask based on those 5:

Think back to any moments in your life where people bought you gifts. Did these things increase your love for them?

What about giving gifts to others? Is that something you do out of obligation or deeper meaning?

How much time do you find yourself wanting to spend with your loved ones?

Can gifts, words of affirmation or acts of service truly replace quality time for you?

How intimate do you find yourself in long term relationships vs. in person ones?

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There are also some great tests online you can take to find your love language.

https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language

[Realms of Wonder]

Here is a test hat shows what your love languages are (in relation to the five already mentioned and in the book "The 5 Love Languages)

 

https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language

[Preety_India]

@Realms of Wonder I'm going to take that quiz. Thank you 

 

[Lise]

You will discover this when you've been in a relationship. I would not get too theoretical about it.